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What do verifications mean to you?
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I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
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Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot? |
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I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.
In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.
I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues. |
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"I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.
In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.
I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues. "
Whats the reason for not showing yours? |
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"I don’t show mine. I like to read other people’s though.
In answer to the question if they’ve loads of sexual veris I won’t be interested.
I’ve met a few people who had none at all and never had any issues.
Whats the reason for not showing yours?"
I don’t want to |
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I see verifications like reviews, I don't tend to judge people for having too many. I do read them and find that people who have a lot aren't all from people they have played with. A fair few of ours are from people we've met and not played with. We enjoy chatting to newbies and like to make new people feel welcome. Too many people gatekeeping in this lifestyle for our liking x
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If they've been on here for quite a while and still don't have any verifications it's unlikely that i'll bother trying to arrange a meet. At least verifications show that they do actually meet.
Beyond that they don't mean a great deal to me, i see them as product or film reviews and as such will always give a lop-sided view and should always be taken with a pinch of salt. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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It means they are a real human with the capability of turning up to a meet, that's all. I communicate directly with people and vice versa I've had a good time, it's for others benefit not mine.
Also every person has a different experience with someone so there's no point reading too much into them. One woman's alpha is anothers shit shag.. just saying. |
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"It means they are a real human with the capability of turning up to a meet, that's all. I communicate directly with people and vice versa I've had a good time, it's for others benefit not mine.
Also every person has a different experience with someone so there's no point reading too much into them. One woman's alpha is anothers shit shag.. just saying."
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I like to read a few , see they're genuine , but it's also kind of meaningless because everyone is amazing , everyone on fab must just be amazing at everything 😂 if there's like 50+ meets, it's off putting kind of reads like you have little to no standards |
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By *MCMan 15 weeks ago
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Occasionally read them but no one is ever going to publish a bad one are they…
Is somewhat off putting if they have 300+ meets but each to their own.. all use the site for our own reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I've met guys with multiple verifications, still wankers.
Met guys with no verifications, still wankers.
They don't mean a thing. If I'm not intelligent enough to work out if someone is real or a murderer I probably shouldn't be on here. |
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"I like to read a few , see they're genuine , but it's also kind of meaningless because everyone is amazing , everyone on fab must just be amazing at everything 😂 if there's like 50+ meets, it's off putting kind of reads like you have little to no standards "
What if 40 of those 50 are from socials
A lot of people on here are after quality rather than quantity and it doesnt mean they have no standards |
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@ playtime Essex my reply as you've now blocked me,
Yes, I'm not counting web cam veris but meets with play it's a bit sus, obviously if you've been here for 5 years fair enough but that's few and far between, time period is relevant I agree time period is relevant, but if you've got 40-50 play meets in a year screams zero standards |
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"I like to read a few , see they're genuine , but it's also kind of meaningless because everyone is amazing , everyone on fab must just be amazing at everything 😂 if there's like 50+ meets, it's off putting kind of reads like you have little to no standards
What if 40 of those 50 are from socials
A lot of people on here are after quality rather than quantity and it doesnt mean they have no standards"
A lot of people here are equally as happy banging loads and loads of people and are not at all worried about what anyone thinks. |
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People will probably give you the easiest reason without trying to offend.... If they say you're too tall - you'll say I can lay down. If too short - it doesn't matter when lay down. If too young - I'm old for my age and so on.
