"Would love to get my first meet or find a FWB but is my profile really that bad that no one wants to play?  "
The men out number the women 1000 to 1 , so you gotta be something special. Or just maybe you find the one who finds you attractive, |
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By *8on33Man 2 weeks ago
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"Would love to get my first meet or find a FWB but is my profile really that bad that no one wants to play? "
Would you contact you if you read your profile?Is it the best it can be do your pics sell you ?If yes then you've answered your own question if No then maybe think about what you can say to improve it and what pics might give you an edge to meet that illusive 'stranger'and make her a friend . |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"Think of fab as a sweetshop and the label on a tub of sweets is the profile, it has to be inviting enough, that the person wants to try a taste "
I read that as sweatshop for a second there and wondered where the hell that analogy was going 😂 |
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Fab can be difficult for a single guy, I won't sugar coat it. First time I joined, sent so many messages, 95% ignored or unread. So best bet is to go to a big Social gathering or to a Swinging Club. |
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Check Joe Beans profile Thats the way to do it
It is incredibly hard for men Atm i have over 100 messages in my in box I sm sure other females have many more
I can inly talk to 2-3 men at a time So you can see the chsllange
And btw its not slways the best looking i end up meeting with Someone also has to make me laugh so i want to spend time with them |
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"Check Joe Beans profile Thats the way to do it
It is incredibly hard for men Atm i have over 100 messages in my in box I sm sure other females have many more
I can inly talk to 2-3 men at a time So you can see the chsllange
And btw its not slways the best looking i end up meeting with Someone also has to make me laugh so i want to spend time with them "
Get the Joe beans profile template here  |
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People will naturally match both ways in just 1 or 2% of the potential options. It's achievable when each party makes it happen and especially when they facilitate it. In a highly competitive environment, they will really have to work at it and it will help if they know what their potential matches will need, so that they can take their decision having everything required. |
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"Think of fab as a sweetshop and the label on a tub of sweets is the profile, it has to be inviting enough, that the person wants to try a taste "
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I think this pretty much sums it up. You need ask yourself what makes you unique and stand out from the masses; what is in your profile narrative and photographs that will pique someone's interest. |
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Issue we'd have is you won't show face pictures until you have gotten to know them...
If we read that we wouldn't message you, as why would we waste our time to find we aren't attracted to you.
I get it if it's platonic as it doesn't matter. |
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