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So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. |
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We're not thinking. Men are very simple creatures, we are generally task focused. Unlike you ladies, who seem to be able to connect anything to everything, we dont.
You can famously 'lie there and think of england' as the saying goes, but if our attention isn't on the task, our willy can go soft.
Or trains. We could be thinking about trains. Choo. Choo. |
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To be honest I'm lost in the moment of ecstasy (as clichéd as that sounds); looking into her eyes, exchanging the vapours of our warm breaths as we kiss, and sensing her coital reactions. There's no thought process per se. It's like thinking but not registering my thoughts. Every action/reaction is in response to her movements as we submit to spontaneity.
However....one thought will override everything else: is she close to climaxing? Shall I slow down or do I thrust harder or quicken the tempo.
And when it's all over I can't remember what I thought about. Post-coital entwinement follows pretty quickly - hugging, stroking, spooning, laughing... |
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"To be honest I'm lost in the moment of ecstasy (as clichéd as that sounds); looking into her eyes, exchanging the vapours of our warm breaths as we kiss, and sensing her coital reactions. There's no thought process per se. It's like thinking but not registering my thoughts. Every action/reaction is in response to her movements as we submit to spontaneity.
However....one thought will override everything else: is she close to climaxing? Shall I slow down or do I thrust harder or quicken the tempo. 😍
And when it's all over I can't remember what I thought about. Post-coital entwinement follows pretty quickly - hugging, stroking, spooning, laughing..."
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I suppose it depends. If they are just complete sex addicts, it may be just a mechanical function to orgasm, with no other imperative.
If they are "into you", and are looking into your eyes, they might be thinking if they left the cat enough food to stop it from tearing up everything and hairballing all over the bed.
If they are deeply smiling, it may mean they want you to go to those deep, dark and erotic places where you can both share each other's bliss.
If they get the cumface, then thats probably the end of all thoughts 
Anyway, that's what I read on the Kelloggs packet and I'm sticking to it. |
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Does she like this? Does she even like me? I wonder what or who she’s thinking about. I’m probably not going to cum. How long do I go before I stop? Maybe thinking about the last porno I watched will help. No it’s not helping so I’ll stop soon. Did she fake those orgasms? I need to stop soon because I want to check the football scores. Ok kiss her and tell her she’s beautiful. Do I look beautiful? She didn’t say it back? Why are we even doing this?
Then:
‘Can we stop for a bit?’ |
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"So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. "
“Is she enjoying it”
“Do I feel small to her”
“Ooooh cramp”
“Don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon…grannies, dead bodies” |
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"The names of the 7 dwarves hoping this may prolong it slightly "
Similar. As a younger man I’d recite the 1973 Sunderland FA cup winning team to limit an ‘early accident’...double edged sword it was though (no pun intended ha’ it sometimes invoked an equally worse event. Mr Softy would sometimes turn up....
The Mr |
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Genuinely nothing beside the moment 😈 and definitely not distracting thoughts like “am I doing ok” is she enjoying it” etc simply because I’d hope words of desire or preference would be exchanged if necessary 😉
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"I love the idea of this thread. It’s something I’ve always wondered.
But now all I’m ever going be thinking is are they thinking about their nan. Or in one guys case, dead bodies.
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I thought this was an easy answer ladies! Most of the time we are wondering what you ladies are thinking!!! Things can set us off easily....for example. Hmmm that moan sounded odd. Was it fake?...what is she thinking about! Terror sets in thereafter usually... |
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For me, a mix of trying not to shoot my bolt to soon, anxiety that I’m hitting the right spots and general concern about my cum face
Mostly, it’s just being in the moment. There’s no better feeling!
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By *host63Man 13 weeks ago
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"So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. "
Like most guys I am focused on the moment and concentrating on giving the woman the best possible time.
It's true men are quite simple and task focused and do not overthink these things.
It's one of our strengths though these days it's not seen that way |
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Genuinely though, differs from person to person. Sometimes you’re not in the moment and you do think weird shit like above. If you’re in the moment it depends on what you’re doing, what you can see and touch and what sensations you’re feeling and where. But there’s an element of not knowing what your partner is thinking when you’re having sex is part of the fun. You have to interpret from their actions and words and expressions. |
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"I'd love to read some proper answers to this. But it seems it's gone down the comedy value angle.
Boo. 😕😭"
Mine was semi serious. Hopefully would be in the moment but there would be an element of trying to pick up signs if she was enjoying (hopefully verbal as I love that) wanted something different and hoping to make sure she reached O at same time as me. |
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"I'd love to read some proper answers to this. But it seems it's gone down the comedy value angle.
Boo. 😕😭"
Mine was a proper answer. I think too much, which makes me drawn to partners who can inspire or compel me to switch off my brain. It's pretty rare.
Usually the only other time that happens is when I am hungry. |
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"The names of the 7 dwarves hoping this may prolong it slightly
Similar. As a younger man I’d recite the 1973 Sunderland FA cup winning team to limit an ‘early accident’...double edged sword it was though (no pun intended ha’ it sometimes invoked an equally worse event. Mr Softy would sometimes turn up....
The Mr
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Surely, that risks:
"Porterfielllllllldddd...!!!! Oh, bollox." |
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"I love the idea of this thread. It’s something I’ve always wondered.
But now all I’m ever going be thinking is are they thinking about their nan. Or in one guys case, dead bodies.
I thought this was an easy answer ladies! Most of the time we are wondering what you ladies are thinking!!! Things can set us off easily....for example. Hmmm that moan sounded odd. Was it fake?...what is she thinking about! Terror sets in thereafter usually... "
Everytime? I don’t usually have insecurities at that point. So that’s interesting to hear. Does it impact your enjoyment or just fleeting thoughts that are just normal for you at the point? |
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"I'd love to read some proper answers to this. But it seems it's gone down the comedy value angle.
