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Who knows you have 2 really hairy cock pics ,your profile is all about sex as though that's all you think about and your bi so theirs 3 reasons but it could be the area you live in maybe no couples that you suit their preference . |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Looks to me like you’re just looking to fulfill your own fantasy of being in a threesome, and you don’t make it very clear as to what makes you stand out from the thousands of other guys on here |
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"Would cock
In pants be better ? "
Oh yes and as a single guy you don't accommodate that always raises alarm bells around here so tell them why you don't accommodate but please don't take our advice just carry on with what you've got eventually it will work for somebody. |
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OP, your profile is your shop window. Is it showing you in the best possible light? And I concur, those photos are awful! You say you're "tidy", with "tidy facial hair", so why is your downstairs not tidy? |
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"OP, your profile is your shop window. Is it showing you in the best possible light? And I concur, those photos are awful! You say you're "tidy", with "tidy facial hair", so why is your downstairs not tidy? "
As per the plentiful posts and current posts on pubic hair I don’t see the relevance between tidy facial hair and pubic hair let alone asking someone why there’s isn’t |
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Hello Pete,
Your fantasy may not be their fantasy and they probably don’t think that they exist to make your dream come true.
You are looking for cuckold or to just watch – so that limits you to a couple who want to be watched or to a couple that want the husband to be cuckolded.
You are bisexual and want to have sex with the husband too ...... so that limits you to bi males
You love giving oral more than anything....... so basically
YOU are looking for
A couple who want to make your dream come true - with a bi male who wants to be cuckolded while you fuck his wife and then he can be played with – possibly orally.
Nothing wrong with that .... just limits your chances somewhat
As for your pics....... nothing wrong with them but they are pretty similar.
Maybe say a bit more about what you are offering.
Good luck
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"OP, your profile is your shop window. Is it showing you in the best possible light? And I concur, those photos are awful! You say you're "tidy", with "tidy facial hair", so why is your downstairs not tidy?
As per the plentiful posts and current posts on pubic hair I don’t see the relevance between tidy facial hair and pubic hair let alone asking someone why there’s isn’t "
You may not but I do. It's my reply and my personal opinion, and I am entitled to one. As well as you are entitled to your opinion. So as it's a forum open to anyone, let's agree to disagree on the subject. |
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Zero profile picture. Two (sorry) rather awful public photos. A profile with grammar mistakes, that is all about sexual preference.
There is literally no reason for someone to click on your profile and be intrigued let alone message.
I'd suggest a complete rewrite of your profile - it's fine to include what your're looking for/fantasies etc but don't make it all about that as it currently is. Maybe include other interests and hobbies. Upload a profile picture (not of your penis!) and a few thoughtful, tasteful shots in your public gallery - eg a nice suit photo, crop your head off if you don't want your face to be shown. Maybe even a contrast and the odd black and white photo in there as well.
C xoxo
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Can you look at profile and see why I’m not getting messages from couples x"
Never looked at your profile & have no intention of doing so, so ain't much good but the rest of the replies are fairly descriptive in their eyes . |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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"On another thread, people can do what they want with their pubic hair as long as they are happy. Yeah right!!
You are not expecting consistency across threads are you?"
Or, you know, different posters having different opinions. Some don't mind what people do, others clearly do. |
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"On another thread, people can do what they want with their pubic hair as long as they are happy. Yeah right!!
You are not expecting consistency across threads are you?
Or, you know, different posters having different opinions. Some don't mind what people do, others clearly do. "
I was more thinking about the people who say one thing on one thread and then a totally different thing on a different one but with you as well  |
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"Your profile.
That’s the clue. It’s your profile
It reflects you. Not what you think others want to see
So if you’re happy with the representation of you then leave it be "
Gotta love this type of low effort passive aggressive reply. |
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"Your profile.
That’s the clue. It’s your profile
It reflects you. Not what you think others want to see
So if you’re happy with the representation of you then leave it be
Gotta love this type of low effort passive aggressive reply."
Are you just going to pick on my reply or those of others in this thread who have stated the same or similar?
It’s actually a very meaningful piece of advice.
If your profile is written from the perspective of others then it is no longer your profile, it is what other think it should be.
That’s not passive aggressive at all |
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"Your profile.
That’s the clue. It’s your profile
It reflects you. Not what you think others want to see
So if you’re happy with the representation of you then leave it be
Gotta love this type of low effort passive aggressive reply.
Are you just going to pick on my reply or those of others in this thread who have stated the same or similar?
It’s actually a very meaningful piece of advice.
If your profile is written from the perspective of others then it is no longer your profile, it is what other think it should be.
That’s not passive aggressive at all "
It's entirely unhelpful. The OP wouldn't have asked the question if he was happy with his profile.
This idea that people shouldn't ask for or our take advice on their profiles is a total red herring and one I see that's basically copy pasted across the forum in certain circles.
Of course it's still his profile if he gets some advice and takes it on board. |
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"Can you look at profile and see why I’m not getting messages from couples x"
No idea but the grammatical mistakes are a total turn off for me. Shallow as a grave, me but there you go. Reasons Seasons. |
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Yeah to join the choir it's those cock pics and no profile pic your account is automatically in the category of not worth our time because there is nothing original about it. It's just another as we like to say talented dick that can us a keyboard |
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"Interesting,can you take a look at my profile too,any suggestions to improve it would be well received."
It's considered poor fab etiquette to ask for advice on another person's thread. It may be better to start your own |
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By *rindnbump V2Couple 13 weeks ago
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Look at your profile like a shop window. If there is nothing in the window to encourage people to go inside and take a look, they are just going to walk on by.
You have no profile pic, therefore most people won't even look at your profile.
The two public pics on your profile are cock pics, which doesn't give people any idea of your body shape.
You won't meet smokers (entirely your preference) and can't accommodate, this will also narrow down the people who will get in touch.
The fact you've been on here for over a year and have no verifications will also put people off. You can go to clubs or organised socials to pick up a veri. We all have to start somewhere, it's all to do with how much effort you want to put in.
Sorry if any of that offends, we didn’t mean to  |
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"Looks to me like you’re just looking to fulfill your own fantasy of being in a threesome, and you don’t make it very clear as to what makes you stand out from the thousands of other guys on here"
absolutely spot on.
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Perhaps it's fewer than 1% of couples that would find you attractive.
They do have to see you, before they'd know. And, if they could see you, you'd have to be more attractive to them than anyone else who they are engaging with.
Perhaps it's fewer than 1% of people who would find you attractive? Or more? The ball's in your court to let them have what they need to be able to take meaningful decision. If in doubt, it's no. |
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