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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts

Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

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By *avexxMan 14 weeks ago

cheshire

a lot going on here are you ok

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By *ir tootMan 14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs. "

Good question , wish i had an answer, I'm glad I'm not the only one who's brain does this 🤣

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan 14 weeks ago

Willenhall


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In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

"

Wash your hands normally then dry them. Next, put a pair of latex gloves on and do the same thing whilst wearing the gloves.


"How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?"

When it does happen it's a very mild, bruising-like sensation at the tip. It's nowhere near as painful or unpleasant as that sounds.


"Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?"

In most cases no. The only time I've ever noticed a difference was with a woman who had given birth to multiple (5) children. I suspect natural individual variation plays a more significant role than childbirth just like penis size does in men.

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By *rHotNottsMan 14 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Bareback is so much more sensation , particularly the head. Playing around the entrance isn’t anyway comparable & some women like just the head thing that makes them squirt, it’s hard to do with condoms , but there’s pretty good condoms for regular penetration sex like real feel and invisible that do a good job.

My experience is women are very aware if they have a low cervix and will have anticipated it when they see your cock, and ask you to go very slow and not too deep so there’s no need to bash it , it feels alright, like she’s full and it’s a dead end.

Yes you can tell - women without kids or c-sections are often tighter and firmer down below , but not always. Some women also have vaginal tightening by laser now

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 14 weeks ago

Leeds

Put your finger in a bowl of jelly with and without a sandwich bag on your hand, and there’s your difference.

The mr

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By *.T.Man 14 weeks ago

Belfast

Bareback you feel the heat, the pulsations deep within and if things are drying up or getting wetter. Sometimes the condom can deaden sensations. However I think the psychological effect of bareback intensifies things. It is a level of trust in a partner that increases the intimacy tenfold.

Hitting a cervix isn't like being kicked in the balls, you just move from side to side to avoid it, increasing sensations all round.

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


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Wash your hands normally then dry them. Next, put a pair of latex gloves on and do the same thing whilst wearing the gloves."

I will definitely try this!😋


"When it does happen it's a very mild, bruising-like sensation at the tip. It's nowhere near as painful or unpleasant as that sounds."

Thank you, I think I understand, judging by how it feels from a female pov.


" In most cases no. The only time I've ever noticed a difference was with a woman who had given birth to multiple (5) children. I suspect natural individual variation plays a more significant role than childbirth just like penis size does in men."

Makes sense, thank you

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"Put your finger in a bowl of jelly with and without a sandwich bag on your hand, and there’s your difference.

The mr "

Haha, funny example, but an interesting experiment. Favourite flavour?

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"Hitting a cervix isn't like being kicked in the balls, you just move from side to side to avoid it, increasing sensations all round."

The side to side movement sounds interesting, I shall instruct my playdate to give that one a try

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"a lot going on here are you ok"

Lol, yes, totally fine. Just having an imaginative moment

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By *ellhungvweMan 14 weeks ago

Cheltenham


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In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

"

You can feel her skin, muscles and moisture on your cock. It’s slippier and just “tighter”. A condom dulls it all.


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How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

"

It depends how hard you hit it - I now go gently if I am deep so as to not hit her but from what I can remember it was like a thump on the end of your cock. And then a huge whack on the head as she hits the roof!


"

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

"

No difference at all as far as I can tell. The difference is more around those who do pelvic exercises and those who don’t.


"

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

"

If getting hit in the boobs is anything like getting kicked in the balls then I am amazed that any women let’s her tits get touched.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 14 weeks ago

North West


"Bareback you feel the heat, the pulsations deep within and if things are drying up or getting wetter. Sometimes the condom can deaden sensations. However I think the psychological effect of bareback intensifies things. It is a level of trust in a partner that increases the intimacy tenfold.

Hitting a cervix isn't like being kicked in the balls, you just move from side to side to avoid it, increasing sensations all round.

"

My cervix has shrivelled up now, like a deflated ballsack

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"And then a huge whack on the head as she hits the roof!"

Haha, whack on the head in your case, kick out in reflex in mine. 🤣🤣


"The difference is more around those who do pelvic exercises and those who don’t."

