"Does 1 meeting with a guy make you fully Bi ? "
Depends on so much. The act of having sex with someone doesn’t mean you’re necessarily attracted to them. That you’d want a relationship etc there’s a definite difference between bi and curious. Also depends on how the individual wants to identify, they are normally the only person who can truly answer that question for themselves xx |
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You could think about it in terms of a scale e.g. the Kinsey scale.
However, I think for some, myself included, my desires and drive can be quite fluid and shifting. At times I'm quite asexual. It's quite dependent on partners and I can experience quite significant vicarious arousal. The only time I've experienced any sexual desire toward men is during a threesome with a female partner.
For me personally to say that I am bi because of a few experiences of this nature, when I have never felt independent homosexual attraction, would be really quite inauthentic and potentially misleading. I can say that if I felt it was authentic to define myself as bi, I'd be very happy to do so.
So to answer your question, I believe that is for you to define based on your feelings and experiences. |
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Once bicurious. a few times then you’ve passed the curious stage
Anyway it’s only a label, embrace it, it’s not that bad being an openly bisexual person  .
(Unless your trying bigger your chances to woo some women or couples.. in that case go for bi mmf more options for fun in the bedroom ) |
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