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joining fab swingers and meeting couples, never realised just how amazing it is having two cocks pleasing one lady inevitably there is touching of cocks and I found it quite exhilarating. Anyone else had a similar experience |
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"What happed to you that made you bi girls an guys"
I don’t think that anything “makes you” bi.
There may be experiences and moments that make you realise that you are open to experiences that you hadn’t really thought about before.
For example, I was out for drinks after work once in London, exchanged glances with a very cute t-girl, and as the evening progressed, a few little smiles were exchanged.
When I was leaving the pub, I couldn’t see her, but outside the pub I could see her getting into a taxi across the road. One more look from her and I crossed the road, sat into the taxi and she took my hand. We hadn’t spoken a single word to each other, but we both knew where I would be spending the night.
T-girls weren’t a direction I had gone or really thought about before that night |
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I would argue that you were bi before you acted on it and just discovered a liking for bisex but that's semantics.
A little dabble when younger but nothing since. Not sure I would say I am bi given I don't fancy men and feel it's more that I'm prepared to play/suck a guy so as to avoid any awkwardness more then a desire to be with a guy. Either way, the label us of no interest. |
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A few years ago now I agreed to meet a guy for him to cum into my girlfriend at the times knickers. Both enjoyed it and arranged another time where I bought two pairs. One for him to sniff and the other to stroke with. As he was enjoying them he suddenly told me to stroke him. Can’t lie it felt really good.
He started to dribble precum and then told me to taste it.
Hesitated for a second and then took him in my mouth. He instructed me and held me there until he came. Told me I was good. Then got out the car and left
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"What happed to you that made you bi girls an guys"
i was in a 69 with the mrs while hubby was fucking her, his cock slipped out and i thought why not try sucking it, and really enjoyed having a hard cock in my mouth. |
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By *ddie70Man 1 week ago
Flintshire |
I was ask to dress up in women's clothes and go out with an ex gf. We had a blast together. But the more I dressed the more curious I was to trying a cock. She was loving the idea of watching another guy fuck me instead of her |
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Nothing “makes” someone Bi. It’s the sexuality you’re born with. You may suppress feelings and avoid admitting it to yourself.
I knew I was bi from very young, I was open about it as a teenager. I’ve had girlfriends. It’s not the same thing as just messing around with someone of the same sex. |
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"joining fab swingers and meeting couples, never realised just how amazing it is having two cocks pleasing one lady inevitably there is touching of cocks and I found it quite exhilarating. Anyone else had a similar experience "
Yes exactly, we progressed on trying various things fuck licking being the best |
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"What happed to you that made you bi girls an guys
i was in a 69 with the mrs while hubby was fucking her, his cock slipped out and i thought why not try sucking it, and really enjoyed having a hard cock in my mouth."
Yes my favourite its great when we all cum at the same time |
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"You don't "turn" Bi, it's your sexuality from birth. When you realise it is a whole other story.
Mrs x"
I am not 100% convinced that is defacto truth tbh. I believe there is some that choose for other reasons in circumstances with life .
Very much the adage of a hole is hole and better then none for some persons
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"You don't "turn" Bi, it's your sexuality from birth. When you realise it is a whole other story.
Mrs x
I am not 100% convinced that is defacto truth tbh. I believe there is some that choose for other reasons in circumstances with life .
Very much the adage of a hole is hole and better then none for some persons
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I think you are confusing people lowering their standards regardless of their sexual preferences with a person's sexuality. They aren't the same thing, people who are so desperate to have sex, choosing to fuck anyone or anything does not demonstrate a sexual preference! It demonstrates how low their standards and level of self respect are. Lol
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"Nothing "happened" to me. I discovered boys, and I discovered girls. I also discovered I sometimes enjoyed being a girl.
Natural progression. I wasn't "turned" bi; I am bi.
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Exactly! This is what I was saying too x
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Read a lot of erotica from about 13 onwards (Anaïs Nin, etc).
Realised I was turned on by both women and men. Then delved deep in to sociology and psychology, learning about alternative cultures, non-traditional parental units, same sex relationships, polyamory and more.
