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I just realised I keep hearing phrases like “Man up”, “I want a man to be a man”, “Be a better man” and so on. It seems when women say that it’s an acceptable plea, but I think the reaction would be wholly different if us geezahs were to say “I want woman to be a woman”. There’d be an immediate reply of “And what the FUCK do you mean by that??!!!”
Doncha fink?
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"I really hate the phrase " man up "... it's that sort of bollocks that leads to the deaths of so many men under the age of 40...  let's just all love and respect each other..."
1 million percent this ⬆️ |
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I know you’re just joking but… I’m one of those people that still believes there actually are differences between men and women, and that’s totally ok.
We’re still all equals and we still have the vast majority of behaviours in common. But there’s definitely different strengths and weaknesses to both. (Obviously there are exceptions).
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"“I want a man to be a man”"
Apart from this one, I tend to hear those more from other men. 🤷♀️ Dads telling their sons not to cry and that they're ok when they hurt themselves. And it's really toxic. Don't put this just on women Felix 😘
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"“I want a man to be a man”
Apart from this one, I tend to hear those more from other men. 🤷♀️ Dads telling their sons not to cry and that they're ok when they hurt themselves. And it's really toxic. Don't put this just on women Felix 😘
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Why not?
Women grrrrrr |
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By *enk15Man 19 hours ago
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"“I want a man to be a man”
Apart from this one, I tend to hear those more from other men. 🤷♀️ Dads telling their sons not to cry and that they're ok when they hurt themselves. And it's really toxic. Don't put this just on women Felix 😘
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Yep! Family members and even strangers have told my kids “Big boys don’t cry”
So I have to step in and reassure them that they can actually express their emotions. |
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"Maybe time for men to start saying "what the fuck do you mean by that?"
That is going straight in my auto response repertoire! 👍 Mr x"
It's becoming more common for women to call out similar stupid sayings about women. Men need to do it too.
In fact women and men need to back each other up on this. |
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Women over the ages have sought strong "men" who can nuture, protect and be a family with them. The phrase will never go away, as it's a core belief.
In current days, many are realising more that being "a man" can come in many guises, mental health support is tons better now, than as close as 20 years ago when the man who had mental health issues, would resort to DV and it was an acceptable practice.
I guess balance is key, men owning up to mental health is important, so many brush it under the carpet where it can fester and destroy families |
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"I want a man to be a man.
I want a woman to be a woman.
What do these statements actually mean?
Toxic, extreme gender ideals usually.
And homophobia and transphobia. "
There’s a huge irony and hypocrisy to this, because isn’t even the concept of being trans connected to a stereotypical idea of what a man or a woman should be?
For example a man might “feel” like he’s a woman. But how can that be, if you think there’s no difference between men and a women? |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Could you define " proper woman " please...
old school women
not these modern ones that think they wear the trousers "
But I do wear trousers   ... what do you mean by old school though? |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Could you define " proper woman " please...
old school women
not these modern ones that think they wear the trousers "
😂
Oh Poe's Law, I do love you. |
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By *agic.MMan 19 hours ago
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*"
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭 |
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭"
Damn you 🤣🤣🤣 |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond "
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word. |
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭"
I'll give you one  |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word. "
I will bring glitter  |
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭
I'll give you one "
Can I watch 🤪 |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word. "
thanks for the offer but no |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
I will bring glitter "
Fab. Just remember we need MAN glitter. Manly glitter. Grrrr. Etc |
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By *agic.MMan 19 hours ago
Orpington |
"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭
I'll give you one
Can I watch 🤪"
Join us  |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond "
100%. Diamonds are like fossils too.
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭
I'll give you one
Can I watch 🤪
Join us "
That may take a bit of persua....oh fuck it ..IN 🤣 |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
I will bring glitter
Fab. Just remember we need MAN glitter. Manly glitter. Grrrr. Etc "
All chunky and full of jizz |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
I will bring glitter
Fab. Just remember we need MAN glitter. Manly glitter. Grrrr. Etc
All chunky and full of jizz"
Enough about me what about the glitter? |
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
I will bring glitter
Fab. Just remember we need MAN glitter. Manly glitter. Grrrr. Etc
All chunky and full of jizz
Enough about me what about the glitter? "
I think I actually love you Glow 🤣😍 |
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"Maybe time for men to start saying "what the fuck do you mean by that?"
This^
(Although it may risk their chance of sex so they won't)
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Why would you sleep with someone that says that in the first place?  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 19 hours ago
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"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
thanks for the offer but no"
Quite right! None of this namby-pamby stuff. I like men to be proper, manly men, too. Really gets my heart a-flutter.  |
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"The phrase "man up" is so triggering for me that I immediately have to listen to Rihanna's "man down" just to combat it 😑
*I will not sexualise this comment*
Man up and just sexualise this comment 🤭
I'll give you one
Can I watch 🤪
Join us "
Oh definitely |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 19 hours ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"love a proper women
becoming a rare thing these days sadly
Much like your sex life I imagine, with that attitude.
hardly
not many of us proper fellas left
like a rare diamond
I know the feeling. Let’s form a song n dance troupe to spread the word.
