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Depending on the club, they might have a group chat going for the night you are going to so you can mingle there.
Make sure you have been accepted as a member if need be before you go. Take ID with you.
Make sure you have cash or a card in case phones have to be handed in or left in a locker.
Dress nice, mingle, be friendly and try to engage in conversations if you can.
Biggest rule of all is don't go expecting sex. |
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For the first time don't pick a club that requires membership.
Go with the mine set that it's an experience not a guarantee of any action.
Also pick a club and a night that is to your taste, for example I don't like clubs that have porn on every TV or one that plays music so you can't have a decent chat.
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"Depending on the club, they might have a group chat going for the night you are going to so you can mingle there.
Make sure you have been accepted as a member if need be before you go. Take ID with you.
Thought u had to dress down in clubs tho?
Make sure you have cash or a card in case phones have to be handed in or left in a locker.
Dress nice, mingle, be friendly and try to engage in conversations if you can.
Biggest rule of all is don't go expecting sex."
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"For the first time don't pick a club that requires membership.
Go with the mine set that it's an experience not a guarantee of any action.
Also pick a club and a night that is to your taste, for example I don't like clubs that have porn on every TV or one that plays music so you can't have a decent chat. OK thank you
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"Depending on the club, they might have a group chat going for the night you are going to so you can mingle there.
Make sure you have been accepted as a member if need be before you go. Take ID with you.
Make sure you have cash or a card in case phones have to be handed in or left in a locker.
Dress nice, mingle, be friendly and try to engage in conversations if you can.
Biggest rule of all is don't go expecting sex."
Great advice, same as the advice you gave us when we first joined fab. Always there to answer our questions. Nicest couple on here ❤️ |
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Take the tour with the staff, have a good chat with staff. They will likely introduce you to people they know to be friendly on the way round.
Listen to the staff and any rules they have in the club.
Chat to people you find attractive don’t go with the attitude that anyone will do.
If anyone is interested in you they’ll let you know. If you do pluck up courage to ask someone if they would be interested in some fun don’t be disappointed if they say no.
Go for the experience and atmosphere as much as anything else.
Also if the club you are going to is local or an hour or so down the road go to some of the local munches/socials, undoubtedly you’ll then find some familiar faces at the club. |
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"Looking to go to a club soon for first time. Would like some advice on being a single male how to possible approach it "
Ewooooo!
Ok, so message the representative/staff on here or their website first. Look at the events. I personally recommend the social events because they're cheaper and in my opinion, that's where a man gets to shine.
You can go to such events for around £20. Ask the staff whether it's going to be busy or not. Watch out for dead venues.
Some have member/non member bollocks. Watch out for that too.
When you get in, you'll probably be asked to dress down. You'll get a towel.
When you're in there, you'll need to be sociable.
Don't follow anyone. Don't do the "wanking dead" thing as they call it.
Try to be as cool as you can. Don't look down, try not to look like a lost lamb (even though you will be at times).
Smile and pretend that you're happy, collected and confident. Talk to anyone, even men. When you talk, try to be confident, make hand gestures and all that so that babes can look over and see how socially strong you are.
What I find is that women will notice you and glance over. They will generally wait for you to make the first move, but not always.
Be mindful that if you approach one woman, you can completely f*ck yourself over. For example, if you approach a slim woman, bigger women can get funny. If you approach a woman with big boobies, you can offend the ones with pretty little ones, etc. Women watch everything ffs.
Anyway, let any chats develop. I personally wait for the woman to make the moves or make it absolutely obvious before I do anything more.
If you go in with a mentality like "I'm going to meet new friends and I'm not having sex", you should do well.
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"Looking to go to a club soon for first time. Would like some advice on being a single male how to possible approach it
Ewooooo!
Ok, so message the representative/staff on here or their website first. Look at the events. I personally recommend the social events because they're cheaper and in my opinion, that's where a man gets to shine.
You can go to such events for around £20. Ask the staff whether it's going to be busy or not. Watch out for dead venues.
Some have member/non member bollocks. Watch out for that too.
When you get in, you'll probably be asked to dress down. You'll get a towel.
When you're in there, you'll need to be sociable.
Don't follow anyone. Don't do the "wanking dead" thing as they call it.
Try to be as cool as you can. Don't look down, try not to look like a lost lamb (even though you will be at times).
Smile and pretend that you're happy, collected and confident. Talk to anyone, even men. When you talk, try to be confident, make hand gestures and all that so that babes can look over and see how socially strong you are.
What I find is that women will notice you and glance over. They will generally wait for you to make the first move, but not always.
Be mindful that if you approach one woman, you can completely f*ck yourself over. For example, if you approach a slim woman, bigger women can get funny. If you approach a woman with big boobies, you can offend the ones with pretty little ones, etc. Women watch everything ffs.
Anyway, let any chats develop. I personally wait for the woman to make the moves or make it absolutely obvious before I do anything more.
If you go in with a mentality like "I'm going to meet new friends and I'm not having sex", you should do well.
Brilliant thanks alot 👍
Good luck. 🫢"
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"Depending on the club, they might have a group chat going for the night you are going to so you can mingle there.
Make sure you have been accepted as a member if need be before you go. Take ID with you.
Make sure you have cash or a card in case phones have to be handed in or left in a locker.
Dress nice, mingle, be friendly and try to engage in conversations if you can.
Biggest rule of all is don't go expecting sex.
Great advice, same as the advice you gave us when we first joined fab. Always there to answer our questions. Nicest couple on here ❤️"
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"Looking to go to a club soon for first time. Would like some advice on being a single male how to possible approach it "
I did this a few months back.
Booked onto the guest list, was very polite and respectful. Went with no expectations other than to meet some friendly people. Treated it like being invited to someone's house for a party. Got a tour then explored on my own. Everyone was super friendly and joined in some conversations.
Going for my 2nd visit this weekend. |
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