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Do intelligent women turn you on?
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Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Doesn't matter if they're smarter than me, intelligence is such an attractive trait |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Most certainly
Then I don’t have to pretend I know what I’m doing |
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Neither. They are who and what they are, and who and what they are not.
Some intelligent women (but people) are insufferable, so therefore a turn off. Some are awesome and clearly enjoyable to be a round, therefore a turn on.
Same goes for those "lacking" in intelligence.
Intelligence alone is irrelevant. |
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"Most certainly
Then I don’t have to pretend I know what I’m doing"
My favourite thing  |
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By *ib.Man 14 weeks ago
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I'd say I'm definitely attracted to smarter women over the opposite.
A few have intimated me I in that way I guess, but as long as they aren't dicks about it it doesn't really matter. |
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By *HUSH-Man 14 weeks ago
London |
"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
Do they intimidate me? No
Are they most definitely smarterer than me. Yes.
Do they turn me on? Fuck yes!
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 14 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
Yes! Men too. I like to be able to have an intelligent conversation.
Of course, *they* may not be having an intelligent conversation, but then I make no guarantees about my own level of discourse.
🤣 |
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"I'd say I'm definitely attracted to smarter women over the opposite.
A few have intimated me I in that way I guess, but as long as they aren't dicks about it it doesn't really matter."
I think I’ve been intimidated before in a sense of - I’m scared to get things wrong because they definitely correct me in a certain way. Mostly I think people aren’t dicks which helps. And it is just me being super attracted to them. Like yes- teach me things. Tell me about your PHD. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Depends on their other traits and if they are a good person or not.
Intelligence by itself is absolutely cool with me. I love to learn, so I'd be happy if a person wanted to share their knowledge and experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I know my 12 times tables, just saying 😁 |
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Being smart, as in a strategist etc. isn't necessarily the same as being intelligent over a broader spectrum. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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BIG turn on ,especially if they talk posh |
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"I know my 12 times tables, just saying 😁"
Aaaaaaaaaaaand I’m turned on. |
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Not a turn on, nor a turn off. But I’d be less likely to interact with someone if I perceive there intellect to be far superior to my own.
We’d probably not get along. |
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By *abioMan 14 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
Absolutely
The 2 biggest turn on’s are a woman who can make me think.. and a woman who can make me laugh!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"I know my 12 times tables, just saying 😁
Aaaaaaaaaaaand I’m turned on. "
Might even learn it in Spanish 😘 |
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By *ags73Man 14 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Most certainly
Then I don’t have to pretend I know what I’m doing"
Great point |
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Ooh yes! We love intelligent ladies, especially if they're a bit posh too. |
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No. Being smart is a turn on for me |
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I like smarter women than ones who aren't as a rule. But as others have pointed out a smart person without the grace, humility and decency to not make others uncomfortable is not pleasant to be around. Being intelligent (like any other trait) needs to be used wisely. |
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"I know my 12 times tables, just saying 😁"
I can count up to 144 on the fingers of two hands, but I was taught how to do that by a woman! |
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Intelligence is incredibly attractive. Mental and emotional ♥️ |
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"Ooh yes! We love intelligent ladies, especially if they're a bit posh too."
I rely on this far more to bring me joy than being reasonably clever. Amazing how reverting to the RP of my boarding school days seems to work.
“Posh totty” is definitely a thing….  |
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Pickle you wouldn't want me to bang on about my PhD, it probably wouldn't be that interesting to you.
And this association with being posh and intelligent, I can only do one. And I'm certainly am not posh  |
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
Well, it is different for dating and sex. In dating, people usually interact with other who are like them, socioeconmically, intelligence, education. Guy not intelligent not gonna try pull bird from Cambridge.
For sex people just base purely off of physical attraction, so intelligent might be attractive/unattractive based on looks. Intellectual has nothing to do with casual sex.
However, scientifically, people who are more intelligent tend to be better looking. Their look is a reflection of how beneficial their gene for suvival. In best interest of humanity for those with better gene to be better looking, so they can attract more mates and have better chance of pass on better gene to next generation. So - yes - intelligent women more attractive on average. |
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I don’t associate class and intelligence. I definitely don’t associate accent with intelligence.
But class is an entirely different debate for a different thread. I’ll do that tomorrow |
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"Pickle you wouldn't want me to bang on about my PhD, it probably wouldn't be that interesting to you.
And this association with being posh and intelligent, I can only do one. And I'm certainly am not posh "
Try me.
