Are you someone who enjoys having crushes on people? Do you enjoy the feeling of liking someone even if you're not sure they like you back?
Personally I find crushes painful - when I'm with the person I worry that the crush is showing and when I'm not around them for a few days I wish I were.
Also, do you find sometimes your crushes are with inappropriate people - the partners of others, or people with whom there's a substantial age difference, or are you able to switch feelings off in those cases? |
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By *sWyldWoman 15 weeks ago
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I've not had a crush, an in person proper one, for a long time. Sadly when I did, they didn't feel the same way.
A mutual crush with all that giddy energy, sizzling chemistry and fun would be very welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I love a good crush. I occasionally get them at work. I have one on a guy and everyone knows about it, even the guy. He's very flirty when we chat and I feel myself blushing. That feeling is more fun than actually acting upon it. |
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"I love a good crush. I occasionally get them at work. I have one on a guy and everyone knows about it, even the guy. He's very flirty when we chat and I feel myself blushing. That feeling is more fun than actually acting upon it. "
Ok work crushes are good. Only thing I like about work at the moment |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.
I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?
The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.
That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.
I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?
The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.
That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie. "
Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music. |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.
I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?
The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.
That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie.
Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music."
Ha it's an old song! Jennifer Paige I think. Crush. Off to listen to it now. |
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"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.
I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?
The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.
That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie.
Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music.
Ha it's an old song! Jennifer Paige I think. Crush. Off to listen to it now. "
You've spread an ear worm infection!!!! Off to the virus thread with you |
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By *G74Woman 15 weeks ago
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I enjoy feeling a good crush and messaging and knowing how they doing and being told they want me as much as much as I want them ... i find i crush a lot and over think and feel i am a pest though so end up befriending them without them realising how much I'm crushing... I over complicate things but probably all in my own head 🙈 |
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