Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? |
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
Their wives are probably on here. |
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
I asked my partner that very same question before. Would they be OK if the female was their partner |
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I think it’s a good thing. The reason is that you can see what they’re like behind all the sweet talk you’ll get. Look on their green arrow and see what they’ve been saying when they’re not trying to chat you up. |
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"I think it’s a good thing. The reason is that you can see what they’re like behind all the sweet talk you’ll get. Look on their green arrow and see what they’ve been saying when they’re not trying to chat you up. "
What's the green arrow? |
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"I think it’s a good thing. The reason is that you can see what they’re like behind all the sweet talk you’ll get. Look on their green arrow and see what they’ve been saying when they’re not trying to chat you up.
What's the green arrow? "
it’s next to your name in the forum threads, it brings up all the topics you’ve commented on. |
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"I think it’s a good thing. The reason is that you can see what they’re like behind all the sweet talk you’ll get. Look on their green arrow and see what they’ve been saying when they’re not trying to chat you up.
What's the green arrow?
Thanks 👍🏼
it’s next to your name in the forum threads, it brings up all the topics you’ve commented on."
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Totally disrespectful behaviour OP I’ve heard all the excuses from married men justifying cheating.
1. Oh we don’t sleep in the same room.
2. We are just together for the kids.
3. I still love her but we don’t have sex yada yada fkng yada.
My black heart bleeds for these poor married men. A lot keep the fact they are married secret too from women they want to meet on fab. Ludicrous behaviour. Same applies to cheating women. |
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just because there married and on as a single guy doesn't mean they are cheating.my Mrs isn't playing anymore but has no objection to me playing. so if I put couple up and played solo that would be OK? |
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"just because there married and on as a single guy doesn't mean they are cheating.my Mrs isn't playing anymore but has no objection to me playing. so if I put couple up and played solo that would be OK?"
couple profile would be better as long as your wife knows I'd be more inclined to chat with a guy that has couple profile than a single profile and then they tell you they are married they are being secretive and obv cheating |
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
But it does happen the other way round..? |
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By *AYENCouple 5 weeks ago
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"yes she does don't you read the posts properly "
I've read all posts 'properly' and have come to the conclusion that the OP was commenting on the disrespect of their partners, by cheating on them and bad mouthing them.
It seems like you're doing neither as you're on here with your wife's blessing, so whether your profile is as a single or as a couple is just a technicality, not an issue. K. |
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"Totally disrespectful behaviour OP I’ve heard all the excuses from married men justifying cheating.
1. Oh we don’t sleep in the same room.
2. We are just together for the kids.
3. I still love her but we don’t have sex yada yada fkng yada.
My black heart bleeds for these poor married men. A lot keep the fact they are married secret too from women they want to meet on fab. Ludicrous behaviour. Same applies to cheating women."
Those last ones are the worst.
I didn't sign up to have screaming wives on my doorstep calling me a whore because they followed their asshole husband who told me they were single 💜 |
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By *LiamMan 5 weeks ago
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
Why do women do this too? Everyone woman I've met on here has had a secret fella🤷♂️😅 |
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By *ebastian83Man 5 weeks ago
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
Depends as every situation is different ! Some guys have permission some don’t some may find it actually helps their situation at home some it might make it worse. Also plenty of wife’s on here doing the same !!! I love it lol |
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? Depends as every situation is different ! Some guys have permission some don’t some may find it actually helps their situation at home some it might make it worse. Also plenty of wife’s on here doing the same !!! I love it lol"
Even if someone has permission from a spouse to be on here and meet others, bad mouthing and disrespecting their spouse is still wrong. |
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By *CExeCouple 5 weeks ago
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There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block. |
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block."
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home. |
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home. "
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case. 
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked. |
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home.
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case.
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked."
Also this. Plenty may live with their parents or housemates etc. it’s one assumption on here that’s always pissed me off. |
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
I don't think it's only men.  |
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home.
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case.
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked.
Also this. Plenty may live with their parents or housemates etc. it’s one assumption on here that’s always pissed me off. "
Yeah it is what it is, I even put in my bio, can't be more upfront then that. |
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home.