I’m interested in what interests people |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
If they use there intelligence TO make you feel intimidated, yes. Or if theyre arrogant with it. But If they're friendly, warm and amienable with the intelligence then obviously it's a good thing. But no Im happy to be with someone academically smarted than me..if she's cool |
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There are a lot of different forms of intelligence.
I dropped out at GCSE. Doesn't mean I'm stupid, simply lacking in the formal form of education. I know people who can do the most complicated maths in their skull but can't hold a conversation to save themselves.
Someone who tries to lord their education or inferred superior intelligence over me can get straight in the bin.
But I'm happy to learn from people who know more than me. I love to share things I've learned with people who don't have the same life experience or bizarre rabbithole learning I do. Intelligence isn't much of a factor for me. Attitude about it is 💜 |
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I’m not attracted to women, but for men genuine intelligence is a joy to be around - if he’s brighter than me that’s great it feeds my DDlg . Having said that, I’ve had relationships where academically I’m the brighter and it’s surprised me how that just didn’t matter, what matters is clicking on some levels not every level |
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Love intelligent women but not many women turn me. |
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Intelligent men turn me on. Big time  |
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I'm not intimidated by intelligent women, I find them very attractive. Especially if they are at least decent looking. Ie don't have to be a model, but intelligence is definitely an Aphrodisiac.
Always admired Amal Clooney, beautiful and one of the smartest people you will meet. That's a rare and incredibly powerful combo. You have to hand it to George, he has great taste. |
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By *indowsMan 14 weeks ago
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oh yes coz you know that she's pure filth proper dirty bird  |
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"There are a lot of different forms of intelligence.
I dropped out at GCSE. Doesn't mean I'm stupid, simply lacking in the formal form of education. I know people who can do the most complicated maths in their skull but can't hold a conversation to save themselves.
Someone who tries to lord their education or inferred superior intelligence over me can get straight in the bin.
But I'm happy to learn from people who know more than me. I love to share things I've learned with people who don't have the same life experience or bizarre rabbithole learning I do. Intelligence isn't much of a factor for me. Attitude about it is 💜"
I say intelligence to be interpreted as you like.
I think when someone is more intelligent than you, as you define it, you just know. And same with when a person is just intelligent; you just know. |
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Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al |
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It's definitely an attractive quality to me, as is a powerful woman. I've never been a submissive type but there are some TV characters where I've thought, "yep, I'd be putty"! Example, Lucretia in the Spartacus TV series... |
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"I say intelligence to be interpreted as you like.
I think when someone is more intelligent than you, as you define it, you just know. And same with when a person is just intelligent; you just know. "
I guess I don't interpret it as a whole though. I think everyone in my life I know I know more than in some aspects, and less than in others. Almost everyone will know more than and be better at processing some things than I am, and vice versa depending on what the focus is.
I like people who don't worry about intelligence and just be 💜 |
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"I say intelligence to be interpreted as you like.
I think when someone is more intelligent than you, as you define it, you just know. And same with when a person is just intelligent; you just know.
I guess I don't interpret it as a whole though. I think everyone in my life I know I know more than in some aspects, and less than in others. Almost everyone will know more than and be better at processing some things than I am, and vice versa depending on what the focus is.
I like people who don't worry about intelligence and just be 💜"
Some things matter to me. And an awareness of some things matters to me. But I respect your POV. |
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The positive actions of intelligent women turn me on. Simply being intelligent isn't enough. |
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By *orny PTMan 14 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Brainy women? Yeah! Send them my way. |
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Yes, I find intelligence really attractive. Engaging in meaningful conversations and sharing ideas can be very stimulating. |
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I naively assumed that intelligence and empathy went hand in hand. I learned the hard way that they do not. Smart people can be very attractive, but only if they are emotionally savvy too. |
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Emotional intelligence is a must.
And I prefer those who can do critical thinking.
If that's all wrapped up in being nuts too, I'm sold. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Doesn't take much to be more intelligenter than me. |
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"Emotional intelligence is a must.
And I prefer those who can do critical thinking.
If that's all wrapped up in being nuts too, I'm sold."
Brazil nuts? Or pecans? |
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My IQ is over 150, please send me a lady who is better and I will let you know |
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"For once, I agree with Nero!
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...is what I am going to place on your epitaph in 200 years time, my bicentennial passionflower. 🧸 |
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"My IQ is over 150, please send me a lady who is better and I will let you know"
Is this a brag or a challenge?
