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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you play with others in your own bed? or do you have a spare bed to play in?
Or, do you play downstairs in the sitting room or somewhere else in the house?
This may seem an odd question, but we had a conversationg with some swinging mates, who were horrified that they had been expected to play on a rug in the sitting room at a meet they had recently.
I personally dont think it is a major deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my bed of course. And at my parties in all 6/7 beds. Shoeer curtain under the sheets and towels on top takes care of the increasing numbers of women who gush.
Why would you not use a bed for gods sake? ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be honest I wouldn't be impressed at someone expecting me to shag on the floor, I have no problem with them not using the bed and id be more than happy to use the sofa, but the floor? nah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my bed of course. And at my parties in all 6/7 beds. Shoeer curtain under the sheets and towels on top takes care of the increasing numbers of women who gush.
Why would you not use a bed for gods sake? ?"
That should read shower curtain lol... |
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"Do you play with others in your own bed? or do you have a spare bed to play in?
Or, do you play downstairs in the sitting room or somewhere else in the house?
This may seem an odd question, but we had a conversationg with some swinging mates, who were horrified that they had been expected to play on a rug in the sitting room at a meet they had recently.
I personally dont think it is a major deal."
We have a couple of duvets we put down in the lounge. We also have had no complaints..indeed we find it rare to be invited to play in a bedroom. |
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"Do you play with others in your own bed? or do you have a spare bed to play in?
Or, do you play downstairs in the sitting room or somewhere else in the house?
This may seem an odd question, but we had a conversationg with some swinging mates, who were horrified that they had been expected to play on a rug in the sitting room at a meet they had recently.
I personally dont think it is a major deal."
I've had two meets where there was a rug on the floor. I told the "gents" with my knees it wasn't going to happen.
In fact it didn't happen as both had been to my home, in my bed, used my towels, treated like the guests they were but wanted me to fuck on their tatty sheet in the lounge! 
I'm getting annoyed again...deep healing breath... |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Bed, living room, kitchen, never in the bathroom yet...
I'd be quite pissed off to travel to meet someone to be expected to play on the floor only to be honest. Its a bit disrespectful in my eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a tent, but need the meet to arrive before ma tentpole is up for the job  "
I can see it now ...I bet blow up things too , lol and all in the sitting room.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See, we do not accom at home, so it is not something we have ever had to make a choice about.
Ibn going to other peoples homes we have found that we quite often do not play in peoples marital beds, and are either in a spare room.
We have on a couple of occasions played on a rug or blanket in a sitting room, but we often have sex on our own rug in front of the fire ( spark guard up!) at home - so did not find it a major problem. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I am single so my bed isn't a sacrilege like I can imagine a martial bed is, so yes I do play, on my bed, on the living rug or the sofa's just depends how the night goes   "
But I will say, if my only option at someone else's was the floor, I certainly would not be impressed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't play at home as its my personal space and i don't want people knowing where i live.
If it was a regular meet and the house was empty then wouldn't have a problem but for one offs or new people i wouldn't have them here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the twice we have played on someones floor, once was a natural progression, where we got playfull sat on the sofa and ended up on the rug in the sitting room. This was a one off meet and so i can not honestly say if they designed it for the floor to be the play area or not.
The other occasion that actually had two quilts folded up in the sitting room when we arrived, and so had obviously planned it. I was not offended at it, as i know they did not have a spare bed and guess for their own reasons they had not wanted to play in theirs.
We did meet them again but at a hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well I once new this couple had a caravan out side that was there shag pad ..... and known people to have very big summer house come sheds in the garden . |
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If I entertain at my home I tend to use the spare bedroom, as it doesn't have the clutter my bedroom has.
Whenever I've met people and gone to their homes we have used their bed, and a couple of times the sofa.
Just as I am with suggestions of car sex, I would be unimpressed if I was invited to some bodies home and found I was expected to be ok with playing on the floor,with rug, quilts or any other variation on a theme! In that case I would rather go to a hotel. |
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We where once invited to a guys house for a meet and he had a blow up bed in the corner (nothing like being prepared)
Also unbeknown to us there where 3 little kids upstairs asleep
God knows what would have happend if they had come downstairs
His wife was away for the weekend which he hadnt told us before we got there
What would u have done?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've only had one meet with a guy at ours and we used the spare room bed.
Think the lounge floor might have been ok though but why not save the knees lol?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had a few meets at our home and always seems to end in our bed, honestly never been a issue... I would be devastated if we were invited to someone's house and was expected to get on the floor! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you play with others in your own bed? or do you have a spare bed to play in?
Or, do you play downstairs in the sitting room or somewhere else in the house?
This may seem an odd question, but we had a conversationg with some swinging mates, who were horrified that they had been expected to play on a rug in the sitting room at a meet they had recently.
I personally dont think it is a major deal."
.. downstairs always our bed is for us two only.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We where once invited to a guys house for a meet and he had a blow up bed in the corner (nothing like being prepared)
Also unbeknown to us there where 3 little kids upstairs asleep
God knows what would have happend if they had come downstairs
His wife was away for the weekend which he hadnt told us before we got there
What would u have done??"
Made a sharp exit! Thats what we would have done  |
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"Bed, living room, kitchen, never in the bathroom yet...
I'd be quite pissed off to travel to meet someone to be expected to play on the floor only to be honest. Its a bit disrespectful in my eyes."
That was my thought too. |
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