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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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So how do you all approach this ?
I mean seriously who wants a hey baby ,it's like caveman times and going me you fuck now
But also theres the other end which starts dear carol ( I don't know a carol hope she's kinky ) and 17 pages of you declaring your undying love and details since primary school because you had your cock out over a tit pic 30 seconds before
You lot get this so why am I over explaining this shit !!
Do you use humour ?
Do you keep it simple ?
Are you direct ?
Do you write a Danielle Steele novel ?
Do any of you horny buggers want to DM me ? I have a notification kink I think ( joke but I'm always open to connection 🤗😊 |
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Dear OP, I rarely send the first message, but I'm quite reluctant to divulge my secrets here on the open forå. At the very least dispense with all forms of sycophancy and such similar traits.
Keep the messages short, inject some humour, do not sexualise your messages from the onset, reference something from their profiles... it's a dark årt that only a necromancer would understand and comprehend. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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First message keep it simple but there's a fine line between an essay and toddlers speech. Make it clear why you've messaged and don't get sexual. Show a bit of personality, humours always good.
Ultimately just be yourself and if they don't respond, you aren't for them. People focus way too much on messaging when most of it is attraction based. Don't overthink it and do you, you meet the right people that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"I hit them with some dad jokes.
The only downside is they are laughing too hard and forget to reply  "
pizza delivery people and gynaecologists have the same problems
They're both allowed to smell the goods but not allowed to eat them |
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"I hit them with some dad jokes.
The only downside is they are laughing too hard and forget to reply pizza delivery people and gynaecologists have the same problems
They're both allowed to smell the goods but not allowed to eat them "
Jeez. Quite a disconnect with your profile name there buddy. |
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I approach it by not sending messages at all.
The last time I sent an introductory message was January 2020 so every conversation since has been initiated by others.
Even before I stopped sending them I was always extremely fussy and selective in who I chose to contact.
I've seen comments on threads about messaging everyone in their area and talked about sending 100s of messages without reply.
I've been here since 2016 and I would guess that in all that time I haven't sent more than 40 or 50 opening messages in total.
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By *lueLotusWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I hit them with some dad jokes.
The only downside is they are laughing too hard and forget to reply pizza delivery people and gynaecologists have the same problems
They're both allowed to smell the goods but not allowed to eat them "
This made me smirk and when visualised gave me the heebie jeebies, so I don't know how it'd go down in an opening message 😏 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"I hit them with some dad jokes.
The only downside is they are laughing too hard and forget to reply pizza delivery people and gynaecologists have the same problems
They're both allowed to smell the goods but not allowed to eat them
This made me smirk and when visualised gave me the heebie jeebies, so I don't know how it'd go down in an opening message 😏"
I'm not that savage in an opening message , I can be but humour is subjective for sure so I'm not normally that strong |
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"I send boobs and an attempt at humour.
Usually works.
I got zero boobs, nor did I laugh!
You'd laugh if I sent you boobs "
To be fair my initial post was going to be "surely they are the same thing" |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I have a simple system
I write a long message taking into account everything I see in her profile
Then I send that message to another woman
I’ve got no replies yet so I guess they must be thinking hard about how to respond to my brilliant mind |
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Honestly though it all comes down to the vibe I get from their profile.
If I feel intrigued and attracted I'll put in maximum effort matching the vibe I get.
If I'm attracted but don't feel much from the profile then it's a quick basic introduction message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Honestly though it all comes down to the vibe I get from their profile.
If I feel intrigued and attracted I'll put in maximum effort matching the vibe I get.
If I'm attracted but don't feel much from the profile then it's a quick basic introduction message. "
I do that but then a kit don't answer , can I superimpose my head on your body and see if that helps ? |
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By *agic.MMan 10 weeks ago
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I use the art of messaging without messaging...so I wink or fab some pics and that usually is enough for them to message me. Other times I don't even do that and they still message - who would've thought... works for me  |
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My number one favourite message I've ever received was very brief but directly to the point. Absolutely no messing around. It simply said "U FK NW".
It did receive an instant block though so not the best approach 😆 |
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"I send boobs and an attempt at humour.
Usually works."
I don’t get boobs. Lol. I do get replies though. I bounce a few messages back and forth. If they then dry up I move on. I’m not chasing people. |
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