By the way mine is higher 😘 |
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"Emotional intelligence is a must.
And I prefer those who can do critical thinking.
If that's all wrapped up in being nuts too, I'm sold.
Brazil nuts? Or pecans?"
Nice try. Nuts please, not seeds 😘. |
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"Emotional intelligence is a must.
And I prefer those who can do critical thinking.
If that's all wrapped up in being nuts too, I'm solid."
Nobody asked about your erection, Nicholas  |
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"Emotional intelligence is a must.
And I prefer those who can do critical thinking.
If that's all wrapped up in being nuts too, I'm solid.
Nobody asked about your erection, Nicholas "
Harsh Twisty. Harsh. If you prick me, do I not, errr, become more prick-like |
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"My IQ is over 150, please send me a lady who is better and I will let you know"
Oh oh oh, this reminds me that high IQ doesn't always mean smart. 😬 |
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Intelligence is sexy,
but so is confidence, reliability, and honesty.
But in all fairness, it doesn't take a great deal to be more intelligent than I am. Unless it concerns baby shark *eye twitch*  |
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"My IQ is over 150, please send me a lady who is better and I will let you know
Is this a brag or a challenge?
By the way mine is higher 😘"
Though she be but little |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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It does as I'm a sapiosexual |
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"It does as I'm a sapiosexual"
A what? |
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"My IQ is over 150, please send me a lady who is better and I will let you know
Oh oh oh, this reminds me that high IQ doesn't always mean smart. 😬"
IQ scores are nonsense. It's a deeply flawed method of measuring intelligence. |
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I love intelligent women, especially women more intelligent than me (not that that's difficult) - I love being able to admire a partner in any respect, not just in terms of intellect. |
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100% I find the mental attraction far stronger than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Intelligence is 🔥🔥 but so is caring and funny for me |
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Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x"
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. |
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Yes, intelligence is very attractive. And seriously smart, not passed high school intelligence.
It's not intimidating, it is exciting and fascinating.
Anyone bragging about a high IQ is probably lying. IQ tests are both pretty rare in terms of getting a serious one (and not 20 questions online) and completely unreliable as a measure of intelligence.
Posh people are not automatically intelligent. A mistake many made with Alexander Boris de Pfeffel Johnson, a blithering idiot masquerading as an intellectual because he could uncomprehendingly quote a bit of Latin. |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. "
Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x"
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. X |
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Depends how that intelligence comes through. Curiosity is a key indicator of intelligence for me amd I think that is sexy as hell.
As is an ability to say, I don't know the answer to that, lets go find out.
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By *axtenMan 14 weeks ago
Darlington |
Victoria Coren
Alice Roberts
Rachel Riley
Carol Vorders
Bring it on ladies, beautiful inside and out
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. X"
Will ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x |
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By *uzzleMan 14 weeks ago
Hastings |
Not really.
I like stupid ones, you know the sort that you can say "suck this and swallow, then you won't get covid".
Sadly, women of this stupidity level are becoming harder to find that a meet on Fab. |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x"
Let’s find out. |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. "
Oooh it fit, Mrs x |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x"
It’s only a little 🍆 |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 "
That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x"
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆 |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆"
Must be losing my touch it looks the same size haha, Mrs x |
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Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. "
https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/mr.stephen.pickle
Here you go |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆Must be losing my touch it looks the same size haha, Mrs x"
You bastard. |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. "
You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x"
I'm in some kind of discharge lounge thingy so I bloody hope so! I've ordered a Pickle sandwich for my return  |
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"Don't think intelligence is sexy per se. There has to be that 'spark'.
There has to be an initial physical attraction for me, without that everything else comes up short. That said there are plenty of beautiful people I don't find attractive, the invisible spark is missing and so they may have a great face, body whatever, it's not happening.
But there still has to be some level of basic attraction, then some evidence of a spark. Some people are essentially sexual and this can override some defects in their attractiveness but not all of it. So for me there has to be some combination of the looks I find attractive and a sexual nature, which is much harder to define.
I know some people may same I'm shallow but I say to them when was the last time you walked past a stranger in the street and thought 'OMG look at the political ideological persuasion on that guy' or some other statement based up their beliefs, knowledge, education, or personality, you haven't. It's their eyes, smile, hair, walk legs, thighs, he'll yeah thighs, that you notice first. It's these things that turn your head for that second furtive glance not their IQ.
