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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man  |
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "
sorry to hear that hope you are ok xx |
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "
That's the second one I've seen in the fora today. Good grief. Sorry to hear that. |
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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Sorry to hear about this. Terrifying to think about losing people that mean something to you. Especially in this world. Some people might never find out. "
Yes, we are lucky in that regard. May have been easier to think he had decided to ghost us have we not learned the truth. |
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"Sorry to hear about this. Terrifying to think about losing people that mean something to you. Especially in this world. Some people might never find out.
Yes, we are lucky in that regard. May have been easier to think he had decided to ghost us have we not learned the truth."
I'm so sorry x |
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "
So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx |
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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man
So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx"
We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.
We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be. |
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man
So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx
We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.
We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be."
You were friends. Nobody needs to know anymore than that.
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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.
We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.
Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man
So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx
We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.
We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be.
You were friends. Nobody needs to know anymore than that.
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We (all 3) both kept this side of our life relatively private, the hardest thing is going to be being kept up to date with things such as a funeral date etc.
We did make contact yesterday with somebody who knew him and they said that they would keep us abreast of developments. Fingers crossed that they do. |
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Awww that’s sad. At least you have the good times as memories.
I often wonder how many old friends pass away here without anyone knowing because there’s a lot of secrecy and discretion, and people often drop off the site. At least with old friends in the real world, you have a chance of reading about it on Facebook. |
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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Awww that’s sad. At least you have the good times as memories.
I often wonder how many old friends pass away here without anyone knowing because there’s a lot of secrecy and discretion, and people often drop off the site. At least with old friends in the real world, you have a chance of reading about it on Facebook."
Precisely, so much easier with SM but we never even exchanged full names - it was something mutually agreed on at the start and it just stayed that way.
But at least we do have a contact (who is a female) so I'm gonna let Rach take point on this as it may be easier (woman to woman). |
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By *omRach OP Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Thats a real shame being so close. How did you find out"
We recalled him telling us about a shop he used to volunteer in and the area it was roughly in. He would often send photos from there & with the aid of Google etc we were able to pin down the business.
I was working in the area yesterday and called in, spoke to the manager who informed us that he had passed. |
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