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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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So I'm new around these parts as a few already know . Between having a decent profile ( think I'm there haha ) there's getting verified off of people which is totally understandable. There's all these events on to explore , I'd love to go to some like derby Leeds etc but being new I'm not keen on travelling alone to them either .
I could go on I suppose but I won't do . What do the ones who've been in the lifestyle think about being a newbie nowadays ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"Put your big boy pants on and get yourself off to a club. Honestly, everyone is really friendly in clubs, just have zero expectations and chat to people best you can, you'll be fine " I've broken the ice there . It's going further afield like the attic and Pandora's . I've heard they are amazing but the size alone puts me off if I'm by myself |
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Big social events are probably the best way for a single male. I've been to a few clubs as a single guy before and a lot of single guys seem to hide away. At least that is what I've seen. Which I can completely understand as can be daunting. But if you're introverted and willing to chat to anyone, I'd recommend club visits too besides social events. |
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