Mrs x
That’s a long way of saying you fancy me. Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆Must be losing my touch it looks the same size haha, Mrs x
You bastard. "
It's reflects worse on me. Only a couple of years ago I'd only have to give you 'the look' and it would guarantee at least an extra inch.
I try and give the look now and it all comes crashing down, in certain lighting quite spectacular ly, Mrs x |
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"Depends how that intelligence comes through. Curiosity is a key indicator of intelligence for me amd I think that is sexy as hell.
As is an ability to say, I don't know the answer to that, lets go find out.
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Yes, very much this! Saves me formulating sentences
Mrs TMN x |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x
I'm in some kind of discharge lounge thingy so I bloody hope so! I've ordered a Pickle sandwich for my return "
Hope it's tomorrow and you're able to relax a bit more than being there, Mrs x |
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"Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆Must be losing my touch it looks the same size haha, Mrs x
You bastard. It's reflects worse on me. Only a couple of years ago I'd only have to give you 'the look' and it would guarantee at least an extra inch.
I try and give the look now and it all comes crashing down, in certain lighting quite spectacular ly, Mrs x"
You’re many things, Mrs, and one of them is attractive. |
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By *rReyMan 14 weeks ago
Fleet |
Hell yes, unless they are out witting me |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x
I'm in some kind of discharge lounge thingy so I bloody hope so! I've ordered a Pickle sandwich for my return "
You want me to fuck you? |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x
I'm in some kind of discharge lounge thingy so I bloody hope so! I've ordered a Pickle sandwich for my return Hope it's tomorrow and you're able to relax a bit more than being there, Mrs x"
I'm going to go and spread eagle myself on our bed as soon as the Return Home Inspection Team leave me be. Mr KC will then be home mid afternoon 🥳 |
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"Did someone say boing? I like a good boing. You still going home tomorrow? Mrs x
I'm in some kind of discharge lounge thingy so I bloody hope so! I've ordered a Pickle sandwich for my return
You want me to fuck you?"
I think that's on my prescription, yes. |
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By *agondaMan 14 weeks ago
Witterings |
I looked at the first post on this thread, then read the last one so far. It just proved to me that intelligence is wonderful and then others take over with nonsense ! I think the USA have just proved this theory! |
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Absolutel! There’s nothing better than a discourse on Jungian analytical theory while I’m balls deep |
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By *agondaMan 14 weeks ago
Witterings |
"Depends on their other traits and if they are a good person or not.
Intelligence by itself is absolutely cool with me. I love to learn, so I'd be happy if a person wanted to share their knowledge and experience."
And I agree with this summation |
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Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!) |
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"Show me that 'spark' haha Mrs x
You mean my cock?
Ok I’ll DM it to you. XWill ot fit in my inbox, not a euphemism before you ask haha x
Let’s find out. Oooh it fit, Mrs x
It’s only a little 🍆 That's ok I have a small inbox, contrary to the rumours, Mrs x
Stop. You’re turning me on.
Boing . 🍆Must be losing my touch it looks the same size haha, Mrs x
You bastard. It's reflects worse on me. Only a couple of years ago I'd only have to give you 'the look' and it would guarantee at least an extra inch.
I try and give the look now and it all comes crashing down, in certain lighting quite spectacular ly, Mrs x
You’re many things, Mrs, and one of them is attractive. "
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)"
Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x |
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x"
My husband will give me a truthful answer to such questions!
When I commented that I looked like shit/knackered when he visited the hospital, he agreed I did |
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By *lueseasWoman 14 weeks ago
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x"
I present to you the academic journal "Porn Studies" - totally legit too
https://www.tandfonline.com/journals/rprn20 |
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x"
I think I'm not going as far as that - it sure *can* be a factor in finding a woman attractive.
But, for me at least, not enough on its own if I don't find her physically attractive too. The world is full of clever women I don't fancy. It's also full of lots of not so clever women I don't fancy.
(And all depending on mutual attraction and all that jazz, obviously) |
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x
I present to you the academic journal "Porn Studies" - totally legit too
https://www.tandfonline.com/journals/rprn20"
Very smart woman, discussingand researching porn but I did find... "Expanding experiences and anxieties: gender-identity and sexual-orientation differences in attitudes toward synthetic pornography", somewhat derivative.
But come on, guys aren't pulling their puds to it are they, I mean that video with the two girls, one cup garnered much more views on the Internet than any thesis from one of the leading female sexologists.
