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Have you ever been attracted to someone and then
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"Ah, the paradox of looks v personality? It works the other way too 
As in their personality attracted you but they were just too ugly?  "
Hmm....not sure that's right. They might, at first seem unattractive, but as you get to know them, you want to tear their clothes of, as they're a deep, meaningful character |
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I don't often find someone physically attractive before I know at least a little of them.
I have been surprised at how quickly the attraction can absolutely vanish when certain things come to light though 💜 |
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No I don't really experience that phenomena.
If attraction develops with someone then it tends to stay there. Maybe there are some exceptions e.g. she turns out to be a serial killer, but maybe even then.
What kills it for me is betrayal of trust. |
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"I don't often find someone physically attractive before I know at least a little of them.
I have been surprised at how quickly the attraction can absolutely vanish when certain things come to light though 💜"
Maybe we should just leave the lights off then 😉 |
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"I don't often find someone physically attractive before I know at least a little of them.
I have been surprised at how quickly the attraction can absolutely vanish when certain things come to light though 💜
Maybe we should just leave the lights off then 😉"
I don't like being kept in the dark. |
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A few times yes, I think we build an imaginary personality for someone when we idolise them, then when you get to know them they don't meet expectations. I had a crush on a guy when I was about 18, he worked at the same company as me but I didn't really talk to him. I thought he was really fit and handsome, then one evening after work everyone went to the pub for a few drinks. I bit the bullet and got chatting to him, he was about 10 years older than me which didn't bother me really. When I got chatting to him he was awful! So boring, no charisma at all! Got instantly turned off and that was that!!
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"I can like someone for ages then go off them in seconds as well."
Yeah. And not like an ick. Just gone off them. It’s never happened with love. But some people just tip me over the edge some days. |
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"No one is hot enough enough to have a shitty personality I mean, I’m going to probably go against the fab grain here and say this isn’t true.
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I would so, they can have a shitty personality, just don't let on its shitty.
some people however will fuck anyone they find aesthetically attractive |
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Oh wait that has happened. A couple of years ago.
I was drinking cocktails in that gaff in Manchester laundry room or something it's called.
Great conversation, really intelligent and sharp, lots of flirting, wickedly sarcastic sense of humour. Gloriously sexy Polish accent. Then she started being outwardly racist about Pakistani people. She used alternative terminology and I am pretty sure she was referring to anyone brown.
I think I reacted like Jennifer Lawrence in the Diner scene in Silver Linings Playbook. I am pretty sure I said 'you are killing me'.
Then she proceeded to double down on it and try to justify her position as being rational. This was not a I am not racist but scenario... It was a full on wtaf am in at a white supremacist conference.
She got real ugly, real fast. It was the hatred in her eyes. |
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"No one is hot enough enough to have a shitty personality I mean, I’m going to probably go against the fab grain here and say this isn’t true.
I would so, they can have a shitty personality, just don't let on its shitty.
some people however will fuck anyone they find aesthetically attractive "
I wouldn’t fuck ANYONE I find attractive. Especially not if I don’t like them as a person. But there are probably exceptions to that. Like my top 5 celebrity crushes. not anyone from fab. |
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"Arrogance
Being a knobhead
Zero personality
Having questionable opinions
Doesn't take a lot to turn me off, some people should just remain pretty and mute.
You first babe  "
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"No one is hot enough enough to have a shitty personality I mean, I’m going to probably go against the fab grain here and say this isn’t true.
I would so, they can have a shitty personality, just don't let on its shitty.
some people however will fuck anyone they find aesthetically attractive "
I know a couple of guys who can (and kinda do) have a terrible personality, hot as though. Still would. |
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"Oh wait that has happened. A couple of years ago.
I was drinking cocktails in that gaff in Manchester laundry room or something it's called.
Great conversation, really intelligent and sharp, lots of flirting, wickedly sarcastic sense of humour. Gloriously sexy Polish accent. Then she started being outwardly racist about Pakistani people. She used alternative terminology and I am pretty sure she was referring to anyone brown.
I think I reacted like Jennifer Lawrence in the Diner scene in Silver Linings Playbook. I am pretty sure I said 'you are killing me'.
Then she proceeded to double down on it and try to justify her position as being rational. This was not a I am not racist but scenario... It was a full on wtaf am in at a white supremacist conference.
She got real ugly, real fast. It was the hatred in her eyes."
That'll do it.  |
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Physical attraction is just that and I think if you find someone physically attracted that will always remain
Then comes the personality. Just because you don’t like the personality I’m not sure that changes the physical |
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Yep.
Not hard really. Some people can look attractive physically but then they let their personalities (or lack of) shine and then ypu just nope the hell out of there.
A pretty face and banging bod does not mean what's on the inside matches. |
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