There's women on here with 500 plus that are meeting.. guys with 200 plus sometimes there's just a drought. |
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Couldn't care less, we all start with none and I've conversed with enough people on here with a decent-large enough amount to know it's far from the Nintendo Seal of Quality as a recommendation sometimes but each to their own
Tbh, anyone doubting my identity just needs to see my photos to know I definitely didn't steal them to try and impress you all |
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
We read a lot more into verifications than most on here, we follow the verification trail too. There's more to them than "yes they're real" for us. We don't want to see a graphic story of what went on (or apparently went on). There are many things in verifications that would stop us from replying. How many? A few to a lot is ok. |
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I look, as well as meeting unverified people. It suggests that they may be more reliable and specifically that they are more likely to be the people that they claim to be. I'm not interested in sexual performance stats etc, just reliability, from 3rd parties |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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That yes, they have actually done the sex/ appeared at Costa at the agreed time. There's some importance in showing that a person is likely to actually show up, and they can be handy for double-checking as well; think a person who claims to always have safe sex but their verifications say very much the opposite  🦇 |
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By *io--Man 15 weeks ago
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
One meet verification is enough if its from a well established account. Photo verified too I will usually talk if its not older than 3 months, but with that alone theres alot more fantasists who never actually have the intention of meeting. 10+ verifications in a month or 50+ total too many for me usually |
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
Nothing. Think it's a pretty strange concept to be honest but amazing how weird shit can become normalised. |
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By *oxy jWoman 15 weeks ago
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with the amount of people giving veris out just to help them out ie fake veris is high on top of pointless cam veris and pointless social veris it just mean the whole veri system is pretty point less ...
the only way it may serve is who they have been with that can help but otherwise they are now pointless as someone else has said best to findout ourselves ... last 4 ive met via fab had no veris all 4 turned up all 4 were great meets one of is about to become regular none wanted veris back as they prefer fab that way i dont ask or ever want veris anymore ...
and yes mine are hidden due to fools who like to play silly games and abuse |
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Don't mean a lot really.
bit like trip advisor , some liked the hotel or product they bought , others didnt.
i guess if folk left bad verifications as well as good ones,it could be a different story.
i'm sure folk do get bad ones but obviously dont show them. |
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"What is said in them doesn't mean a lot, but more who has verified them."
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This wins the comment of the day ^ because it's such a compelling perspective. My experience of verifications is that I often find myself running with the fox and chasing with the hounds. |
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Others: I read them out of interest. I like to know they are who they say they are. I really am not interested in sexual content within some verifications.
Our verifications: It's convenient to have a few as some social events require them for you to be on the invite list. Plus it confirms to others that we are genuine.
I don't mind people having a lot of verifications, quite often they are from organised social events or webcams. However, the profiles that say they want quality over quantity yet have had sex with lots of people, makes me think there's actually quite a lot of quality people on Fab 🤐
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By *sWyldWoman 15 weeks ago
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I hide most of mine. Sometimes I like them as they make me smile, sometimes I think it's all a bit tacky.
When it comes to others, I don't really look at what is said, more who is saying it |
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?
We read a lot more into verifications than most on here, we follow the verification trail too. There's more to them than "yes they're real" for us. We don't want to see a graphic story of what went on (or apparently went on). There are many things in verifications that would stop us from replying. How many? A few to a lot is ok."
To see who they've met? |
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We love to veri hop... we have found some great people that way.
We don't mind how many, although often get judged for ours.. even though most of our recent ones are social meets from people we spoke to or played next to at clubs. |
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It shows that I've met people.
It shows that other people have met people, so if I agree to meet them, they should actually show up.
Really not interested in the graphic style ones, find them a bit pointless and off-putting personally. But your verifications are your business and nobody else's. |
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I hate them. I'm perfectly capable of making my mind up about someone without cumslutsally telling me about how many holes were filled and what a gent he is, or mrsdesperatetits telling me 20 different times how he's her soul mate so hands off (only joking)🤢. |
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By *luefire2Couple 15 weeks ago
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Too many can kinda put us off, almost like "well they get about a bit".
We like to see that people have them though to show that they exist however, it has been known for people to just veri people as a favour?! So who knows....do they REALLY matter at all?
Also, I like to see where people have been.....it can be a deal breaker for us too.....
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Not a lot
Most of mine and ones I leave for other people are usually just cheeky and having a laugh with what's included in them.
They should never be taken too seriously
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
Definitely not 100's !. To us they say they've probably actually met and 'slightly' less chance of being timewasters or pic collectors. We're well aware that folk won't write bad things in there so can be a bit misleading too  |
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
Your first verification was dated 02/11/2017, that's 10 days off 7 years ago. You've been verified by 22 people, that's just over 3 a year. Yeah, way too many veris. |
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Verifications can be misleading. We've been messed about twice this week by people with meet verifications spread over many years. I guess while the verifications tell you how many times they've met and how it went, they don't tell you how many failed meets and waste of times they've been responsible for. |
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Nothing. I really don't see the point in them. They don't prove anyone is real because they can be faked, no one is going to post a bad one so they don't prove the person will actually show up just that they showed up that time. |
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"Verifications trail is more important than just random verification. Most of mine are from regulars and they show I’m reliable and people like to meet me over and over again. "
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I look at the veris and see who they are from. Ie. Are they all couples? Are the people they have played with attractive? Have they been verified by the same person more than once?