Tits are sexy, in depth, analytical discussion about why the males of the species finds tits sexy is less sexy than just looking at said tits, Mrs x |
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I like intelligence.
I don't like attitude.
Never been intimidated by a woman yet. I just don't get into attitude. All.i can do is walk away so....sometimes I do |
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)Said better and more succinctly than I did.
I believe intelligence for men is not a factor in finding woman attractive.
If it was then there'd be a site designed where guys could thrap off to the site of a well formed thesis by a genius female intellectual. If there was the slightest level of kink in this area some guy would have developed 'academic' porn sites, with filthy diplomas, degrees and PHDs on it. But they haven't so I think it doesn't really exist.
Just a bit of virtue signalling g to the smarter woman out there rather than coming up with the honest answer of 'no it's not your brains, it's you tits'...
And to be honest guys have form for this kind of thing, saying something that's not true to improve their chances of a fuck at the end of the night. Ask any wife who has asked her hubby if her bum looks big in this, only for hubby not even bothered to look up before replying, 'No dear it doesn't look big in that'... not sure they can help themselves, come on guys just admit it it's all about the tits, arse, legs, whatever we'll before you even think about our brains...
Mrs x
I think I'm not going as far as that - it sure *can* be a factor in finding a woman attractive.
But, for me at least, not enough on its own if I don't find her physically attractive too. The world is full of clever women I don't fancy. It's also full of lots of not so clever women I don't fancy.
(And all depending on mutual attraction and all that jazz, obviously)"
Physical attraction must come first. You can ascertain that almost immediately so long as the woman falls within your parameters of 'sexiness'. You can establish this from a still photo. You cannot do that with intelligence, it requires much more time and effort to establish if the woman has a level of intelligence you like.
And even then physical attraction would win over poor intelligence. You would be thinking I'd just fuck her and leave her, it's not like you'd be stuck with the bimbo. I know this is a shallow depiction of men here but I don't think I'm too far from the mark. Guys are more likely to have one night stands with attractive woman they found dumber than they'd normally like rather than unattractive woman that were smarter than they normally went for. This is based obviously on situations we're guys actually had a choice in the matter. Mrs x |
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I like to be around intelligent people in general. You are the company you keep |
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"Neither. They are who and what they are, and who and what they are not.
Some intelligent women (but people) are insufferable, so therefore a turn off. Some are awesome and clearly enjoyable to be a round, therefore a turn on.
Same goes for those "lacking" in intelligence.
Intelligence alone is irrelevant. "
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I a a sapiosexual so inteligence is a must |
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Now this is honest hahaha men are not attracted to intelligence if you all met a girl who was thick but good looking you'd be so attracted love men who simp lmao |
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By *acobCMan 14 weeks ago
Liverpool |
I don't think it really matters to me, but I also wouldn't assume I was more intelligent than someone because I'd feel like I was being a prick from the get go then haha. In terms of being intimidated, absolutely not. Id find it really attractive |
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"Is she hot? 😉
Or, more, do I fancy her? If not, her intelligence alone won't turn me on. I'd (probably*) be interested, impressed, engaged and want to talk to her, but not automatically turned on.
(*I say probably as intelligent doesn't always mean interesting or likeable!)"
You my guy are honest !! |
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By *vaRose43Woman 14 weeks ago
Forest of Dean |
Not attracted to ladies but yes intelligence is important to me. I like big diction and I cannot lie 😉
It’s also worth mentioning that our own experience of what is or isn’t intelligent is very much in the eye of the beholder.
To me intelligence is not down to education level or class. Intelligence more about an individual curiosity, passion and questioning nature. Its not about the facts that they know it’s about their never ending curiosity to learn.
If a man has unwavering stubborn beliefs, repeats dogma, is rigidly unquestionably prejudiced,exhibits mob mentality or an unwillingness to learn or enter discourse that might challenge their views…. Meh he instantly becomes unsexy.
Give me a man who can talk about the things he’s passionate about, a man who is always curious and learning, someone who’s always radically willing to learn and who will challenge me and the way I think. I enjoy long talks about all sorts of things and I find learning about someone’s interests fascinating, whether I share that interest or not.
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"Not attracted to ladies but yes intelligence is important to me. I like big diction and I cannot lie 😉
It’s also worth mentioning that our own experience of what is or isn’t intelligent is very much in the eye of the beholder.
To me intelligence is not down to education level or class. Intelligence more about an individual curiosity, passion and questioning nature. Its not about the facts that they know it’s about their never ending curiosity to learn.
