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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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As someone who's recently single I find that I'm missing tge cuddles and affection more than anything else.
So that's when I came across cuddle buddies.
From what I can ascertain you book some time and spend it cuddled up in some way...
Has anyone visited a cuddle buddy?
Or have you offered cuddling?
How intimate does it get? Are we jyst talking about a cuddle or does stroking hair, touching faces, even kisses or more happen?
So many questions...
I'm very tempted just to see what it's like so may indeed report back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"I miss cuddling too.
Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead. "
Yes I will... The more I think about it the more intrigued I am by it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle."
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection. |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection."
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally."
I can understand that. Even though I'm perfectly happy (and often prefer) the intimacy and passion of kissing and cuddling, it will often lead to other things but it's necessarily driven by me... |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally."
You’ve got to feed them first.  |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.
You’ve got to feed them first. "
That sounds even better! Food and cuddles! |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.
You’ve got to feed them first. "
Ah right. That's where I have been going wrong  |
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"I miss cuddling too.
Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead. "
I love hugs and cuddles. A decent cuddle is better than intimacy.
My cuddle buddies have varied over the past few years, can say I am almost fulfilled there is always room for more.
As an aside, ended up learning Reiki a few years back, and most recently Reflexology - connection with humans is important to me. |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.
You’ve got to feed them first.
Ah right. That's where I have been going wrong "
Cuddles make me horny. Good food makes me happy. Combine the two and I’m definitely not going to want to stop at just cuddles. That is unless you’ve fed me so much that I’m rolling around like a beached whale (it’s happened a few times, ok, more times than I wish to remember!) and even then, there’s a good chance I’ll want to dine out on you for my dessert! |
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"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.
Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.
I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.
I can understand that. Even though I'm perfectly happy (and often prefer) the intimacy and passion of kissing and cuddling, it will often lead to other things but it's necessarily driven by me..."
I am sure a cuddle buddy will mean just that cuddling nothing sexual I love a good cuddle makes me feel safe and protected with strong arms around me but if them arms started wandering it would make me feel very unsafe .. |
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I love a cuddle.
When I am at eco festivals I often get asked for a hug or a cuddle by a stranger; sometimes I say no, sometimes I say yes.
Often I just blank them so they don't engage; if I get looked at three or four times in 20 mins I do capitulate and it generally works out well.
If someone has nice vibes and nice energy - they can have all the hugs male or female.
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