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How does Swabfingers effect your life?
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 I find conversations about sex and what makes people tick (or what ticks them off) interesting. Occasionally, I find someone who I’m happy to chat with 1-2-1. | |||
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"I've always enjoyed swabbing someone's fingers" Haha, that's some weird little habit of mine. There's a lady I know called Jenifer. I call her Fenijer. Fidget spinner; spidget finner. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ | |||
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"It seems that for the most part, guys love the boobies. To be fair, where else can one get fresh photos of boobies on a regular basis? May the lord bless those ladies who ease the burden of life by showing them to us. ♥️ Actually, I read a thing once; boobies to men are like flowers to women. 💐🍈🍈🍳🍳" I’d rather have boobs than flowers! | |||
"It seems that for the most part, guys love the boobies. To be fair, where else can one get fresh photos of boobies on a regular basis? May the lord bless those ladies who ease the burden of life by showing them to us. ♥️ Actually, I read a thing once; boobies to men are like flowers to women. 💐🍈🍈🍳🍳 I’d rather have boobs than flowers!" Well, there's always one who has to be awkward isn't there? Go and stand in the corner for 10 minutes. | |||
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"I dont agree with much of what you have written. I don't get huge amounts of mail and I have very rarely had abusive replies. 1 maybe 2 in the years I have been here. Banal messages yes lots of those but they are easily passed over. I have met some wonderful people here. More intelligent and more interesting than from any other dating site. I don't know if I'm lucky or if it's my age group but I don't recognise the experiences that a lot of women have described on forum posts." One time, long ago when I was very naughty, I wanted to learn how to master this environment and to really understand what was going on... So I created a woman's profile (admin, I'm sorry, I was young and stupid, please forgive me! I'm begging you!). Anyway, her name was Lucy. Lucy would get over 100 messages a day. I learnt a massive amount from her! Guys were truly vile with my Lucy. I realised that even changing Lucy's status would trigger men to lose their minds. It was a real eye opener to say the least. Also, I made a lot of friends on here years ago and I made a point of getting them to release their deepest, darkest fab secrets to me. That's how I know how it is for a good proportion of ladies on here. May Allah almighty bless Lucy and the ladies I made friends with, for they blessed me with knowledge and wisdom. Lol | |||
"I think the day a sex site starts to affect my life, is the day I need to ban myself from the internet. " Yes, I agree sir. | |||
"Fab was introduced to me by a colleague when he discovered I was at a certain juncture in my life. I wasn't looking for a relationship and I had no desire to join the plethora of dating apps. I much preferred the obscurity of Fab and the manner in which I could remain incognito, to a certain degree. I came for the sex. I'm still here for the sex. Although that's succinctly put my endeavours are anything but that. Fab, however, serves me well and I have no complaints. Frustration leads to fruition and that's fine with me. I'm also here for the forums. They are engaging, entertaining and bewildering all at the same time. I don't need to be on the forums but I cannot imagine being anywhere else for the fuckwittery. They are also an indirect way to showcase your person, rightly or wrongly. I remain here because when you least expect it another friend or paramour emerges to grace your ever-increasing nexus of opportunities, socials, theatrics and drama." Yea, interesting... | |||
"It gives me a giggle reading half the bullshit "Stay around love, there's plenty more bullshit to come, I assure you. I for one am full of it. 😂 | |||
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"Going by what I typically see in my ‘category’ I’m fucking this up properly. Not nearly thirsty enough. No interest in borderline misogynistic fantasies. Not particular worried about getting attention. The forums are good. Well, the bits I’m in are anyway. Which reminds me, I’ve a score to settle with Edward from 16b. Wiley git got the last raspberry trifle at the coop by distracting me with an erotically suggestive banana. He will pay. £4.45 I think it was. " Go and find Edward, find that banana and ram it down his throat. Hell soon understand what it's like to... to... Wind people up... | |||
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"I’m here for the forums I find conversations about sex and what makes people tick (or what ticks them off) interesting. Occasionally, I find someone who I’m happy to chat with 1-2-1. "I concur! | |||
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"It’s a safe place where I can just be Melissa, express myself a little & chat to a few like minded people, how I’m unable to in my regular life & also helps my mental health…. my happy place. " Yes, I can totally understand that. I was brought up as one of Jehovah's witnesses as a child. I remember gay friends who had to act straight. It's got to be hard. | |||