I also then look at what “return veris” they have written for those who have verified them.
I hide mine though. Mainly because in the past I have experienced people contacting my friends or my previous veris to try to organise meeting them, or to try to get closer to me! Just weird!
It’s all a bit meaningless though isn’t it? No one would display a negative veri.. |
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"I look at the veris and see who they are from. Ie. Are they all couples? Are the people they have played with attractive? Have they been verified by the same person more than once?
I also then look at what “return veris” they have written for those who have verified them.
I hide mine though. Mainly because in the past I have experienced people contacting my friends or my previous veris to try to organise meeting them, or to try to get closer to me! Just weird!
It’s all a bit meaningless though isn’t it? No one would display a negative veri.."
So the people they have met in the past would have to be attractive to you? |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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To me they only show a person exists other than that l don't even read them , why should l , ? You never see a bad one printed anyway, if a person gets a bad one they won't publish it . |
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"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all  "
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You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones. |
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"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all
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You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones."
Treat him with the respect he deserves. He sucks like a Dyson. |
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"Most of them pretty much read the same, so read one you've read the all
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You need to read the quality ones, the hand-crafted ones, the bespoke ones, the tailored ones...and refrain from the hackneyed ones.
Treat him with the respect he deserves. He sucks like a Dyson. "
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This is very true. |
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Ah the verification roulette.
We've all been non verified at some point. I've chatted with some ace guys who weren't verified as well as some tossers who were haha
They are an indicator which may help you decide about your choices ? |
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"Ah the verification roulette.
We've all been non verified at some point. I've chatted with some ace guys who weren't verified as well as some tossers who were haha
They are an indicator which may help you decide about your choices ?"
I dont read them and i also dont care if someone is verified or not and i dont get the whole veri trail thing. |
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I love verifications and in my old profile I had 70 I think. Having a couple is very important to show you are genuine. In all the years I have been on here and fabguys I have never shown them. I think who we meet is a private thing and I am discreet. We all have a life away from fab and I never tell anyone about others I have met. |
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We display them to let other people know we are genuine. We’ve got a few on there from people that we’ve met and not necessarily played with but it gives others a chance to check their profile out and maybe have a connection with them 🤷♀️ xx |
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As humans, we all aim to create a picture/perception of an individual or couple based on available information. The verifications add color to our perceptions from an unbiased view… although most people won’t write something terrible on the veris they give. However, at least they become something others write about you instead of you writing about yourself! |
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"**clarification*
Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.
Carry on."
Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest. |
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I find them very informative. Not so much ‘he made me squirt’ or ‘massive cock and knew how to use it’ but some reviews really show the nature and personality of the person. There help establish how long someone has been in the scene. And if they are still active. |
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Let's face it, no one is going to display a negative verification. So they're always going to reflect the good aspects of an individual. The whole purpose of them is to show that they actually are who they claim to be. Personally I don't like the explicit ones. I feel that they are unnecessary, but each to their own over what they chose to display on their profiles. We display what we hope will attract our target audience right? |
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I recently contacted “ a couple “ I had previously played with but recognised from her pictures on a new profile. After messaging over a couple of weeks re- verified & arranged to meet a few times but let down at last minute. Then a message out of the blue that I had ignore messages for 2 hours & profile disappeared. Was it a catfish with acquired pics or the husband ? Who knows….
..just goes to show verisimilitude can be false or faked |
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"Let's face it, no one is going to display a negative verification. So they're always going to reflect the good aspects of an individual. The whole purpose of them is to show that they actually are who they claim to be. Personally I don't like the explicit ones. I feel that they are unnecessary, but each to their own over what they chose to display on their profiles. We display what we hope will attract our target audience right? "
If we have a bad meet and believe us we’ve had a few then we don’t drop them a veri and certainly wouldn’t expect to get one from them. Xx |
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"**clarification*
Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.