If a man has unwavering stubborn beliefs, repeats dogma, is rigidly unquestionably prejudiced,exhibits mob mentality or an unwillingness to learn or enter discourse that might challenge their views…. Meh he instantly becomes unsexy.
Give me a man who can talk about the things he’s passionate about, a man who is always curious and learning, someone who’s always radically willing to learn and who will challenge me and the way I think. I enjoy long talks about all sorts of things and I find learning about someone’s interests fascinating, whether I share that interest or not.
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I want to do unspeakable things to these words. |
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Yes intelligence is a turn on. No it is not intimidating. I'd say all of my long term partners have at least been on my level.
I've never had a partner who could beat me at chess or GO though. |
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No 'intelligent' women do not intimidate me nor do 'intelligent' men, what ever I perceive intelligence to be.
My self esteem isn't low enough and I don't tend to view relationships - be they be old or new- as a competition. Rather they are another person for me to see the positive prospect of.
I always meet people equally and don't make relationships with people who function under a perception of their superiority in any way.
My final thought is ...... If YOU feel intimidated by intelligent people then own it and change it. e.g. Stop saying THEY intimidate YOU. Flip it and say that YOU are intimidated by what is inside your own head and do something about it yourself.
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Depends on her. Because there’s two kinds.
A down to earth woman who knows her shit and just goes about her day or a women who knows her shit and because of that thinks she’s better than everyone else.
The mr |
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Neither, although those that feel the need to state they are intelligent turn me right off, I usually find they are actually quite dense too. |
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For sure and also know what they are doing before doing it |
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By *eliWoman 14 weeks ago
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Yes. Ish.
No. I've only been intimidated by one person's intelligence. Good thing is it's more awe now. And respect. And various other things. 🩷 |
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
No I’d say about 99% smarter than me not the sharpest tool in the box
It’s not about the trip
It’s the journey  |
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Absolute turn on. No questions asked. |
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Dey mus be clevuh like me EyeQueue 497 big tits and whole yeah  |
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Sexy brains and character turns me on, a lot. Those with the character I'm attracted tend to have good emotional intelligence and can hold an engaging conversation. It's also fair to say I don't necessarily measure intelligence in qualifications or cultural capital.
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By *929Man 14 weeks ago
bedlington |
Intelligence is an extremely attractive trait |
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Oh yes, such a turn-on.
Not necessarily a cerebral, intellectual intelligence, but a woman who is a bit shrewd, a bit pawky, I'm always going to find that attractive in her. |
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By *EAT..85Woman 14 weeks ago
Nottingham |
Oh yes.
On the flip side I am un-attracted to unintelligent people. Brutal but true. Mind, there's one woman at work... Hmm. Maybe women get more leeway than men. |
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Oh yes, intelligence is so sexy. A lovely accent to go with it please. |
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God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me?? |
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me?? "
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If they are inspired and instilled to be prudent in their grammar with you then surely that's a lovely and delightful thing? 🩶 |
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me?? "
You know sometimes I find sort of the opposite. That it's poor spelling and grammar that's scares people off me. However that doesn't both me, if anything it helps with the filtering (as I'm sure it does for you). Regardless of typos and grammar it's genrally easy enough to understand what someone is saying. So if someone is more bother by my spelling than the content of what I have to say they're probably bot a good match anyway. My dyslexia has no correlation to my intellect, character or world veiw.
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me?? "
Nevertheless, a well written message is a pleasure to receive. As a starter for 10, when people say intelligent, do they mean: intelligent, educated or cultured? |
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Definite turn on, and often means some good conversations to go with the intimate side of this place.
Unintelligence however, I am not so keen on. I think women will get more leeway than men, probably based on physical appearance, but I would still question whether i wanted to engage with them. |
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Yes, very much so,
Infact I start every new conversation with a hot lady with asking her what the √ of Pie is,  |
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No it was definitely a nice thing they've tried to do. I think it's that they're worried that I would be put off by it that makes me confused? Or that they're stressing themselves over something I'm probably not going to notice. |
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Yeah I'm definitely more interested in the content of the message as opposed to the package its presented in with spelling or grammar! |
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
Yes really like intelligent women |
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
It’s not just a turn on, it’s an absolutely massive turn on, but then I’m a sapiosexual. Plus, it helps them appreciate my own unique charm and genius |
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me??
Nevertheless, a well written message is a pleasure to receive. As a starter for 10, when people say intelligent, do they mean: intelligent, educated or cultured?"
