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Be honest!! How was the experience?
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I have never paid for an e*cort but I have met a lady on a fab meet who it turns out has worked as an e*cort.
If I am honest she was exceptional. I don’t know quite what she was doing differently but it all added up to an amazing experience. Everything was just slightly more sensual, a touch more tactile or lasted a fraction of a second longer than normal. Mind blown. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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As for answering your question, mixed experiences. Some have literally only been interested in the money and don't care if you know with the experience being nothing as described. Others hide the fact it's for the money better and at least deliver what's promised.
If you want anything other than a fun way to scratch your itch (like genuine care) then don't pay for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"
dodgy experience in Bangkok ? Seriously mate it's a sex positive environment around here in general 😉
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Think that's a guilty answer, bet you've really been balls deep in a lady of the night! 😂
Mr F. "
I'm an arctic monkey so I have the accent for when Roxanne puts on her red light 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"My ex once spent 400 pound of our money on one, couldn't tell you if she was worth it or not but guess he had fun 🤷🏽♀️"
Sorry to hear about that
It’s easy to forget that men in relationships are more likely to use such services |
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Yeah, spent a fortune on one..p!ssed up on a stag doo in Estonia. We showered, had sex, showered again, went to bed, had sex, showered, had sex in a hot tub, then showered. I was pretty clean at the end of it, but felt so dirty. It was great. |
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"Yeah, spent a fortune on one..p!ssed up on a stag doo in Estonia. We showered, had sex, showered again, went to bed, had sex, showered, had sex in a hot tub, then showered. I was pretty clean at the end of it, but felt so dirty. It was great."
Sounds like you got your moneys worth 🤣🤣 |
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"Yeah, spent a fortune on one..p!ssed up on a stag doo in Estonia. We showered, had sex, showered again, went to bed, had sex, showered, had sex in a hot tub, then showered. I was pretty clean at the end of it, but felt so dirty. It was great.
Sounds like you got your moneys worth 🤣🤣"
Just on shower gel alone  |
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I've never paid for sex. I'm quite shrouded surprised that even for an "ugly fucker" I've always done ok for myself and never felt the need to pay. Think I'd also rather be with someone who wants to be with me than doing it just for money |
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"I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔
Surely you get plenty of offers for that to not need to pay for it"
Yes but I wouldn’t be expected to have sex if I paid 😂 there’s always a catch here |
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"I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔
Surely you get plenty of offers for that to not need to pay for it
Yes but I wouldn’t be expected to have sex if I paid 😂 there’s always a catch here "
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By *k_123Man 12 weeks ago
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The best sex I’ve had is with one , in fact it gets better every time we meet. I really don't find it an issue as we both really enjoy or time together and we both get what we want from the arrangement. |
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Met one once and she was a really nice woman. We chatted and had some drinks and started getting naked. We had fun for about 3 hours from kissing and sucking to full on sex. Every way possible. She was only supposed to be there for 2 hours but she was with me for about 6 hours. We were messaging after for about 3 weeks and she even took me out for a few pints. Lovely woman |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Bought a bottle of champagne in a strip club in Geneva after skiing holiday years ago. Hadnt cum for a week!
She sucked me and then shared the champagne! Most expensive champagne I've ever bought but I've never paid for an lady of the night. |
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Myself and my friend were looking for a blind thumb massage in phnom penh in Cambodia and instead the taxi bike guys brought us to a hotel that had a glass wall with three tiers of women wearing numbers.
I don't know why we didn't just walk out. I felt like a rabbit in a headlight. I picked one at random and we sat on the hotel bed watching Crimson Tide and comparing my white skin to her tan until the clock ran out. It was a good laugh. She didn't speak a word of English. I paid her about five times what she asked and told the guy at the front desk she was amazing. I was 19.
And I remember walking back to my hostel through the red light district late one night in Amsterdam. Two beautiful women told a very merry me I could have both of them. I'd no money left. Still think about it. Think I was 22.
If I had the money spare to pay for a woman who was a master of her craft I'd absolutely do it.
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By *ripfillMan 12 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
The oldest profession. Each to their own "
Beg to differ … personally the oldest profession I think is midwifery ! |
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I’d never been with a black woman before. The first was really nice, the second too ‘princessy’….
I booked another because she promised the best bj in town, and I thought a ‘professional’ would be a guaranteed pleasurable result. It wasn’t, she was all teeth….. |
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I cooked many a dinner or lunch for a few window ladies in the Dam while I trained as a chef many Many moons ago,the back of their building ran out to meet the back of ours and they were always out the back on fag breaks and chatting on the deck chairs in dressing gowns,we were always having BBQ or grilling on our days off so we ended up having chats they were all very sound people( no idea why I thought they wouldn't be), one took me and my flat mate to a night club the night Ajax won the Euros back in 95, she was sexy as ffk,it's a regular job over there, met up with regular people friends in the club and did regular people things,at my young age that changed my perspective on the whole sex worker thing, coming from A Religious ran Ireland at the time shunning such things was beat into us, but those few months opened my eyes
,I got a snog when I was packing up to come home, back then I was thinking I was a right rebel lol, the neighbours to my right were a couple who ran a smoke shop, mad neighbours great times |
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Absolutely not ashamed to say yes,had a good few years ago .... Great experience,nothing complicated,great company and sex,good looking guys.
