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You have such a sexy...mind
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I love it when I discover people on Fab who are mentally on the same sexual wavelength and we can have deliciously filthy discussions even if they live nowhere near me. For me it's another form of sex, and one I enjoy and find worthwhile in itself.
Is that a part of Fab for you, or do you consider anything not likely to lead to a meet / sex a waste of time? |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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If I had no intention of ever meeting them I wouldn't be engaging in conversation, definitely not of a sexual kind. Even those I have plans with I hardly ever do, after I've met them then maybe. If the moment arises. |
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Before covid. I used to love having a mentally arousing sexting session. Alas along came the Instant gratification hunters, who wanted to wank over our sext and then block/ghost me....
So now I only stick to sexual friends sexting  |
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That's not really for me. I'll maybe have frank conversations about sex but I won't have sexual conversations with people I have no intention of meeting. To be honest the sexual conversation usually comes after I've had sex with them (so actually not many people at all). Otherwise I find people have certain expectations of me. |
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By *aizyWoman 12 weeks ago
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I will talk about sex likes and dislikes but, proper sex talk only happens after I've met with someone, talking dirty to strangers I've never met and am not likely to meet does nothing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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I do have an amazing way with words that I could raise the tension between myself and someone very easily.
But, I'd not be doing it with some stranger as wank bank material.
Only people I know/want or have already met.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I do have an amazing way with words that I could raise the tension between myself and someone very easily.
But, I'd not be doing it with some stranger as wank bank material.
Only people I know/want or have already met. "
Oh I doubt you need many words to raise tensions. |
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"If I had no intention of ever meeting them I wouldn't be engaging in conversation, definitely not of a sexual kind. Even those I have plans with I hardly ever do, after I've met them then maybe. If the moment arises."
This. I only do it if I telling a guy I am seeing later what I'd like to do with him. |
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By *eliWoman 12 weeks ago
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I don't consider it a waste of time; I'm sure some people love it. I don't have any need for it.
If I was feeling in the mood for that sort of conversation I can think of people I'd rather talk to, already know rather well before engaging in it with some random Bob on the layby. |
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By *ookie46Woman 12 weeks ago
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"That's not really for me. I'll maybe have frank conversations about sex but I won't have sexual conversations with people I have no intention of meeting. To be honest the sexual conversation usually comes after I've had sex with them (so actually not many people at all). Otherwise I find people have certain expectations of me. "
This
I keep a very different side of me for the person I am seeing and on my time on here very few have had that
Some are just lucky  |
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"If we’re not meeting I’m not interested in endless chatting.
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Ok where there’s a MUTUAL sexual connection I’m not interested in endless chatting.  "
There's a wisdom there I feel. If there's a one sided attraction it often leads to issues, no matter how well intended both parties are. |
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"If we’re not meeting I’m not interested in endless chatting.
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Ok where there’s a MUTUAL sexual connection I’m not interested in endless chatting.
There's a wisdom there I feel. If there's a one sided attraction it often leads to issues, no matter how well intended both parties are."
When you like her, you just wanna talk to her regardless of if she likes you back. It’s the hope that kills you. |
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Not a waste of time. I can see the appeal. It’s not something I look for, it’s something I accept as a temporary solution between being with each other.
It’s not enough to sustain me on its own. I need something I can touch |
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