The phrase cultured makes me cringe for some reason. |
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Absolutely yes |
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me??
Nevertheless, a well written message is a pleasure to receive. As a starter for 10, when people say intelligent, do they mean: intelligent, educated or cultured?
The phrase cultured makes me cringe for some reason. "
Cultural difference. Not cultural deprivation.
#ALevelSociology |
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Curious minded, quick-witted people turn me on, but only if we have something in common and they're warm, open, and grounded with it. Cruel intelligent people intimidate me as, speaking from experience, I can't think quickly enough to defend myself should they decide to turn on me. |
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Intelligence on its own isn't really an attractive quality for me. A personality is the lense through which all things shine.
Emotional intelligence is more important to me than intellectual smarts in any case.
I was engaged to a post punk tattooed Dr neuroscientist for a while. She was the smartest person I've ever met. Mostly she was really funny.
So I'd say wit is another key factor in how in how intelligence can be attractive to me.
I'm not intimidated by other people's brains though. Sure we all have one.
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"God I'd love to meet an intelligent woman.
As it is, I keep getting people (men) telling me that my grammar/writing style makes them scared so they spend longer to write messages to me??
Nevertheless, a well written message is a pleasure to receive. As a starter for 10, when people say intelligent, do they mean: intelligent, educated or cultured?
The phrase cultured makes me cringe for some reason.
Cultural difference. Not cultural deprivation.
#ALevelSociology "
Quite often I feel that manifests in the difference between acculturation and appropriation. |
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By *acobCMan 14 weeks ago
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"Not attracted to ladies but yes intelligence is important to me. I like big diction and I cannot lie 😉
It’s also worth mentioning that our own experience of what is or isn’t intelligent is very much in the eye of the beholder.
To me intelligence is not down to education level or class. Intelligence more about an individual curiosity, passion and questioning nature. Its not about the facts that they know it’s about their never ending curiosity to learn.
If a man has unwavering stubborn beliefs, repeats dogma, is rigidly unquestionably prejudiced,exhibits mob mentality or an unwillingness to learn or enter discourse that might challenge their views…. Meh he instantly becomes unsexy.
Give me a man who can talk about the things he’s passionate about, a man who is always curious and learning, someone who’s always radically willing to learn and who will challenge me and the way I think. I enjoy long talks about all sorts of things and I find learning about someone’s interests fascinating, whether I share that interest or not.
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Spot on! There's a great attraction in someone who likes to get into a discussion and debate about things and you can have multiple interesting conversations about anything and everything whether topical or not. I'm always open to learning things and listening to opinions and not being all stubborn with my own beliefs and find it very attractive when the other person is the same. Would make me want to spend more time with them |
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By *ripfillMan 14 weeks ago
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Of course … who wouldn’t want to be in conversation with an intellectually gifted person - be it male or female frankly!
I love the company of bright people anyway, they illuminate, offer opinions, have experience expertise and offer knowledge unselfishly and modestly- then yes please
If it’s a women, then great but it ought not to a to gender issue.
I had the fortunate experience of a meet recently where the lady was just a delight to talk too and so bright, conversation flowed - time flew and so did our clothes … wonderful. !
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Absolutely yes. It’s the most sexy thing |
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By *sWyldWoman 12 weeks ago
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I wouldn't say that I was overly intelligent however I've got friends who say that I can be intimidating to men. Not because of intellect or looks etc as I'm far from a model. However they say it's because I'm super independent and strong. I don't "need" them. I find this utterly bizarre and a bit outdated. |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al "
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive. |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive. "
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever? |
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Yes, I find intelligence very attractive.
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By *andB130Couple 12 weeks ago
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Intelligence is definitely an attraction. Always had a thing for teachers so married one |
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By *ooBulMan 12 weeks ago
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Yes, definitely for me... |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?"
It's a good question, to be fair. Quite often you hear/see people talking about finding a certain person (Rachel Reilly, for example) attractive because of her brain. But she's a beautiful lady to begin with.
If she looked like Sloth from The Goonies but still had her intelligence, would people still find her sexy? Highly doubtful.
Most of the time, it tends to be pretty people that just happen to be intelligent, rather than "ugly" ones. It's entirely superficial and perhaps not many would admit that. |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?"
