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By *oo..Woman 1 week ago
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Depends on the mood, some days you don't mind extended foreplay. Other days you just want fucking into oblivion with minimal foreplay.
Read the mood at the time and don't be overly selfish 🤭 |
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"Could it be considered selfish if I get more pleasure out of satisfying my partner with play other than penis penetration? Does this remove pleasure from them of penetration so could be selfish?"
You only have to break down your language to make a conclusion. “I get more pleasure out of SATISFYING my partner with play”
Think about the word “Satisfy”. When you go for a meal out, do you want to be satisfied or be amazed.
Maybe seek to amaze the shit out of your partner in whatever way he / she likes it. If it’s penetration, then penetrate them, if they like it hard and fast, penetrate them hard and fast.
It’s not about you and what pleasures you. Make them feel the most fucked they can be!
You wouldn’t want them to say, when asked “yeah, he’s OK in bed - the sex is “satisfactory”” |
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"Could it be considered selfish if I get more pleasure out of satisfying my partner with play other than penis penetration? Does this remove pleasure from them of penetration so could be selfish?
You only have to break down your language to make a conclusion. “I get more pleasure out of SATISFYING my partner with play”
Think about the word “Satisfy”. When you go for a meal out, do you want to be satisfied or be amazed.
Maybe seek to amaze the shit out of your partner in whatever way he / she likes it. If it’s penetration, then penetrate them, if they like it hard and fast, penetrate them hard and fast.
It’s not about you and what pleasures you. Make them feel the most fucked they can be!
You wouldn’t want them to say, when asked “yeah, he’s OK in bed - the sex is “satisfactory””"
Thank you! You make a very good point |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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It doesn't make you selfish but it's a good idea to find people who are compatible with you. If someone really wants penetration, lots of it and it's not really a thing for you, perhaps you don't sexually fit that well together. |
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It’s not about you and what pleasures you. Make them feel the most fucked they can be!
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Of course it’s about him as well.
What’s the point in being there if he’s not doing what pleasures him as well?
Surely, sex is a mutually pleasurablel thing, rather than what pleases one or the other? |
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It’s not about you and what pleasures you. Make them feel the most fucked they can be!
”
Of course it’s about him as well.
What’s the point in being there if he’s not doing what pleasures him as well?
Surely, sex is a mutually pleasurablel thing, rather than what pleases one or the other? "
In my opinion…
It’s about both, and the original comment was about him mostly - I always start with focussing on them. Make her cum in bucket loads, and then I can do whatever I want afterwards, and she will let me! |
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