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Don't think I have a bad profile and I'm decent in messaging just not making the connections at the minute .
I know it's personal taste etc and your gonna get rejection which is fine but fuck I want some fun right now |
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Are you just letting off steam OP because 4 veris in 5 weeks is gonna be rubbing it in
I know they are from socials but still...
Have patience. It's not instafuck |
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"Are you just letting off steam OP because 4 veris in 5 weeks is gonna be rubbing it in
I know they are from socials but still...
Have patience. It's not instafuck"
Plus for the ones that like veris, they are good veris |
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"Are you just letting off steam OP because 4 veris in 5 weeks is gonna be rubbing it in
I know they are from socials but still...
Have patience. It's not instafuck
Plus for the ones that like veris, they are good veris"
it's frustration at the messaging side on here . I know it takes a bit of time but yeah I'm letting steam off a bit for sure |
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"Are you just letting off steam OP because 4 veris in 5 weeks is gonna be rubbing it in
I know they are from socials but still...
Have patience. It's not instafuck
Plus for the ones that like veris, they are good verisit's frustration at the messaging side on here . I know it takes a bit of time but yeah I'm letting steam off a bit for sure "
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year "
it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here |
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People are not going to respond the way you want to just because “you need some fun”… with all due respect, that is so presumptious …
When I do take the time to say no thank you to people I am not attracted to, the ones who don’t dish out abuse say “pity, I am so horny and you look great” so I am supposed to say yes because you’re horny? Kindly get lost…. |
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"People are not going to respond the way you want to just because “you need some fun”… with all due respect, that is so presumptious …
When I do take the time to say no thank you to people I am not attracted to, the ones who don’t dish out abuse say “pity, I am so horny and you look great” so I am supposed to say yes because you’re horny? Kindly get lost…. "
I actually post seeking connection, I'm not in DMs like hey baby I want a shag and dropping dick pics . |
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Sometimes I think it's best to forget the message function exists and just see it as a forum for kinky chat. Otherwise you can set yourself up for feeling rejected and if you're not living with a enlarged sense of ego like myself, that can hurt! |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
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there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times |
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"Sometimes I think it's best to forget the message function exists and just see it as a forum for kinky chat. Otherwise you can set yourself up for feeling rejected and if you're not living with a enlarged sense of ego like myself, that can hurt!"
that's a really good way of looking at it 💯
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times "
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely. |
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"Don't think I have a bad profile and I'm decent in messaging just not making the connections at the minute .
I know it's personal taste etc and your gonna get rejection which is fine but fuck I want some fun right now "
Your profile is ok, you have a nice smiley pic. The pics could admittedly be a bit better, but whatever.
You said you're good at messaging. Good!
Don't worry about making the connections. It takes time for ladies to notice you. The ratios here are absolutely stupid too. Women get bombarded daily with shit messages from weirdos. That's fantastic news though because those guys make me look like some kind of god, and a breath of fresh air! Which ofcourse I am! Kind of.. ish, maybe. 😂
Rejection; don't let it get to you - at all. At the end of the day, it's not my fault some woman can't detect a supernatural presence when it's presented to her.
If some woman doesn't immediately fall in love with me, then she must be suffering with mental health issues or something. Go to see a doctor, or a priest or whatever, I don't know. Come back to me when you're fixed and if I have time, I'll deal with you as and when. I don't know. I've not given it much thought.
The point is, if they reject, block and move on. There's plenty more foo foo in the sea!
Don't say "I want to fuck someone now" or anything like that. That's a schoolboy error. 😉 |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely."
it's nice you can understand where I'm coming from , I may change my approach on here and just concentrate more on events as that's the wua I'm going anyhow . I find it very easy to chat in person for some reason but putting myself across on a platform like this is totally different and that's what I think as frustrating to me |
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"Don't think I have a bad profile and I'm decent in messaging just not making the connections at the minute .
I know it's personal taste etc and your gonna get rejection which is fine but fuck I want some fun right now
Your profile is ok, you have a nice smiley pic. The pics could admittedly be a bit better, but whatever.
