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My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting. |
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting."
It screams married man seeking porn style chats, while pretending to be a woman. Not saying you are, but men do. So this situation doesn't appeal to a lot of women. |
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"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.
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She has asked me to do it. |
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.
It screams married man seeking porn style chats, while pretending to be a woman. Not saying you are, but men do. So this situation doesn't appeal to a lot of women. "
It is a side of her sexuality she wants to explore for herself but is not someone to take the lead. |
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"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.
And maybe smell a rat?
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Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women? |
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"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.
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This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone. |
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By *8on33Man 5 weeks ago
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting." Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted .
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"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.
And maybe smell a rat?
Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women?"
She asked me to do it. |
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"She could do her own profile?
Too many fools playing "let's pretend I'm a girlie".
Possibly but if she did have it would be perhaps more authentic than how this thread comes across.."
My apologies. |
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"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.
This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone. "
Do you want her phone number? |
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted ."
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted ."
Thank you. I appreciate the fact that somebody has thought it through. |
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that."
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier. |
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"If your wife wants a lady who has no man wishing to watch or participate, then you shouldn't be participating in the process at all. Wife should be looking for herself.
This is exactly it. I would want to deal with her and her alone.
Do you want her phone number?"
No. I'm clearly dealing with a man here, which is explicitly what I said I do not want. |
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"My wife would love to meet a local ish lady for grown up no strings fun. My part in this would end when I handed over my wife's phone number. Can any lady on Fabswingers guarantee there is no man on her side wanting a glimpse or participation? My wife has plenty of men. She just wants a lady to herself for the duration of the meeting.Remember Op the forums are just a small fraction of the total membership of the site the opinions you are getting won't reflect the whole site but I will say lots of women won't trust a guy with a telephone number but I suppose once you get a woman to ring it their will be a woman at the other end so at that point it should be sorted .
Thank you. I appreciate the fact that somebody has thought it through."
Is "thinking it through" a synonym for "agreeing with you"? |
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By *enk15Man 5 weeks ago
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier."
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you. |
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"At least you can check them out maybe. See if there are any blokes about. Who knows, maybe do a sniff test.
And maybe smell a rat?
Is your wife less capable than yourself of discerning real women?
She asked me to do it."
So she wants to find a woman with no man involved, but all initial interest is to be registered through her man first?
Sounds legit.
Good luck OP 💜 |
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you."
Exactly this. |
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.
Exactly this."
She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will. |
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By *AYENCouple 5 weeks ago
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.
Exactly this.
She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will."
Perhaps you should encourage her to take the lead rather than say she never will . . . . |
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I have my own singles profile for meeting women it's far easier.
I find from couples that message there's always some man involvement.
I wouldn't speak to you to arrange a meet with your wife & only speak to her once you've handed me her number - from a woman's point of view we want to know if we have a connection with the women we are meeting not you.
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By *8on33Man 5 weeks ago
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.
Exactly this.
She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will.
Perhaps you should encourage her to take the lead rather than say she never will . . . . " See where your going with this and on here it definitely works . |
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By *enk15Man 5 weeks ago
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"My partner is looking for the same.
Which is why she has her own single female profile. Maybe she could try that.
She tried and got fed up with the fake profiles. Hence my "let's pretend" comment earlier.
You’ll come across the same fake profiles whether you’re searching from a single female profile or a couple profile.
The difference is the genuine ones will take it more seriously if she is contacting them, rather than you.
Exactly this.
She is not one to take the lead. She never has and never will."
Never has? You literally just said she has already tried having her own profile. |
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