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Yesterday I opened my flitters to join in on a forum game. While my filters were down I had loads of profile views from single men of which I had 5 messages and several winks. All the guys that winked at me or messaged me have on their profile that they are straight men. So it begs the question my message another straight man or wink??? What do you think guys??? |
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I just would not worry. Certainly about winks and fabs, especially from people on a forum 'game' thread. I do like to usually do that almost with everyone on a thread like that. Does not mean more than a nice friendly hello and I also often get the same. Messages, if inappropriate, is a different thing but just block/delete and put your filters back again if it worries you and you be sorted. Have a great day and enjoy chatting to whoever you like too. |
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The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. |
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"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. "
no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randoms
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By *8on33Man 6 weeks ago
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"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randoms"
How do you know they weren't on the forum maybe they read the forum but didn't comment?
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"The Forum game was called "make someone smile". The instructions were send a Fab, a wink or a cheerful, friendly message to brighten someone's day. It didn't say only contact profiles you fancy shagging. no this was yesterday see we be a picture to the person above which is fine… but it wasn’t people from the forums that was messaging or winking it was randomsHow do you know they weren't on the forum maybe they read the forum but didn't comment?"
This  most people are lurkers
People run their profiles how they choose. We don’t get to police other peoples choices in that |
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Some of them will be from straight-but-nosey gits checking out the competition. Some will actively want to touch you on the peepee. Some will not be interested in you either way, but just playing their interpretation of the forum game rules
Thing is there's no way of knowing who's who. Golden rule of Fab: just because a guy says he's a thing, doesn't make him the thing. |
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"People have many reasons for looking and contacting. But the age old trope about straight men being unable to have sex with men deserves to die.of course they can and do. "
Does somewhat undermine their status as a straight man though. |
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I sent a message to a straight guy on here and we ended up passionate lovers for 2 years, he didn’t want to be outed as being bi. So nothing wrong with sending a straight guy a message cos he may be curious but shy 💋 |
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"People have many reasons for looking and contacting. But the age old trope about straight men being unable to have sex with men deserves to die.of course they can and do.
Does somewhat undermine their status as a straight man though."
No. If they're not attracted to men, they're not gay or bi. |
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Some people are fab straight.
Some people just like to show appreciation for a good image, particularly men to men as most are aware of how few fabs and attention male pictures get compared to female ones.
Some people would have been working from the smile thread without posting because they didn't want the attention but wanted to contribute to making someone smile.
Don't overthink it OP.
There are plenty of beautiful pictures I've fabbed that were of people I'm not actually interested in fucking, I just like the image 💜 |
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"No issue or problem just wondered why these guys claim to be straight then wink at other straight men and or send sexual messages. Why not just be open about being bi or straight"
Maybe they are under the impression that they are straight, they can fuck guys as long as they don't find them attractive.
Or more likely they don't want to put bi/curious on their profile as they think it will put single women/couples off |
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"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters.
Or do, and become exceedingly comfortable heading straight for the delete button. 🤷♂️😂"
Sun Tzu say greatest general is not one who wins great conflict, but one who prevents it in first place. |
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"Men complain when they don't get messages, complain when they do. Make your minds up!"
I suppose it depends what the messages say. I get a lot that say something along the lines of ‘fuck off stevie’ which I find rather astonishing. A reply is a reply though and worth batting one out for. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
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"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters.
Or do, and become exceedingly comfortable heading straight for the delete button. 🤷♂️😂
Sun Tzu say greatest general is not one who wins great conflict, but one who prevents it in first place."
Ah, but the great 'Fuk Mi' say man who send message to person who not want fucky fucky with other men will always end up diddling own dong. |
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"I think not everyone who lists themselves as straight, are straight.
Some men and even women are fab straight. "
There seem still to be a stigma about guys putting bi or curious on their profiles. They think that it would put women or couples off. I also get loads of messages from "straight" guys. |
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"They are bi but they will say putting bi on your profile lowers yoir chances of getting meets with women."
They are wrong. If you’re bi you’re gonna appeal to ladies and guys who want to only meet bi men and there are lots. |
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"The lesson you need to learn OP is: don’t open your filters."
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My filters are open, indiscriminately. "Delete", "Ignore" and "Encourage" are processes that I'm comfortable with...as a fully ➡️ straight ➡️ man.
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