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case.
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked.
Also this. Plenty may live with their parents or housemates etc. it’s one assumption on here that’s always pissed me off. "
Also is it assumed that all the women on here who can’t/won’t accommodate are married?
I doubt it |
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By *aven.Woman 5 weeks ago
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home.
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case.
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked.
Also this. Plenty may live with their parents or housemates etc. it’s one assumption on here that’s always pissed me off. "
Doesn't accommodate - sensible, respects his privacy. Decent guy
Accommodates - secret cameras people, is it only me that thinks this! Oh and let's not forget dodgy duvet covers. Weird smells, you know the ones. Hell. No.
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab. If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married. I'm sure there's some for whom the wife knows and tolerates it (know a few guys in this boat) for whatever reason. But we've had messages from guys saying how much hotter Chels is than their wife, that their wife 'won't put out'anymore etc. If you can't respect your own wife, the likelihood is you're not going to be respectful of us, our relationship and our boundaries. Instant block.
I don’t agree with the first part. I know lots of single men who don’t accommodate. Why should they? A few who have their children there a lot, believe it or not even some men don’t want to risk giving their address out for safety and psycho bitch reasons! I’ve more respect for those men than the ones who will have anyone in their home.
Shit guess I'm marries to my mother if that was the case.
But I appreciate you saying that, sometimes life fucks you the way you don't want to be fucked.
Also this. Plenty may live with their parents or housemates etc. it’s one assumption on here that’s always pissed me off.
Doesn't accommodate - sensible, respects his privacy. Decent guy
Accommodates - secret cameras people, is it only me that thinks this! Oh and let's not forget dodgy duvet covers. Weird smells, you know the ones. Hell. No.
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"There's a significant number of married men on Fab"
Psst.... married women too!
"If their profile says single and they can't accommodate, it's a 90% chance they're married."
For women the figure is probably 98%. |
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"Also is it assumed that all the women on here who can’t/won’t accommodate are married?
I doubt it "
Exactly. I don't accommodate (at least not until I know soneone very well) and never once have I been asked if it's because I'm married/have a partner 🤷♀️ |
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"^^ nobody ever assumes that. In fact for the most part women can do exactly as men do but get away with it.
But that's the men's fault 
It's all the men's fault doncha know 
Sorry my bad"
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? "
There is a married guy on here who says he is on here and his wife us unaware.
Then he posts about sharing her photos.
Now THAT is low. |
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"^^ nobody ever assumes that. In fact for the most part women can do exactly as men do but get away with it.
But that's the men's fault
It's all the men's fault doncha know
Sorry my bad
At least you know it "
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By *ebastian83Man 5 weeks ago
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"Why do men come on here using single profiles but then tell you that they are married and bad mouth and disrespect thier wifes?
How would they feel if the tables were turned and the wives were on here doing the same thing?
Is this acceptable behaviour? Depends as every situation is different ! Some guys have permission some don’t some may find it actually helps their situation at home some it might make it worse. Also plenty of wife’s on here doing the same !!! I love it lol
Even if someone has permission from a spouse to be on here and meet others, bad mouthing and disrespecting their spouse is still wrong."
true bad mouthing isn’t a great quality in a person |
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I totally understand that there are people here who have reasons for seeking company outside of their marriage. Relationships are complicated, marriages are doubly complicated. I know this, I've been in this position. Sometimes the reasons are good, sometimes the reasons are less good. Whether those reasons are acceptable to somebody is up to that person.
I have always tried to be open about who I am, what my situation was and is, and allow others to make an informed decision about whether they want to associate with me. And I never bad-mouthed my wife. (But not denying that there are people who can be caught up in horrible situations and unable to extricate themselves from horrible partners, where less-than-loving words are totally justified.)
I guess that I'm saying that don't condemn anybody blindly for being on here without the knowledge of their spouse, but I do dislike any lying about the situation or insistence that "it doesn't matter that I'm married". It always matters, but if the reasons are truthfully explained, then it may be acceptable according to the others conscience. |
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