Boo. 😕😭
You thought I was joking? I snuck my honest answer in among joke ones "
It was the football scores. ⚽ |
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Whilst we are in there, we are thinking, hope she moans with pleasure and truly loves everything we are doing
Hoping she whispers into our ear, please don’t stop, omg this is amazing, bulling the man up all the way, as that’s what I try to do whilst I am with a woman |
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"I'd love to read some proper answers to this. But it seems it's gone down the comedy value angle.
Boo. 😕😭
You thought I was joking? I snuck my honest answer in among joke ones
It was the football scores. ⚽"
I only think of those if I’ve been going for longer than 20 minutes |
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"I'd love to read some proper answers to this. But it seems it's gone down the comedy value angle.
Boo. 😕😭
Yeah, same. Oh well. 🥲"
I did slip in comedy effect to mine I’ll admit to that but genuinely I reckon the guys would agree that a lot of times something innocuous can start our minds to doubt how much the lady is enjoying it and then it’s hard to relax. But for sure we do spend a lot of time concerned about how we are doing only because we want ladies to enjoy being intimate with us because it’s an incredibly important piece of the puzzle and maybe you would agree too that if it’s not doing anything for you it’s a good enough reason to end a relationship potentially. Long response but I wanted you to know my joke was based on my experiences over the years. |
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"I love the idea of this thread. It’s something I’ve always wondered.
But now all I’m ever going be thinking is are they thinking about their nan. Or in one guys case, dead bodies.
I thought this was an easy answer ladies! Most of the time we are wondering what you ladies are thinking!!! Things can set us off easily....for example. Hmmm that moan sounded odd. Was it fake?...what is she thinking about! Terror sets in thereafter usually...
Everytime? I don’t usually have insecurities at that point. So that’s interesting to hear. Does it impact your enjoyment or just fleeting thoughts that are just normal for you at the point?"
Not as drastic as that but in my experience even without an ‘odd moan’ to scare me I’ll be concentrating on how much you are enjoying it. Which means you are on my mind the whole of the time.
Nowadays my solution is with a new partner is bring it up and maybe say everyone enjoys things differently so if somethings not enjoyable let me know and point me in the right direction. It relaxes everyone and hopefully you can get to how you like it quicker. Again long response but us man are worriers!! |
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Genuinely. It's a combination of:
- Fuck this looks and feels amazing.
- I need to stay as hard as I can.
- But not so that I cum too quickly.
- What different styles/techniques can I use here.
- Can my legs/arms hold this position.
And finally and by no means last.
- What is she thinking? Is she enjoying this? Does she want me to slow down or speed up? |
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"So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. "
thanks for this thread op it is quite an insight into guys minds 🙂 |
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"Genuinely. It's a combination of:
- Fuck this looks and feels amazing.
- I need to stay as hard as I can.
- But not so that I cum too quickly.
- What different styles/techniques can I use here.
- Can my legs/arms hold this position.
And finally and by no means last.
- What is she thinking? Is she enjoying this? Does she want me to slow down or speed up? "
That was articulated very well. And true also.
And this thread is important and really interesting to me is because the field I work in means I can tell anyone who is interested the exact reason why I’m confident the majority of men are thinking exactly along those lines. It stems from a glitch human evolution. And for Steve it’s also the reason why men are definitely more insecure!! |
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"The names of the 7 dwarves hoping this may prolong it slightly
Similar. As a younger man I’d recite the 1973 Sunderland FA cup winning team to limit an ‘early accident’...double edged sword it was though (no pun intended ha’ it sometimes invoked an equally worse event. Mr Softy would sometimes turn up....
The Mr
Surely, that risks:
"Porterfielllllllldddd...!!!! Oh, bollox.""
Not everyone will get that bit it is brilliant pal. Haha. |
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(You ladies)
You can famously 'lie there and think of england' as the saying goes, but if our attention isn't on the task, our willy can go soft.
Or trains. We could be thinking about trains. Choo. Choo. "
There were no trains where I was lucky enough to spend my formative years so the interest never developed.
However, the island was extremely dependent on air transport and that kindled my interest.
I can be on the job in the field at Eureka and get distracted by the sound of a lumbering turboprop Antonov freighter passing by up to 10 miles away.
At night it will be a medical helicopter distracting me and I will want to check where it has set out from. I already know where it is going. The hospital where one of my faves works! |
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"The names of the 7 dwarves hoping this may prolong it slightly
Similar. As a younger man I’d recite the 1973 Sunderland FA cup winning team to limit an ‘early accident’...double edged sword it was though (no pun intended ha’ it sometimes invoked an equally worse event. Mr Softy would sometimes turn up....
The Mr
Surely, that risks:
"Porterfielllllllldddd...!!!! Oh, bollox."
Not everyone will get that bit it is brilliant pal. Haha. "
I remember watching it - and my dad was a Mackem... |
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"So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. "
The most random things to keep it going for the longest |
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If they are "into you", and are looking into your eyes, they might be thinking if they left the cat enough food to stop it from tearing up everything and hairballing all over the bed.
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Luckily, I'm sufficiently paranoid about any form of commitment to even consider getting a pet! |
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"So that nice gentleman has his willy wedged firmly into your warm wet lady love location. Everything is beautiful, just purfik.
But what i want to know is what is he thinking?
Gents whats whats going through your minds?
Be honest, I'm genuinely curious…. "
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Generally I am not thinking anything - just going with the flow and responding to her movements.
If I do think it is because I might be starting to cum and I have to actively pause for a second or so just at the right moment to make sure things don’t get bang when I don’t want them to go bang. If I do the pause right she would never know. |
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