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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving! "
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more"
The people I've met on here more than once never left more than 1 verification
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Hmm.
Is this like only one offs or what counts as meets? I don't like those, so if so no.
But the person I have sex with the most is someone I started seeing because of fab. So most of my sex life does come from fab 💜 |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
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You guess? I would say you have a very low sex drive
I'm complaining if I don't get it a few times a week |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
You guess? I would say you have a very low sex drive
I'm complaining if I don't get it a few times a week"
I have more important things in my life to occupy my time, and I never crave sex. I crave the person. I just never find anyone that's worth craving. |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
You guess? I would say you have a very low sex drive
I'm complaining if I don't get it a few times a week"
Have you tried taking up badminton or something |
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By *ularliWoman 14 weeks ago
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving! "
Most of mine are through fab and I’m very content with it.
I love repeat meets with certain people.
I do how ever crave certain elements to sexual play that I can only get from 2 people, therefore I crave those guys more than wanting fun with others.
One is from fab and the other isn’t.
I’m definitely not starved and very happy with my sex life currently |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
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I have just learned that, even on FS, nothing is what it seems.  |
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I don't get sex from anywhere else, so...
It averages about once every 3 weeks ATM. Sure, I'd love more, but distance is the deciding factor there.
If I don't have someone to desire my sex drive drops off. |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving! "
Jeez, fab for sex? Are you joking? Fab is predominantly a place for open-minded chats.
If I wanted sex every day, I'd create a dating profile, upload some good pics and say that "I'm looking for commitment". It's surprising how Women miraculously get strong libidos when they think it will lead to a relationship. 😂
That being said, I'd also have to deal with the "backlash" a few weeks later. It's not worth the hassle.
Just being sociable in the real world is the best option for me. The best of both worlds. |
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"It's surprising how Women miraculously get strong libidos when they think it will lead to a relationship. 😂
What's surprising is that this kinda attitude still exists
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🫣😂Have a word |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
You guess? I would say you have a very low sex drive
I'm complaining if I don't get it a few times a week
Have you tried taking up badminton or something "
Im not bored or not have hobbies
Sex is just a high priority for me |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
The people I've met on here more than once never left more than 1 verification
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
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If you don't use it, it could heal shut... |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
If you don't use it, it could heal shut..."
We can but hope Colin, we can but hope. |
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"They are.
I average sex about once every 2 years. Although it could be twice to
this year, go me.
I'm satisfied, I guess I don't have a high sex drive.
I do believe there is good evidence that maintenance sex is required to keep tone, thickness and resilience of the genital and vaginal system.
If you don't use it, it could heal shut...
We can but hope Colin, we can but hope. "
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"I don't get sex from anywhere else, so...
It averages about once every 3 weeks ATM. Sure, I'd love more, but distance is the deciding factor there.
If I don't have someone to desire my sex drive drops off."
How come you have verifications from single guys when your settings are for Not looking for single guys and your age range is 99 - 99? |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting."
If their sex drive is extremely low then isn't their celibacy entirely voluntary and therefore not an incel? 🤔 |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting.
If their sex drive is extremely low then isn't their celibacy entirely voluntary and therefore not an incel? 🤔"
different people. |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
The people I've met on here more than once never left more than 1 verification
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Is verifying someone more than once a thing? |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
The people I've met on here more than once never left more than 1 verification
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?"
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on. |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting."
In the UK, there are slightly more women than men, although if you were to compare libido, you'll notice that far more men are far more sexual. This results in massively skewed sub-demographics in these sorts of communities.
If you ask fab staff, I'm sure they'll say something like men outnumber women 50:1 or something like that.
If you ask club owners, they will lament about having a disproportionate amount of men requesting to come to events. This is why it's more expensive for men, and why they limit male places. And old club that knew of years ago offered free attendance to women and free drinks, and for men it was £35.
It's not that women are incels, it's just that the majority of women have low libidos compared to that of a man.
My friends for example, the majority of my male friends would be open to fuck anyone. My female friends, on the other hand, the majority of them are happy to have sex a few times a year.