I will bring glitter
Fab. Just remember we need MAN glitter. Manly glitter. Grrrr. Etc
All chunky and full of jizz
Enough about me what about the glitter? "
Well, you'll probably need quite a lot if you're *that* chunky. But the good news is, if there's enough jizz, your won't have any trouble getting it to stick. |
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By *oo..Woman 19 hours ago
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Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭 |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭"
is right love
sense at last |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭"
I'll laugh off a lot of stuff and some I'll call out in a teasing way. I'll mentally put them in my "wanker" file though. |
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By *agic.MMan 18 hours ago
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"Maybe time for men to start saying "what the fuck do you mean by that?"
This^
(Although it may risk their chance of sex so they won't)
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I did...her reply was " a real man would know what it means" |
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By *aiducMan 18 hours ago
Chelmsford |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭"
I don't think anyone uses these phrases in a spiteful way, but they reinforce negative stereotypes around inherent gender qualities.
And I imagine I'm the one who'll get shot down for saying that. |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
I don't think anyone uses these phrases in a spiteful way, but they reinforce negative stereotypes around inherent gender qualities.
And I imagine I'm the one who'll get shot down for saying that."
you probs will son
it’s cool to be offended these days |
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By *oo..Woman 18 hours ago
Boo's World |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
I don't think anyone uses these phrases in a spiteful way, but they reinforce negative stereotypes around inherent gender qualities.
And I imagine I'm the one who'll get shot down for saying that."
Which is more of a recent thing than the same phrases being used years ago.
It's an issue now, never was before |
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"I know you’re just joking but… I’m one of those people that still believes there actually are differences between men and women, and that’s totally ok.
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Other than the 2-3 physical differences, men are generally bigger and have more muscles, a cock & no tits what are the other differences you believe they are between men and women? |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭"
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛 |
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By *oo..Woman 18 hours ago
Boo's World |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛"
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂 |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂"
You have a dishwasher anyway haha |
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By *oo..Woman 18 hours ago
Boo's World |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂
You have a dishwasher anyway haha"
Obviously, I'm posh 🤭 |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂
You have a dishwasher anyway haha
Obviously, I'm posh 🤭"
This is true .. And i don't as I'm common scum  |
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By *aiducMan 18 hours ago
Chelmsford |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
I don't think anyone uses these phrases in a spiteful way, but they reinforce negative stereotypes around inherent gender qualities.
And I imagine I'm the one who'll get shot down for saying that.
Which is more of a recent thing than the same phrases being used years ago.
It's an issue now, never was before "
Things change. We understand more about psychology and how situations and language can affect people. |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂"
And I’m assuming you do it topless and get the girls all soapy? Maybe use them to clean the plates?
Ahem, I mean yes I agree with the fact women have to endure negative stereotypes too. Never seen any though. |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂
And I’m assuming you do it topless and get the girls all soapy? Maybe use them to clean the plates?
Ahem, I mean yes I agree with the fact women have to endure negative stereotypes too. Never seen any though."
Sexist 👆😆 |
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By *oo..Woman 18 hours ago
Boo's World |
"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂
And I’m assuming you do it topless and get the girls all soapy? Maybe use them to clean the plates?
Ahem, I mean yes I agree with the fact women have to endure negative stereotypes too. Never seen any though."
You've never seen a real woman Felix?
You poor man, come here i'll show you what's under my apron 🤭🤣 |
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It's a phrase I don't use anymore, because well it's not in the slightest way amusing but can damage others.
It kind of re-enforces the men don't cry mantra and they should be tough and not show emotions. And with suicide being the biggest killer of young males, I just think there are far more amusing and original ways to tease your mates. |
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"Felix
I just believe a lot of these phrases are just another thing being taken out of context 99% of the time now.
No harm is usually intended by them, especially if being said by people born back in the"good old days".
Not everyone using them is doing it in spite, and just as many phrases are said about women all the time.
And men saying them to other men.
Like the one about women having smaller feet so they can do the washing up easier.
I'd laugh it off
Others would need rehab to get over it.
And it's getting worse now with younger people making every phrase an insult, when it's not.
And yes I'll get shot down for saying the above, but it won't offend me. 🤭
Don't your boobs get in the way of washing up though 🤔😛
No, because I'm not a midget!
My tits are higher than the washing up bowl 😂
And I’m assuming you do it topless and get the girls all soapy? Maybe use them to clean the plates?
Ahem, I mean yes I agree with the fact women have to endure negative stereotypes too. Never seen any though.
You've never seen a real woman Felix?
You poor man, come here i'll show you what's under my apron 🤭🤣"
Ooo my first boobs! Thank you Boo, I just want a woman to be a woman |
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By *aiducMan 17 hours ago
Chelmsford |
"It's a phrase I don't use anymore, because well it's not in the slightest way amusing but can damage others.
It kind of re-enforces the men don't cry mantra and they should be tough and not show emotions. And with suicide being the biggest killer of young males, I just think there are far more amusing and original ways to tease your mates. "
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I remember watching the story of Simon Weston (the sailor horribly burned in the Falklands). He was crying out in pain as the medical staff were moving him and a senior surgeon was telling him to 'man up' or similar.
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Meh. I love the blessing/curse I have with the ability to see phrases used within the context and not what others choose for them to.
My brother and I have said "man up" to each other hundreds of times. And we both know exactly what is implied, and it's all based around and including support.
If somebody else told me to man up, and they may very well be saying it from a negative source but I use it as a trigger to deal with my feeling and emotion in a situation. Gather myself. Navigate it and control what I can. |
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