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If you could name and shame would you?
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Although I don't and won't I do feel like letting other social organisers names of folk who don't turn up without letting the host know at all ..
It bloody irritates me ..
Takes 2 minutes to let the host know you can't make up ..
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"No. Who knows what you are saying is the truth and vice versa
Surely the person in question could see the post and defend themselves? "
Why should they. The damage is done at that point.
The site has a facility to report people use that instead |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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As tempting as it is, you just have to let it go. I also think it takes two to tango and your experience might not be their experience... Or others
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"Yes. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If there’s one thing this site is missing, it’s more shaming.
Take Meli for example. The heathen doesn’t have jam on crumpets "
EVERYONE knows about Meli though, and she has no shame.
So a friend told me anyway.   |
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Nope as it would then get rather silly and we've been at the end of rumours/naming shaming ( sort of ) spread about us and our socials when we did them in the past ! and we just moved on and twas amusing though and just bad manners in the end if you can't be botherd to show up at a meeting or a social event or sad gits if that's how you get your kicks ? or per chance a combo of both !? |
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By *ffy.Woman 1 week ago
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Publicly? No. I’d rather not have to deal with all the drama it could cause
If they had done something that could potentially put a friend or as others have said, people at an event at risk, I’d do it privately.
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No. It's vulgar and inappropriate. We consent to sex and naming and shaming is likely to reflect on people who get offers declined. The whole process should have full discretion around it.
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No i wouldnt name and shame openly.
Too also name and shame them to others i wouldnt do unless they pose a risk to others.
Therefore i might name them, so that person is on there guard.
As its been mentioned on here before where people have removed condoms and gone bareback without consent.
then in that case you should inform the others so they are aware of this action.
Would i name and shame over gossip no as i wouldnt like it done to me.
people meet and gossip spreads often on these forums even when the people dont know them personally.
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No. I would never name and shame as it's laughingly called.
1. It shows your immaturity and tantrum status and your pathetic attempt to hit back or discredit someone.
2. You'd be naming and shaming according to your own criteria and not everybody elses.
3. You actually delude yourself into thinking that anyone else wants to know or even gives a fuck about your over inflated ego and pathetic sex life.
4. Everyone else is an adult who adults and makes adult decisions in an adult manner. One day you will be too.
5. It doesn't get you shagged. It just expends extra energy on a negative result.
That'll do for now.
No I wouldn't because I have always chosen and organised slowly and safely and surround myself with people with my values....
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By *oo..Woman 1 week ago
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100% I would if they had done something to me verbally or physically.
This is supposed to be a site for adults only, but the behaviour and bullying behaviours of some people on here either by one person or in groups is and has always been horrendous to see and deal with.
You get the option to report it , but nothing happens to them.
If they don't want to be outed for something then surely don't do it?
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"100% I would if they had done something to me verbally or physically.
This is supposed to be a site for adults only, but the behaviour and bullying behaviours of some people on here either by one person or in groups is and has always been horrendous to see and deal with.
You get the option to report it , but nothing happens to them.
If they don't want to be outed for something then surely don't do it?
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