That being said, there are odd exceptions here and there. One of my female friends is extremely sexual, and these are the sorts of ladies who come here. You could say that she's one of the 1 in 50.
You're basically just up against the effects of hormonal differences between the sexes.
Imagine if women were just as sexual though. Imagine if the ratio was 1:1. You'd be fucking a few times a day, you'd never have to chase, you'd never have to jump through hoops, etc. It would probably get boring. 😂 |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting.
In the UK, there are slightly more women than men, although if you were to compare libido, you'll notice that far more men are far more sexual. This results in massively skewed sub-demographics in these sorts of communities.
If you ask fab staff, I'm sure they'll say something like men outnumber women 50:1 or something like that.
If you ask club owners, they will lament about having a disproportionate amount of men requesting to come to events. This is why it's more expensive for men, and why they limit male places. And old club that knew of years ago offered free attendance to women and free drinks, and for men it was £35.
It's not that women are incels, it's just that the majority of women have low libidos compared to that of a man.
My friends for example, the majority of my male friends would be open to fuck anyone. My female friends, on the other hand, the majority of them are happy to have sex a few times a year.
That being said, there are odd exceptions here and there. One of my female friends is extremely sexual, and these are the sorts of ladies who come here. You could say that she's one of the 1 in 50.
You're basically just up against the effects of hormonal differences between the sexes.
Imagine if women were just as sexual though. Imagine if the ratio was 1:1. You'd be fucking a few times a day, you'd never have to chase, you'd never have to jump through hoops, etc. It would probably get boring. 😂"
Yes sir, I'm sure we'd complain. Bookings into fracture clinics with worn foreskins, fractured penises etc. |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting.
In the UK, there are slightly more women than men, although if you were to compare libido, you'll notice that far more men are far more sexual. This results in massively skewed sub-demographics in these sorts of communities.
If you ask fab staff, I'm sure they'll say something like men outnumber women 50:1 or something like that.
If you ask club owners, they will lament about having a disproportionate amount of men requesting to come to events. This is why it's more expensive for men, and why they limit male places. And old club that knew of years ago offered free attendance to women and free drinks, and for men it was £35.
It's not that women are incels, it's just that the majority of women have low libidos compared to that of a man.
My friends for example, the majority of my male friends would be open to fuck anyone. My female friends, on the other hand, the majority of them are happy to have sex a few times a year.
That being said, there are odd exceptions here and there. One of my female friends is extremely sexual, and these are the sorts of ladies who come here. You could say that she's one of the 1 in 50.
You're basically just up against the effects of hormonal differences between the sexes.
Imagine if women were just as sexual though. Imagine if the ratio was 1:1. You'd be fucking a few times a day, you'd never have to chase, you'd never have to jump through hoops, etc. It would probably get boring. 😂"
There's also a limiting factor with being on the receiving end of penetrative sex. I have a high sex drive and I would happily receive oral sex or have clitoral stimulators used on me multiple times a day but if I have penetrative sex multiple times in a day it can get pretty sore so to do that every day would be too much. |
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Fab is all peaks and troughs, so not the only site I use, as that is peaks and troughs too! 
I currently have 5 ladies in my ‘harem’, met through here and the other place, and have sex regularly. I recently met three of my friends in one week; Monday, Wednesday, then Friday, and the following week it was Monday, Tuesday, then Wednesday  Good times, but testing when they know you can cum three times in a session lol…… |
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if I have penetrative sex multiple times in a day it can get pretty sore so to do that every day would be too much.
Fair enough, the irony of condoms is that without added hard wearing lubricant, they would be the most dragging, horrible things on the planet. Maybe there needs to be a next gen teflon outer, grippy inner. |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on."
I didn't think so either because I've never verified anyone more than once but from that comment it looked like it meant I had no repeat meets because I didn't have multiple verifications from the same people |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on.
I didn't think so either because I've never verified anyone more than once but from that comment it looked like it meant I had no repeat meets because I didn't have multiple verifications from the same people"
It's a strange conclusion to draw in my opinion. |
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I do just fine on fab but I'd never limit myself to just one way to meet people. It gives fab too much weight.