You said you're good at messaging. Good!
Don't worry about making the connections. It takes time for ladies to notice you. The ratios here are absolutely stupid too. Women get bombarded daily with shit messages from weirdos. That's fantastic news though because those guys make me look like some kind of god, and a breath of fresh air! Which ofcourse I am! Kind of.. ish, maybe. 😂
Rejection; don't let it get to you - at all. At the end of the day, it's not my fault some woman can't detect a supernatural presence when it's presented to her.
If some woman doesn't immediately fall in love with me, then she must be suffering with mental health issues or something. Go to see a doctor, or a priest or whatever, I don't know. Come back to me when you're fixed and if I have time, I'll deal with you as and when. I don't know. I've not given it much thought.
The point is, if they reject, block and move on. There's plenty more foo foo in the sea!
Don't say "I want to fuck someone now" or anything like that. That's a schoolboy error. 😉"
your ego is disgusting it's brilliant 😂😂 you're right about the ratios for sure . I guess it's finding my people on here |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely.it's nice you can understand where I'm coming from , I may change my approach on here and just concentrate more on events as that's the wua I'm going anyhow . I find it very easy to chat in person for some reason but putting myself across on a platform like this is totally different and that's what I think as frustrating to me "
At base what's frustrating you is that things aren't in accordance with your expectations. Life is a bit like that and all we can do is change our expectations which it seems you're doing, or keep doing the same thing in the hope of a different outcome and as we all know, that way madness lies  |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely.it's nice you can understand where I'm coming from , I may change my approach on here and just concentrate more on events as that's the wua I'm going anyhow . I find it very easy to chat in person for some reason but putting myself across on a platform like this is totally different and that's what I think as frustrating to me
At base what's frustrating you is that things aren't in accordance with your expectations. Life is a bit like that and all we can do is change our expectations which it seems you're doing, or keep doing the same thing in the hope of a different outcome and as we all know, that way madness lies "
your right in a sense , my expectations aren't every single encounter leading to physical . I'm trying to approach the ones with good profiles just to get to know a little as well |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely.it's nice you can understand where I'm coming from , I may change my approach on here and just concentrate more on events as that's the wua I'm going anyhow . I find it very easy to chat in person for some reason but putting myself across on a platform like this is totally different and that's what I think as frustrating to me
At base what's frustrating you is that things aren't in accordance with your expectations. Life is a bit like that and all we can do is change our expectations which it seems you're doing, or keep doing the same thing in the hope of a different outcome and as we all know, that way madness lies your right in a sense , my expectations aren't every single encounter leading to physical . I'm trying to approach the ones with good profiles just to get to know a little as well "
Other people probably think your expectations are that your encounter with them will lead to physical. That's the problem on fab I think. It's certainly one we encounter. |
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"Don't think I have a bad profile and I'm decent in messaging just not making the connections at the minute .
I know it's personal taste etc and your gonna get rejection which is fine but fuck I want some fun right now
Your profile is ok, you have a nice smiley pic. The pics could admittedly be a bit better, but whatever.
You said you're good at messaging. Good!
Don't worry about making the connections. It takes time for ladies to notice you. The ratios here are absolutely stupid too. Women get bombarded daily with shit messages from weirdos. That's fantastic news though because those guys make me look like some kind of god, and a breath of fresh air! Which ofcourse I am! Kind of.. ish, maybe. 😂
Rejection; don't let it get to you - at all. At the end of the day, it's not my fault some woman can't detect a supernatural presence when it's presented to her.
If some woman doesn't immediately fall in love with me, then she must be suffering with mental health issues or something. Go to see a doctor, or a priest or whatever, I don't know. Come back to me when you're fixed and if I have time, I'll deal with you as and when. I don't know. I've not given it much thought.
The point is, if they reject, block and move on. There's plenty more foo foo in the sea!
