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Do you think you attract certain types of people?
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On here.. just anyone with a penis and the occasional tits.
In real life it's a pattern that I attract avoidant, emotionally unavailable people who take more than they give. I'm a lot more selective who I give my energy too now as I'm done being the nice girl to the wrong people. |
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"On here.. just anyone with a penis and the occasional tits.
In real life it's a pattern that I attract avoidant, emotionally unavailable people who take more than they give. I'm a lot more selective who I give my energy too now as I'm done being the nice girl to the wrong people."
Love it 😂 |
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I think most people attract lots of other people during their life, even if only an initial "exploratory" attraction that can fade within an hour or so.
So the ones who tend to stay attracted to me for a bit longer are usually straddling the introvert/extrovert dividing line, capable of finding great energy as well as needing a quiet space to retreat, and they tend to like taller guys with big shoulders.
They usually like my slight "fuck you" and lefty, smarty-pants vibe, and my voice is often seen as an unexpected minor bonus.
These be the main themes for the more lasting attractions to me since teenagehood. |
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"The type I attract- I would say late 30s, average-to-short height, beard, dadbod-to-cuddly bear frame…
Basically the complete opposite to what I am attracted to  usually I am the one doing the chasing of the type I like. But it’s been the story of my life, here and in “the real world” (whatever that means) 🌎 "
Now I find it interesting because it was exactly my experience and made me even wonder is it me, or does everyone looks the same nowadays?
I’m not talking personality wise, I’m not that deep. |
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"The type I attract- I would say late 30s, average-to-short height, beard, dadbod-to-cuddly bear frame…
Basically the complete opposite to what I am attracted to usually I am the one doing the chasing of the type I like. But it’s been the story of my life, here and in “the real world” (whatever that means) 🌎
Now I find it interesting because it was exactly my experience and made me even wonder is it me, or does everyone looks the same nowadays?
I’m not talking personality wise, I’m not that deep."
I think it is a bit of both, Dee. Many men look the same nowadays… so it all blends into a single type. And also they must be into mature, gorgeous women haha x
A couple of weeks ago I thought I would open my mind and step out of that fixed type I go for and met someone with this description- personality wise it was great, lovely soul, but physically just no. At all. I felt terrible afterwards and not making that mistake again. 🫣 |
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Online hard to say. Can’t see a pattern.
Off line IRL yes. Silver foxes usually about 5-10 years older, they all seem to have a history of being a bit of a villain. Tend to be very smart, low tolerance of bullshit. |
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It seems to attract those much older than ourselves, sadly who we aren't looking for.
I wonder if the age group in our relationship is the cause.
Bizarrely, Mrs prefers younger men and I prefer older.
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