All in all my sex life meets my needs and then some.
On fab have I gave to deal with all the unsolicited boob pic's and the 'can you come over and fuck me right now' messages. It wears ya down ya know? |
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"I don't get sex from anywhere else, so...
It averages about once every 3 weeks ATM. Sure, I'd love more, but distance is the deciding factor there.
If I don't have someone to desire my sex drive drops off.
How come you have verifications from single guys when your settings are for Not looking for single guys and your age range is 99 - 99?"
Because at one time I was looking to meet, and now I'm not. Simple. |
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"In real life I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve been chatted up in person, I would certainly have had a very dry year this year as a single person were it not for fab  "
Really? If I didn't approach women then my sex life would be a myth |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on.
I didn't think so either because I've never verified anyone more than once but from that comment it looked like it meant I had no repeat meets because I didn't have multiple verifications from the same people"
You're complaining you are starved of sex yet you have veris stating how wonderful you are. Surely you can see them if you need sex? |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on.
I didn't think so either because I've never verified anyone more than once but from that comment it looked like it meant I had no repeat meets because I didn't have multiple verifications from the same people
You're complaining you are starved of sex yet you have veris stating how wonderful you are. Surely you can see them if you need sex? "
If the point was to get regular sex from the same person I would be in a relationship |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving!
But all your veris say how fantastic you are so where are you going wrong, surely if you're as good as they say you are they'd be back for more
Repeat: if your veris thought you were so great, surely they'd be up for repeat meets
Is verifying someone more than once a thing?
Not as far as I know unless they delete their profile and come back, people sometimes ask for another one. I don't think verifications are a way to judge if someone meets someone more than once unless they specifically mention they've met multiple times before giving it. But people often give them after the first meeting and then only they know what happens from then on.
I didn't think so either because I've never verified anyone more than once but from that comment it looked like it meant I had no repeat meets because I didn't have multiple verifications from the same people
You're complaining you are starved of sex yet you have veris stating how wonderful you are. Surely you can see them if you need sex? "
And to clarify I'm not starved of sex (thankfully) i was saying if it was only down to fab then it would be |
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"I had one sexual encounter through fab. I was so bad her profile is hidden and she didn't even want to verify me back after hiding mine on her profile
Ouch. Thats cold blooded"
Tbf the last time before was over 7 years. I didn't last long |
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"So we have a demographic of lots of women to men, but we have a unknown percent of women who are incel, extremely low sex drive. That's shaken things up a bit.
Interesting.
In the UK, there are slightly more women than men, although if you were to compare libido, you'll notice that far more men are far more sexual. This results in massively skewed sub-demographics in these sorts of communities.
If you ask fab staff, I'm sure they'll say something like men outnumber women 50:1 or something like that.
If you ask club owners, they will lament about having a disproportionate amount of men requesting to come to events. This is why it's more expensive for men, and why they limit male places. And old club that knew of years ago offered free attendance to women and free drinks, and for men it was £35.
It's not that women are incels, it's just that the majority of women have low libidos compared to that of a man.
My friends for example, the majority of my male friends would be open to fuck anyone. My female friends, on the other hand, the majority of them are happy to have sex a few times a year.
That being said, there are odd exceptions here and there. One of my female friends is extremely sexual, and these are the sorts of ladies who come here. You could say that she's one of the 1 in 50.
You're basically just up against the effects of hormonal differences between the sexes.
Imagine if women were just as sexual though. Imagine if the ratio was 1:1. You'd be fucking a few times a day, you'd never have to chase, you'd never have to jump through hoops, etc. It would probably get boring. 😂
There's also a limiting factor with being on the receiving end of penetrative sex. I have a high sex drive and I would happily receive oral sex or have clitoral stimulators used on me multiple times a day but if I have penetrative sex multiple times in a day it can get pretty sore so to do that every day would be too much. "
I'd never considered that, but I suppose there are even more factors that probably aren't generally understood by men. |
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"I don't get sex from anywhere else, so...