Don't say "I want to fuck someone now" or anything like that. That's a schoolboy error. 😉your ego is disgusting it's brilliant 😂😂 you're right about the ratios for sure . I guess it's finding my people on here "
Lol, some of it is tongue in cheek, but the general attitude is a fair reflection. Good luck dude! |
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"I think if you accept that gratification from fab (in whatever form) won't be instant your experience will be improved.
there's a few events coming up I'm looking forward to exploring , it's the getting knock backed on here it makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong at times
That's a common theme and I can well understand how it would make you feel that way. I look at it this way, I wouldn't approach or talk to a fraction of the people I do on here in the actual (as opposed to virtual) world, therefore my chances of being knocked back will increase exponentially. A choice I made some time ago was to choose interactions wisely.it's nice you can understand where I'm coming from , I may change my approach on here and just concentrate more on events as that's the wua I'm going anyhow . I find it very easy to chat in person for some reason but putting myself across on a platform like this is totally different and that's what I think as frustrating to me
At base what's frustrating you is that things aren't in accordance with your expectations. Life is a bit like that and all we can do is change our expectations which it seems you're doing, or keep doing the same thing in the hope of a different outcome and as we all know, that way madness lies your right in a sense , my expectations aren't every single encounter leading to physical . I'm trying to approach the ones with good profiles just to get to know a little as well
Other people probably think your expectations are that your encounter with them will lead to physical. That's the problem on fab I think. It's certainly one we encounter."
I might just put seeking friends only and absolutely no chance of a shag in my profile 😅 |
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Everything in existence is made of carbon, from distant stars to those annoying plastic bits which hold bottle tops on. So. Your toaster might have been a woman at some point. With the right scientific perspective you are surrounded by women. Sort of.
Just don’t fuck your toaster. |
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"Don't think I have a bad profile and I'm decent in messaging just not making the connections at the minute .
I know it's personal taste etc and your gonna get rejection which is fine but fuck I want some fun right now
Your profile is ok, you have a nice smiley pic. The pics could admittedly be a bit better, but whatever.
You said you're good at messaging. Good!
Don't worry about making the connections. It takes time for ladies to notice you. The ratios here are absolutely stupid too. Women get bombarded daily with shit messages from weirdos. That's fantastic news though because those guys make me look like some kind of god, and a breath of fresh air! Which ofcourse I am! Kind of.. ish, maybe. 😂
Rejection; don't let it get to you - at all. At the end of the day, it's not my fault some woman can't detect a supernatural presence when it's presented to her.
If some woman doesn't immediately fall in love with me, then she must be suffering with mental health issues or something. Go to see a doctor, or a priest or whatever, I don't know. Come back to me when you're fixed and if I have time, I'll deal with you as and when. I don't know. I've not given it much thought.
The point is, if they reject, block and move on. There's plenty more foo foo in the sea!
Don't say "I want to fuck someone now" or anything like that. That's a schoolboy error. 😉your ego is disgusting it's brilliant 😂😂 you're right about the ratios for sure . I guess it's finding my people on here
Lol, some of it is tongue in cheek, but the general attitude is a fair reflection. Good luck dude!"
haha I know it is 🤗cheers dude |
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"Everything in existence is made of carbon, from distant stars to those annoying plastic bits which hold bottle tops on. So. Your toaster might have been a woman at some point. With the right scientific perspective you are surrounded by women. Sort of.
Just don’t fuck your toaster. "
anything else is ok but not the toaster ? On a serious note that's a different way of looking at it |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here "
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs. |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs. "
yeah I'm starting to see that off this post , it's good to see the different viewpoint |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs. "
*and to piss people off. 😂 |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs.
*and to piss people off. 😂"
and my chosen specialist subject is 🤗😂 |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs.
*and to piss people off. 😂"
Shhhh!! It's all good  |
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"I was about to say your not doing too badly as you have 3 meet verifications in 5 weeks
That's better than some guys do in a year it's more the messaging on here that's frustrating. I guess it's different for me in person than it is chatting on here
Just use Fab as a network to the clubs.
*and to piss people off. 😂
Shhhh!! It's all good "
I've updated my profile , that will probably piss someone off somewhere |
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