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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 4 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin

Any of you guys had this done, had my surgery on tuesday, what a horrible experience

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By *elix SightedMan 4 hours ago

Cloud 8

Did you give the surgeon a tip?

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By *eroLondonMan 4 hours ago

Mayfair

It's a seminal moment for any man.

💨💨💨

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By *odgerMooreMan 4 hours ago

Carlisle

Ive often wondered that if there is no medical requirement for baby boys to have this procedure- how is it not classed as child abuse? Genuine question…

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By *oodmessMan 4 hours ago

yumsville

Did the surgeon give you a tip?

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By *leaningdutiesMan 4 hours ago

South London

Had my surgery about 15 years ago, no issues at all apart from the obvious post surgery recovery which lasted about week

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By *oodmessMan 4 hours ago

yumsville

*that didn't mean to be read as it was typed, but

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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 4 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin


"Ive often wondered that if there is no medical requirement for baby boys to have this procedure- how is it not classed as child abuse? Genuine question… "

Agreed, it must be torture for a newborn.

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By *ildTimes777Man 4 hours ago

Colchester/London

welcome to the club, you need to get a little woolly hat for winter but apart from that its pretty good!

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By *ayzDreamingMan 4 hours ago

Shipton bellinger

For Some religions, it's part of their culture as well, don't forget

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By *odgerMooreMan 4 hours ago

Carlisle


"For Some religions, it's part of their culture as well, don't forget "

I think that’s also worth noting that in these more enlightened times is it acceptable that a religion demands an infant is subjected to what I guess is genital mutilation as part of that religion. Given there is no valid medical requirement for the infant to have that procedure. Again .. just a genuine question.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple 4 hours ago

Swansea

Had mine done ages 3 for medical reasons. No memory of it and never known any different

P

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By *neeyedwillieMan 4 hours ago

Darlington


"Any of you guys had this done, had my surgery on tuesday, what a horrible experience"

Yes. Had it done about 13 years ago.

Wasn't pleasant but no going back now.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple 4 hours ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

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By *odgerMooreMan 4 hours ago

Carlisle


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

"

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question.

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By *oontuneMan 4 hours ago

Menston

If the clit is removed what does the woman do for pleasure instead?

Eat a lot of chocolate?

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By *hinstrapMan 4 hours ago

Barnsley

Yeah had it done a few years ago when I was 36 I think..

Not nice. But if it's needed it's needed. Don't rush to start driving etc after. Not a good sight to see that much blood in the groin area

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By *hinstrapMan 4 hours ago

Barnsley

...

Can be very sensitive after healing.....with clothes and stuff. I can remember getting quite aroused just whilst walking haha

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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 4 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin

It was for medical reasons. A lot of pain and blood at the moment, feelings of wishing I hadnt had it done.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple 4 hours ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question. "

There is no better or worse option, I just don't accept the usual arguments that are often repeated on here as reasons for not getting it done.

There are some diseases that you can only contract due to having foreskin, there is limited research that suggests being circumcised reduces the risk of STI's (although heavily disputed).

Medically speaking some people struggle with very tight foreskins which makes hygenine and cleanliness more difficult.

There's the social anxiety, especially for adolescent boys getting changed in front of one another if you do struggle with hygeine/cleanliness. I know someone who had tight foreskin and urine constantly got trapped behind it. So there would be a smell eventually but also noticeable accidents in underwear due to the penis shifting around and the fluid leaking out.

In today's day and age, I think if a male child or adult has physical, emotional and psychological issues wrapped around their difficulties with their genetalia, circumcision is a perfectly acceptable method of trying to alleviate those worries.

I'd put it in the same bracket as a breast reduction for the same reasons.

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By *nastasia777Woman 4 hours ago

Wanstead


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

"

Cannot agree more! Both my boys were circumcised at birth for a number of reasons and I would always promote it for health reasons

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple 4 hours ago

Swansea


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question. "

There are medical benefits in individual cases. The belief that it is beneficial for all is hotly debated. This debate is heavily influenced by the American right wing Christian movement with all the money and influence they typically use to control narratives. It's a view I was taught by my fundamentalist Christian upbringing but one I've come to realise has less supporting evidence than many believe.

P

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By *edbath 5Man 3 hours ago

london


"Any of you guys had this done, had my surgery on tuesday, what a horrible experience"

I doubt any surgery is fun mate. Especially down here.

Give it time. There must be a reason for it.

I had mine done at birth due to medical reasons. So can’t remember it.

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By *hristopherd999Man 3 hours ago

Brentwood


"For Some religions, it's part of their culture as well, don't forget

I think that’s also worth noting that in these more enlightened times is it acceptable that a religion demands an infant is subjected to what I guess is genital mutilation as part of that religion. Given there is no valid medical requirement for the infant to have that procedure. Again .. just a genuine question. "

Live and let live

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By *odgerMooreMan 3 hours ago

Carlisle


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question.

There is no better or worse option, I just don't accept the usual arguments that are often repeated on here as reasons for not getting it done.

There are some diseases that you can only contract due to having foreskin, there is limited research that suggests being circumcised reduces the risk of STI's (although heavily disputed).

Medically speaking some people struggle with very tight foreskins which makes hygenine and cleanliness more difficult.

There's the social anxiety, especially for adolescent boys getting changed in front of one another if you do struggle with hygeine/cleanliness. I know someone who had tight foreskin and urine constantly got trapped behind it. So there would be a smell eventually but also noticeable accidents in underwear due to the penis shifting around and the fluid leaking out.

In today's day and age, I think if a male child or adult has physical, emotional and psychological issues wrapped around their difficulties with their genetalia, circumcision is a perfectly acceptable method of trying to alleviate those worries.