Carry on.
Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest. "
You’re my kind of dirt devil  |
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"Let's face it, no one is going to display a negative verification. So they're always going to reflect the good aspects of an individual. The whole purpose of them is to show that they actually are who they claim to be. Personally I don't like the explicit ones. I feel that they are unnecessary, but each to their own over what they chose to display on their profiles. We display what we hope will attract our target audience right?
If we have a bad meet and believe us we’ve had a few then we don’t drop them a veri and certainly wouldn’t expect to get one from them. Xx"
That's exactly my point. I'm the same, and actually they're are occasions I've come away from really positive meets (and repeated them) but never received a verification back once I've left one. So really, once you've got one, there's no value in any more. |
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I display mine because they show I'm active and I turn up, though most are club meets. They also, as previously said, give an idea what I'm like face-to-face. I really am not a fan of the explicit ones left by some men (see above example) but if someone wants to overly praise me I'll happily slip them a tenner. |
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Lately, I’ve been using them as a guide for my own safety- as in they are a normal person 🤭
Also, to prove they’re real and that they look like their photos!
If people have too many veris, I honestly don’t care. I do care though if the people they meet are quite different from me, if I am going to be a veri “stamp” to collect and if meeting them is going to make me flavour of the day… |
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met . |
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"Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met .
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Equally so, some people will be more amenable and reassured to meet you because of the people you've met."
Agree with both of these.
There's a lady I was looking forward to meeting up with but I've been put off by the amount of veris she's displaying - we're talking 2 or 3 every couple of days and they are very graphic.
She's also met with 2 men that I was was hoping to meet, which I'm now reconsidering 🤦😂
On the flip side, if there's someone with only one or
two verifications, it can be reassuring if one of those is from someone you know, or at least know of |
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"**clarification*
Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.
Carry on.
Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.
You’re my kind of dirt devil "
Oh very good you bunch. Had me laughing.
Anyway, Bissell make you laugh...
I decided to sell my vacuum cleaner. It was just collecting dust. |
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"Some people won't meet you because of the people you've met .
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Equally so, some people will be more amenable and reassured to meet you because of the people you've met.
Agree with both of these.
There's a lady I was looking forward to meeting up with but I've been put off by the amount of veris she's displaying - we're talking 2 or 3 every couple of days and they are very graphic.
She's also met with 2 men that I was was hoping to meet, which I'm now reconsidering 🤦😂
On the flip side, if there's someone with only one or
two verifications, it can be reassuring if one of those is from someone you know, or at least know of "
Question:
Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider? |
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By *insBadMan 15 weeks ago
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"I have been on here for a Few years on and off and at 1st a lot of people didnt want to meet as i wasnt verified and now sometimes it seems like i have too many verifications.
Do you look?
Do you care?
Whats your preference? None, a few or a lot?"
I enjoy reading between the lines in a verification, |
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I love the stomach churning descriptions with reference to Dysons, takes it in every hole, took it like a pro etc etc then finish with show him/ her/ them respect…
Like you’ve just done you mean….!!! |
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"**clarification*
Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.
Carry on.
Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.
You’re my kind of dirt devil "
Can we crow bar a shark in there somehow? |
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"**clarification*
Treat her like a Dyson is a combination of the classics, Treat her with respect and sucks like a Dyson.
Carry on.
Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vacuum is the definitive version I suggest.
You’re my kind of dirt devil
Can we crow bar a shark in there somehow? "
My kind of dirt devil. Sucks like a Dyson, looks like a Henry, personality like a vaccum. Shark.
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Definitely check them out - firstly to see if they’re genuine, secondly to follow the veri trail, to see if they’re lying about something significant (e.g. messaging to say they don’t do bareback, safe meets only, then you click on a hook up of a hook up, and they’re slinging it up anyone and everyone, completely unwrapped  ) A large number of verifications is off putting - for us, anyway! |
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I've been on and off here for years as a single, as a couple, had verifications, and it all amounts to.....nothing.
