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By *ich1981 OP Man 7 hours ago
Salisbury |
Why is it this don't feel like a swinging site when no one gives u chance to meet without verification but can't get one with no women seeming to chat before block or no think re name it snob swingerx |
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Op, you keep posting the same thing.
People aren't snobs because they don't want to meet you, yes even on a swinging site, we can't appeal to all & we are ultimately all here for what we like.
Most ladies will look at a profile before they hit delete or respond, if yours doesn't stand out, they won't reply.
Lots of men struggle on here, sell yourself op and get yourself out to some real life socials or events. |
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By *r TriomanMan 6 hours ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Just cause a man has a penis, doesn’t mean women want to fuck them
I know!! Shockin "
Yeah!And just because a woman has boobs, it doesn't mean that men want to 'motorboat' them... Erm, actually that's a lie, we do  |
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"Why is it this don't feel like a swinging site when no one gives u chance to meet without verification but can't get one with no women seeming to chat before block or no think re name it snob swingerx"
Every single person on here started with no verifications, you are no different.
Some make some effort to get them, some don't and have some random level of entitlement.
The people who make the effort get the meets.
The people who make no effort post and whine and wonder why people don't want to meet.
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If women aren't interested accept it
Or change up your profile a bit to something they may want
There's tons of guys on here and tons of pic collectors
A lot of women are probably exhausted from all the messages from people who don't read their profiles
You can't make someone chat and if you aren't having any luck self reflect and maybe get off the site and speak to women in person
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"Just cause a man has a penis, doesn’t mean women want to fuck them
I know!! Shockin
Yeah!And just because a woman has boobs, it doesn't mean that men want to 'motorboat' them... Erm, actually that's a lie, we do "
Agree 💯 , yes generally we do!
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"Just cause a man has a penis, doesn’t mean women want to fuck them
I know!! Shockin
Yeah!And just because a woman has boobs, it doesn't mean that men want to 'motorboat' them... Erm, actually that's a lie, we do
Agree 💯 , yes generally we do!
Jay"
For me it depends on the woman I have seen some horrible sights on here
Like a hippo yawning |
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"Just no one seems to chat xx
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Lots of people are chatting here daily. Sometimes we have to look at our approach to things.
I check a profile first before opening conversation, if something on there isn’t what I’m looking for then why waste both our times engaging?
I know my profile has changed and developed since I first joined. So has the way I message. It’s worth looking at that first because those are the things within your control.
You also have to accept that like in life you won’t appeal to 99% of members, and for those that you do, you won’t want to meet most of them. It is what it is.
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"Why is it this don't feel like a swinging site when no one gives u chance to meet without verification but can't get one with no women seeming to chat before block or no think re name it snob swingerx"
Was this said all in one angry breath? |
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By *oo..Woman 5 hours ago
Boo's World |
Op try changing your tactics on fab and someone may want to meet you.
You seem to forget all your other rant and raves you've had on here and been outward rude by calling women alsorts of names , doesn't get left behind .
Have you never learnt us women remember "everything"!
And I mean - everything.....🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 hours ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Op try changing your tactics on fab and someone may want to meet you.
You seem to forget all your other rant and raves you've had on here and been outward rude by calling women alsorts of names , doesn't get left behind .
Have you never learnt us women remember "everything"!
And I mean - everything.....🤣🤣🤣 "
Except to bring a rolling pin to someone's house when you're making a cheesecake.
Thank God for glass dildos, otherwise we'd have had nothing to crush the biscuits with. 🤦♂️🤷♂️ |
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"Op try changing your tactics on fab and someone may want to meet you.
You seem to forget all your other rant and raves you've had on here and been outward rude by calling women alsorts of names , doesn't get left behind .
Have you never learnt us women remember "everything"!
And I mean - everything.....🤣🤣🤣
Except to bring a rolling pin to someone's house when you're making a cheesecake.
Thank God for glass dildos, otherwise we'd have had nothing to crush the biscuits with. 🤦♂️🤷♂️"
This is way more interesting that the OP… |
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By *oo..Woman 5 hours ago
Boo's World |
"Op try changing your tactics on fab and someone may want to meet you.
You seem to forget all your other rant and raves you've had on here and been outward rude by calling women alsorts of names , doesn't get left behind .
Have you never learnt us women remember "everything"!
And I mean - everything.....🤣🤣🤣
Except to bring a rolling pin to someone's house when you're making a cheesecake.
Thank God for glass dildos, otherwise we'd have had nothing to crush the biscuits with. 🤦♂️🤷♂️"
Who needs a rolling pin when you have a dildo, see thinking outside the box with that one! 🤣🤣 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 hours ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Op try changing your tactics on fab and someone may want to meet you.