It's an arrangement and everyone gets what they want ...and your assured a meet ! |
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No I haven't.
In my late teens while in the Red Light District my girlfriend at the time was willing to pay a lady to have sex with me but that didn't develop.
Also was speaking to a lady years ago on Fab who said we can meet up in a hotel after she finishes work. I asked what she does and she informed me she a sex worker but meeting up straight after a client put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....  "
Big difference |
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....
Big difference"
Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.
Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature? |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....
Big difference
Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.
Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?"
The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right
I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life
I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that |
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....
Big difference
Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.
Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?
The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right
I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life
I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that"
A brothel may/may not have had women (in the main) coerced. Of course awful and exploitative things happen with that kind of work. Many many es0rts are completely autonomous though. It's on the person paying for the service to recognise that and decide themselves what they are OK with paying for and whom. It's often pretty obvious when there's exploitation involved. Writing off everyone involved from either side smacks to me of someone who has limited understanding of what it's all about. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....
Big difference
Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.
Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?
The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right
I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life
I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that
A brothel may/may not have had women (in the main) coerced. Of course awful and exploitative things happen with that kind of work. Many many es0rts are completely autonomous though. It's on the person paying for the service to recognise that and decide themselves what they are OK with paying for and whom. It's often pretty obvious when there's exploitation involved. Writing off everyone involved from either side smacks to me of someone who has limited understanding of what it's all about. "
Does the autonomous “worker” truly give her full consent though once the man has payed?
Can she really stop at any time once the money has exchanged hands and have the man accept it?
Does she actually want to be with this man or is she going to suffer because that’s the only way she can pay her bills? |
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I shared a flat in London with a girl I worked with and her sister. Purely a useful flat share nothing else. I was in Amsterdam and saw a sex eorker who was the spitting image of my colleagues sister who lived with us. Needless to say I dipped mybwick and called her by my flatmate s name which she was okay with. Had a great time |
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"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either
Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.
Oh wait.....
Big difference
Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.
Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?
The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right
I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life
I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that
A brothel may/may not have had women (in the main) coerced. Of course awful and exploitative things happen with that kind of work. Many many es0rts are completely autonomous though. It's on the person paying for the service to recognise that and decide themselves what they are OK with paying for and whom. It's often pretty obvious when there's exploitation involved. Writing off everyone involved from either side smacks to me of someone who has limited understanding of what it's all about.
Does the autonomous “worker” truly give her full consent though once the man has payed?
Can she really stop at any time once the money has exchanged hands and have the man accept it?
Does she actually want to be with this man or is she going to suffer because that’s the only way she can pay her bills?"
Yes to all. (Not in all cases, of course).
Ps: it isn't ALWAYS about the money anyway. It can be a nice addition to work they enjoy alongside another mode of work perhaps. There's that too. |
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When recently separated from my ex I tried one on a trip to Amsterdam. Beautiful woman, very nice person but I found I wasn't in to it. As a result I realised that having the other person fancy me (however briefly) is an essential part of getting me turned on.
So I wouldn't bother again, but good luck to those who do, so long as the sex worker is safe and consenting. Each to his or her own. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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In recent years I've got more info the idea of CBT, ballbusting and humiliation and it's hard to broach the subject with someone in a normal sexual encounter so I have paid three times to go to a brothel (are the still called that) in Birmingham to pay for girls. Three different girls as with varying experiences, all three I immediately explained that I didn't want sex I wanted humiliating my balls kicking and to kiss their feet and if I did cum then I was to be ordered to eat -
The first time she hadn't done it before but got into it, kicks increasing in severity and her occasionally apologising and letting her kiss her feet as I recovered, I came on her feet and she laughed saying she bet I didn't want to eat it any more which I agreed, good experience
Second was amazing, she knew what she was doing, improvised with slaps to the face as well as cock, strong kicks and even spat in my mouth, she could tell I was about to cum and made me stand up to kick me so I didn't cum before my time was up, even I finally did she made me eat it off her feet immediately before I went off the idea, I'd love to see her again
Third time the second lady wasn't available but she was ok, good kicks from different positions but hardly any foot worship or verbal abuse and she kept laughing, I did cum in my hand but no mention of eating it. She was too nice basically
So yeah I have three times but for something I can't see myself trying to achieve in a normal situation. Mostly positive experiences  |
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