I'm straight so I'm not sexually attracted to her, I find her manner, confidence, the way she carries herself, her obvious passion for her subjects, her keen willingness to share her knowledge, the depth of that knowledge and the dedication and intelligence required to achieve it and lack of patronising behaviour very attractive on a personal level. |
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So no, I wouldn't find her attractive if she didn't display those qualities.
Not many people are really stupid though,almost everyone has something they know a lot about. It's how they present that to me that attracts me |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
It's a good question, to be fair. Quite often you hear/see people talking about finding a certain person (Rachel Reilly, for example) attractive because of her brain. But she's a beautiful lady to begin with.
If she looked like Sloth from The Goonies but still had her intelligence, would people still find her sexy? Highly doubtful.
Most of the time, it tends to be pretty people that just happen to be intelligent, rather than "ugly" ones. It's entirely superficial and perhaps not many would admit that."
I find Mary Beard an attractive person but I guess we're talking sexually here |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
It's a good question, to be fair. Quite often you hear/see people talking about finding a certain person (Rachel Reilly, for example) attractive because of her brain. But she's a beautiful lady to begin with.
If she looked like Sloth from The Goonies but still had her intelligence, would people still find her sexy? Highly doubtful.
Most of the time, it tends to be pretty people that just happen to be intelligent, rather than "ugly" ones. It's entirely superficial and perhaps not many would admit that."
I value intelligence above physical features. Someone could be very conventionally attractive but if they're a moron it's a huge turn off for me. The older I get the more true this gets too. |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
It's a good question, to be fair. Quite often you hear/see people talking about finding a certain person (Rachel Reilly, for example) attractive because of her brain. But she's a beautiful lady to begin with.
If she looked like Sloth from The Goonies but still had her intelligence, would people still find her sexy? Highly doubtful.
Most of the time, it tends to be pretty people that just happen to be intelligent, rather than "ugly" ones. It's entirely superficial and perhaps not many would admit that."
Spot on, great assessment. Mrs x |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
I'm straight so I'm not sexually attracted to her, I find her manner, confidence, the way she carries herself, her obvious passion for her subjects, her keen willingness to share her knowledge, the depth of that knowledge and the dedication and intelligence required to achieve it and lack of patronising behaviour very attractive on a personal level. "
Yes, I agree with all that. I guess I just find it hard to separate the two. For me, intelligence will make someone I find physically attractive even more attractive.
But I need physical attraction too if I am to fancy someone. I make no claims to be a sapiosexual, so I guess that explains it! I'm base.
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wouldnt bother me as i'm very intelligent , extremely good at maths...in fact i had a stack of o level maths book ive just sold at auction , £2 each or 3 for £10 |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Yes had a relationship with a very intelligent trans gender woman was a massive turn on for me |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
I'm straight so I'm not sexually attracted to her, I find her manner, confidence, the way she carries herself, her obvious passion for her subjects, her keen willingness to share her knowledge, the depth of that knowledge and the dedication and intelligence required to achieve it and lack of patronising behaviour very attractive on a personal level.
Yes, I agree with all that. I guess I just find it hard to separate the two. For me, intelligence will make someone I find physically attractive even more attractive.
But I need physical attraction too if I am to fancy someone. I make no claims to be a sapiosexual, so I guess that explains it! I'm base.
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If I was bi I'd definitely be physically attracted to Prof Roberts because I like her leather jackets |
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"Intelligent women don't turn me on but I really admire people like Prof Alice Roberts, Mary Beard et al
Prof Roberts is a case in point. Very smart and very attractive.
She is attractive. But I would still find her attractive if she was "stupid". Is she attractive *because* she's clever, or just that she's an attractive woman, who also happens to be clever?
It's a good question, to be fair. Quite often you hear/see people talking about finding a certain person (Rachel Reilly, for example) attractive because of her brain. But she's a beautiful lady to begin with.
If she looked like Sloth from The Goonies but still had her intelligence, would people still find her sexy? Highly doubtful.
Most of the time, it tends to be pretty people that just happen to be intelligent, rather than "ugly" ones. It's entirely superficial and perhaps not many would admit that.
I value intelligence above physical features. Someone could be very conventionally attractive but if they're a moron it's a huge turn off for me. The older I get the more true this gets too."
But would you find them a turn on if they were highly intelligent but a complete butt ugly munter ? |
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By *agic.MMan 12 weeks ago
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Oh for sure...would be nice for women to put their IQ numbers on their profile |
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"Or intimidate you?
As in, they’re probably most definitely smarter than you? "
Intelligent women.... Big boner.
You know who you are Meli. |
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