You seem to forget all your other rant and raves you've had on here and been outward rude by calling women alsorts of names , doesn't get left behind .
Have you never learnt us women remember "everything"!
And I mean - everything.....🤣🤣🤣
Except to bring a rolling pin to someone's house when you're making a cheesecake.
Thank God for glass dildos, otherwise we'd have had nothing to crush the biscuits with. 🤦♂️🤷♂️
Who needs a rolling pin when you have a dildo, see thinking outside the box with that one! 🤣🤣"
We did the whisking by hand.
Was tempted to break out the Doxy.....😇😇 |
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Another person who stumbled across Fab and thought all these women on here must be gagging for me, as i am me and wait till they see my dick.
I'll send a crappy Hi first message and a pic of my penis and wait for the ladies to come to me.
Put effort in, get reward out.
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"Another person who stumbled across Fab and thought all these women on here must be gagging for me, as i am me and wait till they see my dick.
I'll send a crappy Hi first message and a pic of my penis and wait for the ladies to come to me.
Put effort in, get reward out.
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👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 hours ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I think the problem is that, even on an anonymous hook up site, the women who are here don’t have anything like the interest in casual sex that men tend to have. Result, massive imbalance.
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Oh some of them do. That still doesn't mean they'll do the sex with just anyone though. |
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"... the women who are here don’t have anything like the interest in casual sex that men tend to have...
Oh some of them do... "
I escaped with being used as a chair. Tiny ducks would have driven me nuts. |
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"Why is it this don't feel like a swinging site when no one gives u chance to meet without verification but can't get one with no women seeming to chat before block or no think re name it snob swingerx"
You do realise that, by being here as a single man, you are also not “swinging”. Right? |
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"I think the problem is that, even on an anonymous hook up site, the women who are here don’t have anything like the interest in casual sex that men tend to have. Result, massive imbalance.
Oh some of them do. That still doesn't mean they'll do the sex with just anyone though. "
I completely agree |
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"Erm...I am guilty of being one of the "snobs" who the OP contacted...xx
cos said was hot"
A comment on a forum post isn't an invitation to private message someone.
If FAB isn't working out for you then consider other options. Moaning on the forum isn't going to do you any favours. In fact quite the opposite. |
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"Erm...I am guilty of being one of the "snobs" who the OP contacted...xx
cos said was hot"
Thought of saying "Hello" instead? We are all hot, we don't need to be told this multiple times daily.
Think and I mean really think why it isn't working for you.... remember its not just you as there are many others.
Humility my friend. |
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People frequently apportion blame to a range of things, for their lack of the success they thought they'd get here, including for not having a verification. It's rarely correct, in my opinion.
It's largely going to be because being mutually compatible is a rarity. Our expectations should factor this into account. |
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"Why is it this don't feel like a swinging site when no one gives u chance to meet without verification but can't get one with no women seeming to chat before block or no think re name it snob swingerx"
Women aren’t snobs for deciding not to risk their safety. |
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By *aven.Woman 15 minutes ago
Not the North West... |
"Women aren’t snobs for deciding not to risk their safety.
Couldn't have said it better."
Taking the word of a stranger is hardly being safe either. Jeez if I had any doubts about meeting a guy I'm not gonna think ,"oh well Sandra rated him a 8/10 at pounding her pussy so sure, he must be safe" |
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"Women aren’t snobs for deciding not to risk their safety.
Couldn't have said it better.
Taking the word of a stranger is hardly being safe either. Jeez if I had any doubts about meeting a guy I'm not gonna think ,"oh well Sandra rated him a 8/10 at pounding her pussy so sure, he must be safe""
Nothing is a guarantee, but all the little bits of info help to build a bigger picture. |
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By *aven.Woman 11 minutes ago
Not the North West... |
"Women aren’t snobs for deciding not to risk their safety.
Couldn't have said it better.
Taking the word of a stranger is hardly being safe either. Jeez if I had any doubts about meeting a guy I'm not gonna think ,"oh well Sandra rated him a 8/10 at pounding her pussy so sure, he must be safe"
Nothing is a guarantee, but all the little bits of info help to build a bigger picture. "
If I can't decide myself if someone is worth it or safe (whatever the hell that means) then I probably shouldn't be meeting men off the internet.
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"The fact is women are snobs on here, because you know what, we can be. Over inflated egos and desperate men make it easy pickings op.
I personally think it's awesome. "
I respect the honesty in that. Snob isn't really a fair term if you ask me. Could easily just say selective too.
It's fair though, I am selective and I don't have anywhere near the same grounds to be so, not that anyone needs justification for it. |
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