By 16, I was settled, calm and felt at ease. |
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By *dc1Man 1 week ago
essex and all over the south |
Visited a nudist beach. Found out i loved looking at the men as much as the women. Wasnt long before i was chatting to a few at close range. Found out i got hard very quickly. And men loved to see it. The rest is history as they say. |
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"Visited a nudist beach. Found out i loved looking at the men as much as the women. Wasnt long before i was chatting to a few at close range. Found out i got hard very quickly. And men loved to see it. The rest is history as they say."
nude beaches deffo are the start for some cock fun for many many men thats for sure ... the amount of men come speak to me when I was at nude beaches in summer ... many thought I was a genetic woman as my legs were closed and my piubic area looks like a cunt  . then I open my legs to move and whammm a femrod in the sun glaring back at them with a big smile than tom cruise has in top gun ... |
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By *hris3Man 1 week ago
Kilmarnock |
In my late teens in a porn cinema. An older gent sat beside me, after I while he started playing with himself, which I couldn't stop looking at. He reached over & brought my hand over and put it on his cock, I remember it being such a thrill.
The rest as they say is, - slightly messy - history. |
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Watching porn at a young age always wanted to be the woman sucking and taking cock, and when I finally did it what a sensaual feeling and now can't get enough, dressing in womens underware makes it more exciting |
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I was climbing a tree at the age of 16, my friend thought it would be a good idea to shake the tree, just to scare me.
I lost my grip and fell and landed on my friend, he grabbed me and rolled on top of me and started grinding on me I had an instant hard on, he kissed me and we lay there few what seemed like a long time, I didn't fancy him and didn't realise he fancied me. Nothing happened after that.
I began to enjoy bi play when I got conventional clubbing but nothing to serious, then got into swinging scene then got more into the physical side.
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By *olin22Man 7 days ago
washington |
From school days enjoyed looking at other lads in showers and in army wen in the airborne was about 18 wen gad my first cock to play with and have enjoyed loads more since I luv women as much as well . Also go to gay sauna in Newcastle now I'm older even though I have a gf |
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"“ in the words of Lady GaGa
“Baby I was born this way”
You don’t become bi.. must be something deep down beforehand to be at least curious.. just my opinion
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I’m not sure I agree. Prior to being plied with booze and seduced by a family friend, I’d never even considered stuff with a guy. My upbringing was very conservative, my parents had Victorian values and sex was a totally taboo topic. I don’t think I even knew that being gay was an actual thing. And I definitely didn’t know what gay sex was.
I had a gf and we had messed about but not had sex at this point. My thinking was definitely 100% straight prior to that fateful evening. The other guy was gay and taking a lads anal virginity was his most favourite thing. |
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"“ in the words of Lady GaGa
“Baby I was born this way”
You don’t become bi.. must be something deep down beforehand to be at least curious.. just my opinion
I’m not sure I agree. Prior to being plied with booze and seduced by a family friend, I’d never even considered stuff with a guy. My upbringing was very conservative, my parents had Victorian values and sex was a totally taboo topic. I don’t think I even knew that being gay was an actual thing. And I definitely didn’t know what gay sex was.
I had a gf and we had messed about but not had sex at this point. My thinking was definitely 100% straight prior to that fateful evening. The other guy was gay and taking a lads anal virginity was his most favourite thing. "
Will have to agree to disagree as this is the way there’s conversion therapy loonies think.. it’s not something for me at least you can pick and choose to do, it’s a deeper need to scratch the itch so to speak.. |
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Nothing makes you bi. I believe that sexuality is a spectrum and it can change over time. I only became curious about sex with guys in my early 20s and it was a few more years before I actually had a same sex experience.
It was a few years after that that I accepted I was bi after I realised I was attracted to the guys using the showers in the gym changing room - rather than it being a sex thing. |
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Gotta say i had no interest in men up until i was 40.
It was my desire to meet a lady who's husband would watch and clean up.
After a couple of visits he asked if he could suck me I said yeah why not
Was a bit pissed but gave consent.
It was ok nothing to go wow nut over the next 3 or 4 sessions I started to enjoy and when they both rimmed me it was merry Christmas.
So maybe I had bi tendencies but literally up until 40 never gave cock a second glance |
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