Some of the biggest gobshites have numerous, and others with nothing are decent.
I found people being verified as favours, so you got to read through them to see where they originated to suss them out.
And the flip side is if I give a verifcation, it means someone else will judge someone else based on what I put there??
Not a hope. At 53 I don't need or want anyone to validate me, and I dont want to validate others to prove some point. I'm not some teenager.
So with this proifle, I dont want veris or give them and I do just fine. Originally the verifications were great, but they did get used and abused so much, you can't tell the actual genuine ones from the BS! |
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Question:
Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?"
Fair question. In my head, which may or may not be ridiculous, I feel like they are looking for notches on the bed post if they aren't put off by so many meets in such a short space of time. I don't want to be a notch.
Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂 |
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"Question:
Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?
Fair question. In my head, which may or may not be ridiculous, I feel like they are looking for notches on the bed post if they aren't put off by so many meets in such a short space of time. I don't want to be a notch.
Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂"
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I interpreted it as you making an informed decision based on what you could glean - to some extent - from the plethora of verifications, allowing you to be more discerning and not being just another 'conquest'.
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Question:
Why seeing that she met someone who you liked made you reconsider?
Fair question. In my head, which may or may not be ridiculous, I feel like they are looking for notches on the bed post if they aren't put off by so many meets in such a short space of time. I don't want to be a notch.
Or maybe I'm just fussy 💁😂"
Noooo. Not ridiculous. This is how I think. Fussy maybe but fussy isn’t a bad thing ❤️ |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 15 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
I have my veris showing atm (for a specific reason), but they will be hidden again before too long.
There's people on here who might use things like your verification info to try and gaslight you.
A tangential anecdote, a few weeks ago some random guy approached me in a club attempting to claim credit for "introducing me to this club". I didn't say nothing at the time, but I was thinking 'nah... I'm pretty sure I remember googling it, mate'
This is the kind of stuff people in this space will try to pull for a shag or some other underhanded reason. I fully understand why many people choose not to show their verifications |
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Sometimes reading a woman's verifications can be an exercise in cringe. There's the guys who gush sonnet's and the ones who write paragraphs of lurid details.
Then there's Veri Bingo 'don't pass this one by guys!' 'mr was a gent' 'show her respect' 'glint'
My genuine favourites are the ones guys leave for each other. Short and to the point 'Turned up. Great cock and took my load like a champ.' Perfect. |
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By *zChiefWoman 15 weeks ago
middle of somewhere |
If they have a lot in a short space of time ( not social ones) i am put off. Its not the way i play ... i prefer not to see myself as one in a long line of meaningless encounters. I know its foolish as some i meet will be doing just that not displaying the evidence.
I dont show mine. I dont have loads but someone did use ones on my couples profile as a stalkers charter. |
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By *ony MannMan 13 weeks ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover |
A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.
It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets. |
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"A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.
It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets."
Why would you want to know what she has said about the men she met. What does that change in terms of you being interested in her? |
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I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me. |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me."
If that happened outside of fab wouldn't that be kind of stalking? |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me."
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I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not. |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me.
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I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not."
Most people on here aren't looking for regular though |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me.
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I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.
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Most people on here aren't looking for regular though "
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Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either. |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me.
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I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.
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Most people on here aren't looking for regular though
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Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either."
The quote "60% of the time works every time" comes to mind |
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"I like reading them and following them on to see the sexual past trail. That leads to questions I would find pertinent to us meeting, I'm not bothered about quantity, but would wonder if he is at clubs every weekend, would he have enough time for me.
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I agree. The provenance of a potential social/date often contributes to the decision making and whether to take things forward, or not.
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Most people on here aren't looking for regular though
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Likewise most people on here aren't looking for one-off encounters either.
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The quote "60% of the time works every time" comes to mind"
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I work from empirical evidence and not from 'flimflam' figures. 🩶 |
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By *ony MannMan 13 weeks ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover |
"A verification means they are real and may meet if I put a little effort into a conversation.
It can be revealing to follow a verification and see what the lady I'm interested in has said about the men she meets.
Why would you want to know what she has said about the men she met. What does that change in terms of you being interested in her?"
That give me a chance to see her personality. |
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