I'd put it in the same bracket as a breast reduction for the same reasons. "

All of the above I can see there is potentially a medical/ psychological reason and have no issue with - im talking about the routine removal for no reason other than ritual/religion where there is no medical requirement for the process.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman 3 hours ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"It was for medical reasons. A lot of pain and blood at the moment, feelings of wishing I hadnt had it done."

Wishing you a speedy recovery OP! 🤗

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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 3 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin


"It was for medical reasons. A lot of pain and blood at the moment, feelings of wishing I hadnt had it done.

Wishing you a speedy recovery OP! 🤗 "

Well thank you x

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple 2 hours ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question.

There is no better or worse option, I just don't accept the usual arguments that are often repeated on here as reasons for not getting it done.

There are some diseases that you can only contract due to having foreskin, there is limited research that suggests being circumcised reduces the risk of STI's (although heavily disputed).

Medically speaking some people struggle with very tight foreskins which makes hygenine and cleanliness more difficult.

There's the social anxiety, especially for adolescent boys getting changed in front of one another if you do struggle with hygeine/cleanliness. I know someone who had tight foreskin and urine constantly got trapped behind it. So there would be a smell eventually but also noticeable accidents in underwear due to the penis shifting around and the fluid leaking out.

In today's day and age, I think if a male child or adult has physical, emotional and psychological issues wrapped around their difficulties with their genetalia, circumcision is a perfectly acceptable method of trying to alleviate those worries.

I'd put it in the same bracket as a breast reduction for the same reasons.

All of the above I can see there is potentially a medical/ psychological reason and have no issue with - im talking about the routine removal for no reason other than ritual/religion where there is no medical requirement for the process. "

Habit

Holy teachings

Generational behaviours passed down

Because it's the done thing

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By *aydar99Man 2 hours ago

Rochester


"Ive often wondered that if there is no medical requirement for baby boys to have this procedure- how is it not classed as child abuse? Genuine question…

Agreed, it must be torture for a newborn."

Agree poor baby has no say

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By *odgerMooreMan 2 hours ago

Carlisle


"Welcome to the club.

Please can we avoid the whole genital mutilation argument. There are clear medical and scientific benefits to having it done and therefore if there is a personal desire or medical reason to getting it done then go for it.

It is not, and never will be, in the same category as female genital mutilation which is adopted to strictly inhibit sexual gratification and desire in females in some cultures.

The removal of the clitoris, the sole purpose of which is to provide sexual pleasure to women, is a harsh and barbaric practice, often conducted without the presence of a certified medical practitioner, which when equated to male genetalia, would be the same as removing roughly 1/3rd of the length of a penis.

Im fully supportive of having it done if there is a medical necessity - as for FGM im not even looking at that as it’s mutilation.

You mention clear medical and scientific benefits for the practice of routine infancy circumcision. Could you clarify those for me as that’s the point of my question.

There is no better or worse option, I just don't accept the usual arguments that are often repeated on here as reasons for not getting it done.

There are some diseases that you can only contract due to having foreskin, there is limited research that suggests being circumcised reduces the risk of STI's (although heavily disputed).

Medically speaking some people struggle with very tight foreskins which makes hygenine and cleanliness more difficult.

There's the social anxiety, especially for adolescent boys getting changed in front of one another if you do struggle with hygeine/cleanliness. I know someone who had tight foreskin and urine constantly got trapped behind it. So there would be a smell eventually but also noticeable accidents in underwear due to the penis shifting around and the fluid leaking out.

In today's day and age, I think if a male child or adult has physical, emotional and psychological issues wrapped around their difficulties with their genetalia, circumcision is a perfectly acceptable method of trying to alleviate those worries.

I'd put it in the same bracket as a breast reduction for the same reasons.

All of the above I can see there is potentially a medical/ psychological reason and have no issue with - im talking about the routine removal for no reason other than ritual/religion where there is no medical requirement for the process.

Habit

Holy teachings

Generational behaviours passed down

Because it's the done thing

"

Exactly - none of those reasons are acceptable to me. I don’t expect it to change but I have the freedom to at least to voice my disapproval.

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By *vaRose43Woman 2 hours ago

Forest of Dean

I hope you’re healing well OP, not going to get drawn into the side conversation here for people who choose circumcision for non medical reasons… just hope it’s all healing well

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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 2 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin


"I hope you’re healing well OP, not going to get drawn into the side conversation here for people who choose circumcision for non medical reasons… just hope it’s all healing well"

Thank you

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 2 hours ago

chichester

You’ll soon be oiling him again OP snd putting him to good use again. Just how you’ll be sporting the polished crash helmet look 24/7

Speedy heals

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By *hunkandmunchkin OP   Couple 2 hours ago

Darlington/Carnforth/bodmin


"You’ll soon be oiling him again OP snd putting him to good use again. Just how you’ll be sporting the polished crash helmet look 24/7

Speedy heals "

Haha thank you soo much x

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By *cotlad178Man 1 hour ago

falkirk

I wish I had it done as a child don't think I'd go through it now

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple 1 hour ago

Cheshire


"It was for medical reasons. A lot of pain and blood at the moment, feelings of wishing I hadnt had it done."

Give it a few weeks an you back to fighting fit in now time. I had mine done about 6 months ago for medical reasons. Now I am past the initial pain of it I'm glad I had it done. Just take it easy for a bit and it will all be worth while.

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By *ozzybear1981Man 1 hour ago

preston


"Any of you guys had this done, had my surgery on tuesday, what a horrible experience"

Had it done when I was 18 for medical reasons but since having it done….. absolutely love it

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