It averages about once every 3 weeks ATM. Sure, I'd love more, but distance is the deciding factor there.
If I don't have someone to desire my sex drive drops off.
How come you have verifications from single guys when your settings are for Not looking for single guys and your age range is 99 - 99?
Because at one time I was looking to meet, and now I'm not. Simple."
Awwwww Nelly-knickers! You poor thing! |
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"I had one sexual encounter through fab. I was so bad her profile is hidden and she didn't even want to verify me back after hiding mine on her profile
Ouch. Thats cold blooded
Tbf the last time before was over 7 years. I didn't last long"
You've got one just like mine.
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Glass paned interior door, that is! |
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"I had one sexual encounter through fab. I was so bad her profile is hidden and she didn't even want to verify me back after hiding mine on her profile
Ouch. Thats cold blooded
Tbf the last time before was over 7 years. I didn't last long
You've got one just like mine.
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Glass paned interior door, that is!"
Well yeah. Glass paned interior doors are the best |
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"I don't get sex from anywhere else, so...
It averages about once every 3 weeks ATM. Sure, I'd love more, but distance is the deciding factor there.
If I don't have someone to desire my sex drive drops off.
How come you have verifications from single guys when your settings are for Not looking for single guys and your age range is 99 - 99?
Because at one time I was looking to meet, and now I'm not. Simple.
Awwwww Nelly-knickers! You poor thing!"
Not at all. I simply found what I was looking for. |
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"If that were the case I may actually shrivel up and turn inside out
Out of choice surely
No! I’m trying to get laid! 😂 "
If only I were younger and taller, I'd offer you tours of Bath's museums... |
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By *eliWoman 14 weeks ago
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Yes. I'm engaged to someone from Fab, dating another thanks to Fab etc... and yeah I'm pretty content. I do have a ridiculously high libido but I don't need to be fucking constantly.
I meet some wonderful people thanks to socials organised through Fab, the forums etc. That's enough for me.
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Ridiculously high sex drive so Fab for me is a bit of a drudge tbh. I don’t even really bother coming in here for sex anymore.
If I want sex the local Glasgow sauna is a certainty though and it’s also a nice place. |
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving! "
I had plenty of offers.But majority i took up were from people not on Fab.One problem with Fab is getting asked to meet as soin as they message at 2am.At the time i had to get up at 430am for work.I have gone through periods of lots of offers in a short period on Fab.Depends what your looking for? |
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"I have had a bit of a drought on here health issues but, I am ready to start meeting again so I will get back to you on this, OP!"
Glad to hear that you're all better now and get to make up for lost time |
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By *aizyWoman 14 weeks ago
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"I have had a bit of a drought on here health issues but, I am ready to start meeting again so I will get back to you on this, OP!
Glad to hear that you're all better now and get to make up for lost time"
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"Content? No, not even slightly.
It's been a bit of a baron waste land for me lately, Fab.
I'm like a sexual Mad Max...just...less sexy"
Someone said to me when I first joined fab that if you're not getting laid outside fab then it's not likely that your chances will improve on here |
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"Content? No, not even slightly.
It's been a bit of a baron waste land for me lately, Fab.
I'm like a sexual Mad Max...just...less sexy
Someone said to me when I first joined fab that if you're not getting laid outside fab then it's not likely that your chances will improve on here"
Thank God for non fabbers and the ability to talk to them in pubs! |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"If the majority of sexual encounters you had were through Fab would you be content?
I personally would be starving! "
A talking past, present or both?
If you’re talking about in my late teens early twenties when i had a lot my “Fab heyday” in my early 30’s pales in comparison for quantity but for sheer hedonism i went down the Rabbit Hole altogether looking back it was quite an experience with few regrets.
Nowadays i get far more off site maybe that’s being over 40 and having more responsibilities therefore less free time.
Am i content with Fab?
I haven’t had a Fab meet in sometime and miss the hedonism but enjoy the site in general.
Contentment has room for improvement 😌 |
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