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When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.
So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?
If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are |
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"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.
So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?
If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "
Always been told I look intimidating, but I don’t think so |
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"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.
So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?
If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "
Not at at all |
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No you don’t look intimidating. Approaching couples in a club can just be a bit awkward. I bet if Mr nips to the bar plenty of people approach Mrs!
When I see nice looking couples stood all alone in a club looking a little out of place I just imagine they are a/ out for a bit of nosey & not swingers or b/ waiting to meet another couple and have no interest in being approached by guys |
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I would say it's hard to sy from a profile alone. It depends on someone's presence and body language in person.
I wouldn't worry too much about it however as you're far more likely to enjoy yourselves striking up conversations in social areas than waiting for people to approach you. People also seem more approachable when they're regularly seen having warm and friendly interactions with others. |
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People say look serious and Intimidating in my photos and videos but when people actually meet me IRL they say I am the complete opposite so I say never judge a book by it's cover. BDSM and Dom me I take very seriously and is a passion of mine but I am actually very easy going with a great sense of humour. ODx |
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It's not a fair question given the pics you have.
As someone else has already said , it's face to face that matters not a few still pics. I can only see you both on one of them anyway.
You don't look run of the mill.... |
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Very few people think they are intimidating. I don’t think I am intimidating but I know people can be wary of my height. I counter that by just smiling a lot.
You don’t look intimidating to me but maybe you are inadvertently doing something that people are reading more into. |
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By *ooBulMan 4 weeks ago
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Nah, I'm assuming "Luxury" is the fella & women are suppose to be pre-programmed to picking men taller than themselves (hunter gatherer), so bubbles is your female squeeze?
I would definitely talk to L & B cos "L" (sorry not taking the mick or back hand swiping), reminds me of a 70's wrestler (Cat Weasel - he used to pinch bums & other naughty things), so I would have to approach you both through me being a naturally inquisitive person. That does not mean I'm nosey, just curious....
You 2 would look great at a medieval night. Have I given you a Halloween idea?
From your photos your radiating a good vibe posture wise.... I think it was the other person perhaps? Their own insecurity?
I wouldn't judge someone like that any way... I'd chat 1st to see what they were like. Jokey or serious?
I can't talk - I look like a Mitchel Brother!!! Been told many a time in night clubs & pubs.   |
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I can see it, Luxury. The 10/03 video before you open it has you with a very serious don't-fuck- with-me expression captured on your face and for me your eyes aren't smiling in any of the pics they can be seen.
Lots of people have an RBF (resting bitch face) which are transformed when they smile. Trouble is if you go around smiling all the time you'll probably be thought of as a bit weird. |
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OP it difficult to say if you are intimidating from pics, it would be different if you asked us to observe you both in a club or social setting. Body language etc plays a big part in how we get perceived. For example when I was a single lady my friends would say that I would never attract a guy on a night out as I have "fuck off" written across my forehead - not really, I haven't had a facial tattoo or anything. But they meant how I carried myself in a social setting may appear to distract people rather than attract. Yet when I am chatting my friendly, welcoming nature comes out.
So my advice to you both would be for you to initiate conversation in clubs and social events. To let people see your personalities shine and then others will see you as approachable.
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"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.
So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?
If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "
Not to me matey |
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying
Hell no.
If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic."
fist bump |
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By *HUSH-Man 4 weeks ago
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying
Hell no.
If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.
fist bump"
🤜 🤛
That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things. |
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying
Hell no.
If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.
fist bump
🤜 🤛
That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things."
I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.
I'm not changing my hair. |
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying "
I’m sure all the metallers and rock musicians would disagree with you as well as a lot of the biking community and anyone who can do or wants to do what they want with their hair and body and life
Just saying |
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By *HUSH-Man 4 weeks ago
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying
Hell no.
If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.
fist bump
🤜 🤛
That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things.
I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.
I'm not changing my hair. "
I might have to get myself a wig for when I next listen to Enter Sandman. 🤘 |
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"long hair on a bloke is a no no
just saying
Hell no.
If my hair didn’t look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards after 6 weeks of it not being cut I’d grow my hair long. It’s epic.
fist bump
🤜 🤛
That was one of those “Tell me you don’t listen to Metallica without telling me you don’t listen to Metallica” things.
I admittedly havnt listened to much in awhile, but I do like them.
I'm not changing my hair.
I might have to get myself a wig for when I next listen to Enter Sandman. 🤘"
🤣 fuck yeah! |
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"When we are at events it's really rare for people to come up to us together. Once an organiser said we looked intimidating.
So we put it to you all do we look intimidating?
If you think please do say why as this not what or who we are "
You look like a young billy Connolly and he’s not intimidating
Unless you take a chainsaw to events I just think it’s personal preference that some don’t approach you |
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