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"I come from a background that really wouldn’t approve of this kind of thing so for me interacting with people on the forums and in private helps to make me feel a bit more normal. In a strange way I find it comforting that others on here are such deviants that if I casually say something the reaction isn’t pure shock and horror. I’ve had some nice conversations with people in private on here too. There’s some really good eggs on FAB. As for meeting up with people in person. I don’t know 🤷 so far I haven’t (from FAB) but it’s still early days I guess. I do have more success elsewhere and real life doesn’t obliterate my self esteem like FAB does. I also notice that my conversations especially when dealing with couples on here are a little strange. I made a post the other week and there’s just this weird culture. This place really has gone to some peoples heads. I’m no longer meeting couples for this reason. " Planning on meeting you dude, beers all around. | |||
"I come from a background that really wouldn’t approve of this kind of thing so for me interacting with people on the forums and in private helps to make me feel a bit more normal. In a strange way I find it comforting that others on here are such deviants that if I casually say something the reaction isn’t pure shock and horror. I’ve had some nice conversations with people in private on here too. There’s some really good eggs on FAB. As for meeting up with people in person. I don’t know 🤷 so far I haven’t (from FAB) but it’s still early days I guess. I do have more success elsewhere and real life doesn’t obliterate my self esteem like FAB does. I also notice that my conversations especially when dealing with couples on here are a little strange. I made a post the other week and there’s just this weird culture. This place really has gone to some peoples heads. I’m no longer meeting couples for this reason. Planning on meeting you dude, beers all around. "Oh, I should specify. I haven’t met anyone from FAB that I’ve had sex with. 🎻 I do plan on meeting people for a social at some point. Beers with Toots is a must 🍻 | |||
"I'm just curious, what's your attraction to it? Do you feel that it augments your life in some way? What's the draw to it? This is just a very open discussion. I'm interested to know what other people's thoughts are. I've spent some time here the past week, and I've thought "what's the draw"? Yes, well, what is the draw? What's the draw for everybody really? Really, if you think about it deep down, this isn't a hospitable environment for anyone (by default). If you're a man, you're probably looking for sex. Why here though? Why not go where the sex is? For me personally, this isn't the best place to get sex (from a male perspective anyway), yet we're all still here. For some men, the whole experience can be absolutely devastating and can drive them to psychological lows. The mass rejection, loneliness and hopelessness can destroy fully grown men. Throughout humanity, men are geared to be on the hunt for sex, and women not so much. This leads to a massive disparity in availability on here between the sexes, and this in turn has a profound negative effect on the whole concept of swinging. Therefore, for women also, it can be a nightmare. You're in massive demand. For other demographics, it's easy to think that being in demand is a good thing, however, they're in such massive demand that it can be exhausting. The unnecessary abuse from frustrated, desperate men is shocking. The sheer volume of messages, the vile messages and so on. It's actually not nice to know that you're an extreme minority, a target swimming in a sea of people who want to use your body. The constant messages can be creepy and alarming. Weird men who don't have profile pics come from dark places to message, and so on. Women don't need to be on such a site to get sex. The majority can literally go to a bar and be certain that half of the men around her would fuck her if it was on a plate. Yet, although a very small number comparatively speaking, you ladies are still here with us, and that in itself is interesting. Couples, I've noticed have an entirely different set of problems that have their own deep-seated complications. Some of those complications are why I'm cautious of couples. It's a strange phenomenon really that despite the multitude of complications that we are all still here. For me, I think it's the excitement and curiosity that draws me. I also like to be in an open environment where I can be myself. For me personally, it's not about sex. Although that doesn't really make sense does it when sex is the focus of the site. There are a lot of psychological issues present that on the face of it make no sense at all. Anyway, what about you? Has anyone else thought about what's actually going on deep down? What do you think about all this scheiße?" I'm thinking what's going on can you help me ? | |||
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"In no way at all its just a thing on my phone with tits on it" He meant apart from the forumites | |||
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"For now, the forum is a welcome distraction. In the not-so-distant future, to finally meet the people in my friends list "  | |||
"In no way at all its just a thing on my phone with tits on it He meant apart from the forumites " Like boobies? | |||
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"For now, the forum is a welcome distraction. In the not-so-distant future, to finally meet the people in my friends list "I need to too. | |||
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"It seems that for the most part, guys love the boobies. To be fair, where else can one get fresh photos of boobies on a regular basis? May the lord bless those ladies who ease the burden of life by showing them to us. ♥️ Actually, I read a thing once; boobies to men are like flowers to women. 💐🍈🍈🍳🍳 I’d rather have boobs than flowers!" I’d rather have tulips on my organ | |||
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