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Sorry for the open ended topic subject but I’ll get to the point here.
How do you feel (either partner in a relationship) if and when you talk to each other about your past sex lifes and then maybe find out or realise the other person did a lot more or had more fun, yet with you those things are off the table or just done without enthusiasm etc
It’s just a question dosent particularly relate to us or anyone we know, just like to know some thoughts on if |
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Some things I want to do with one person but not with another.
Everything is down to chemistry and context.
I don't tend to ask what my partners have done with others. It's irrelevant to what we have between us 💜 |
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Generally I'm OK with it, don't tend to get into too much detail though as irrelevant. I have however been in a relationship where it was very adventurous
And I thought we were experiencing things together but my partner lied about her previous experiences and I found out later, that made me feel pretty crap in the moment but got past it. I guess if you choose to discuss be prepared for fall out.. |
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Nothing really.
My partner who I met here, has had lots of 3sums and group fun. They're what he enjoys, but not necessarily what I am into.
We're both adults with pasts, what is it that's bothering you op?. |
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Don't know about past sex lives but I've had meets (social and otherwise) where they always mentioned their favourite actor/sportsman/musician etc. As though that was the standard I had to reach! Oh well, it makes us gents raise out game. |
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I like different things with different people, we don't really discuss in depth past sex life's it comes up now and again but you can't compare these things, different things with different people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Nothing really.
My partner who I met here, has had lots of 3sums and group fun. They're what he enjoys, but not necessarily what I am into.
We're both adults with pasts, what is it that's bothering you op?. "
Nothing tbh I think maybe how I worded the post has come across the wrong way  |
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"Sorry for the open ended topic subject but I’ll get to the point here.
How do you feel (either partner in a relationship) if and when you talk to each other about your past sex lifes and then maybe find out or realise the other person did a lot more or had more fun, yet with you those things are off the table or just done without enthusiasm etc
It’s just a question dosent particularly relate to us or anyone we know, just like to know some thoughts on if"
Don't ask questions if you're not ready for the answer |
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