Hmmmm, what do you think feels better? Should I continue with my exercises?😉


"If getting hit in the boobs is anything like getting kicked in the balls then I am amazed that any women let’s her tits get touched."

I meant a proper punch or kick, I once had an unfortunate elbow hit me squarely in the boob, it took my breath away with the pain!

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By *ellhungvweMan 14 weeks ago

Cheltenham


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The difference is more around those who do pelvic exercises and those who don’t.

Hmmmm, what do you think feels better? Should I continue with my exercises?😉"

Yes - definitely! A women who is able to control her pelvic muscles can really heighten the sensation for a guy.

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By *ompovatorX24Man 14 weeks ago

Wembley


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs. "

Have you finished ranting

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By *ir tootMan 14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting "

Are you finished, who hurt you?

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting "

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter.

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By *ir tootMan 14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter. "

Fist bump

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 14 weeks ago

North West


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter.

Fist bump"

Tit bump.

Ouch

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By *ir tootMan 14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter.

Fist bump

Tit bump.

Ouch "

it wasn't an ow for me I assure you. 🤣

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 14 weeks ago

North West


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter.

Fist bump

Tit bump.

Ouch it wasn't an ow for me I assure you. 🤣

"

My tits + my mass - your mass = you're probably gonna end up in the stratosphere

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By *ir tootMan 14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

Have you finished ranting

Who's ranting? It's just a little fun and genuine interest. Luckily there are some great folks on this forum who will happily answer any questions and join in the friendly banter.

Fist bump

Tit bump.

Ouch it wasn't an ow for me I assure you. 🤣

My tits + my mass - your mass = you're probably gonna end up in the stratosphere "

So Worth it though.

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By *elix SightedMan 14 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs. "

I do this too, OP!! Endless random musings about stuff. And things.

Regards the condom vs bare thing - think about our anatomy for a moment. Our winkies are stimulated by moving the skin up and down the shaft. When in a foof bare, your anatomy does that job. But, when we’re wearing a condom, the skin moves far less because there is a barrier between each thingy. So the sensation is greatly reduced.

Cervix - I agree with a previous poster that it just feels like we’ve ’filled you up’. I’ve had sex with a few women who have a low cervix and it was never an issue. Probably says more about me than them 😆😆😆

As for RFS (roomy fanny syndrome), there’s no rhyme or reason. When I was a young man (an extremely long time ago) I had sex with young women that were as slack as an old woollen jumper. But I’ve also been with 50 year old mums that have been nice and cosy.

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By *dventuresWithEve OP   Woman 14 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts


"Weird mind moments and going down mental rabbit holes, the questions popping into my head tonight are

In what way does it feel different for a guy using a condom versus bareback? How would you describe the minutiae of the sensations?

How does it feel for a guy when his cock hits a cervix?

Does it feel much different, having sex with a woman who has had children (natural births) versus one who hasn't?

I suppose my mind is trying to work out the anatomy and sensations of something I cannot possibly relate to...

...it's much easier imagining the pain of being kicked in the balls when you know as a woman what it feels like being hit in the boobs.

I do this too, OP!! Endless random musings about stuff. And things.

Regards the condom vs bare thing - think about our anatomy for a moment. Our winkies are stimulated by moving the skin up and down the shaft. When in a foof bare, your anatomy does that job. But, when we’re wearing a condom, the skin moves far less because there is a barrier between each thingy. So the sensation is greatly reduced.

Cervix - I agree with a previous poster that it just feels like we’ve ’filled you up’. I’ve had sex with a few women who have a low cervix and it was never an issue. Probably says more about me than them 😆😆😆

As for RFS (roomy fanny syndrome), there’s no rhyme or reason. When I was a young man (an extremely long time ago) I had sex with young women that were as slack as an old woollen jumper. But I’ve also been with 50 year old mums that have been nice and cosy."

Thanks for your contribution, made me smile. Exactly what the forum is about, information plus light humour.

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By *vaRose43Woman 14 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Well thank you op, this has been enlightening

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By *penminddmanMan 14 weeks ago

Lisburn

My experience I really don’t like wearing doms. For me anyway feels million times better without

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