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How do you like your affection?
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"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.
Oh, and The Sex 💜
And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?"
Time and thoughts. I don't need a lot, if we're apart then at least one of us is otherwise occupied.
An occasional meme or stupid thought that crossed the mind is enough.
If I don't hear from someone for a week I don't assume they've forgotten about me or stopped caring. I just know they have other priorities at the moment and will reach out when they have the time and spoons to engage with me properly 💜 |
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Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.
An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.
Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.
When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling. |
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"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.
Oh, and The Sex 💜
And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?
Time and thoughts. I don't need a lot, if we're apart then at least one of us is otherwise occupied.
An occasional meme or stupid thought that crossed the mind is enough.
If I don't hear from someone for a week I don't assume they've forgotten about me or stopped caring. I just know they have other priorities at the moment and will reach out when they have the time and spoons to engage with me properly 💜 "
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"Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.
An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.
Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.
When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling."
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I don’t need a great deal of physical affection. Thinking of me, actually listening to me when I speak and wanting to spend time with me when they can is enough. Simple little things!
“I saw this today and it made me think of you” has me kicking my feet😌 |
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"Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.
An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.
Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.
When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling."
This is similar to my own thoughts. |
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Messages from out the blue saying they're thinking about you. Silly notes left around the place if they're going away.
Making you a cuppa when you get in from a hard day in work.
Being cwtshed in with them.
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I'm not a very emotional person.
I love touch, warmth or hugs. Also, I know it's weird, but I like to be sat on lied on and all that too. You know that cosy slouchy stuff?
But a lot of the time I like my own space. |
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"I don’t need a great deal of physical affection. Thinking of me, actually listening to me when I speak and wanting to spend time with me when they can is enough. Simple little things!
“I saw this today and it made me think of you” has me kicking my feet😌"
Hahaha you’re cute. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"Privately!
If not with me then messages or phone calls work too
What kind of messages?"
The ones where I make their penises grow into massive rock hard erections!
Those Kinds of messages.  |
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I’m a very tactile person so I love people who feed into that need for touch in me
But one of the other ways someone makes me feel special is when I know they’ve taken notice of me and I’m not just an outlet for their sexual urges. Things they say or do that reflect something I’ve maybe mentioned in passing before or commented on in a conversation |
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By *a LunaWoman 12 weeks ago
South Wales |
Honesty.
Showing love/affection (hand holding, kisses, regular sex)
Knowing (feeling) I’m adored. I want to know that if there was a house fire they’d save me before their PlayStation.
If someone upset me they’d act like they’d hunt them down and piss in their coffee (without actually doing that - I don’t want a crim as a boyfriend).
They’d listen to me. The first time.
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"Honesty.
Showing love/affection (hand holding, kisses, regular sex)
Knowing (feeling) I’m adored. I want to know that if there was a house fire they’d save me before their PlayStation.
If someone upset me they’d act like they’d hunt them down and piss in their coffee (without actually doing that - I don’t want a crim as a boyfriend).
They’d listen to me. The first time.
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All of this 🫶🏾🫶🏾 |
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By *vaRose43Woman 12 weeks ago
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Touch, kisses, skin on skin, smiles, genuine desire.
When apart it could be a message, a meme, something that made them think of me… or it could be teasing about next time, phonecalls or video calls. All build and keep the desire and anticipation |
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Tactility, in all forms. The back of her hand brushing against mine with a gentle persuasion; stroking her fingers along my thigh, smiling, looking into my eyes with conviction. Little gestures that speak volumes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Depends who it is. Depends on the situation. But in general terms I like physical affection that happens without having to encourage it. A kiss out of nowhere, a touch, holding hands...
And in the bedroom; lots of eye contact, gentle caresses especially around the face, kisses - long, deep, intense kisses.
Oh, and swallowing  |
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By *929Man 12 weeks ago
bedlington |
I’m not bothered really if I had a partner the level exchanged would purely be based on their needs I’m happy receiving zero (if talking apart from sex) I don’t need any to be content
From family I despise it from everyone accept my kids my mother touched me on the foot the other day and I went ballistic and had to tell her get off haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Things that make me feel cared for that aren't directly for sex.
A "Saw this and thought of you" makes my day
It can be just a meme, my favourite biscuits, or bringing me a coffee.
That and the little touches, even if just next to eachother on the sofa, or hand on my back or arm when out together.
Feeling safe, loved and appreciated does wonders for the sex life  |
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It depends on the person and what they're comfortable with. I really value affection that feels genuine and freely given, rather than something forced or routine. Physical affection is wonderful, but when you're apart, there's something special about knowing someone truly enjoys staying in contact, however frequent that is. I love a mix of playful teasing and more heartfelt words. It means a lot when someone cares/trusts enough to share their true feelings.
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Physical gestures - cuddles, little strokes, hand holding, little kisses and gentle gestures like that.
Telling me about how they appreciate me.
Doing things to show me how much they appreciate me. |
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