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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. " If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? | |||
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"Women run with sexual desire and men run with their ego. It doesn't matter who's stroking their ego, most men will take sex when it's offered to them regardless of attraction so they struggle to understand women's brains don't work the same. " I was thinking along those lines the other day, if men had a better understanding of how women's brains work, they would be unstoppable. | |||
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"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this ![]() Shame that some men assume that offering money works with all women on here though. Not sure there's a bigger turn off for me than being treated like that | |||
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"Thing is, there is this crazy notion women are spoilt for choice, inundated and have it easy here. In reality, we have to wade through so much nonsense to find anyone capable of holding our attention. Even more to be inspired enough to want to meet them. My inbox is filled daily with grown men who seem to think I'm a commodity to be used. With no idea that the drivel they are sending is just putting me off more. Then, when I politely decline I get the ego dented abuse. "Why are you here?" "You're a fat cow anyway?" and worse they rarely use the correct spelling, grammar or punctuation! Yet, that doesn't make it harder for good people. It actually makes it easier to stand out as a decent person. " Exactly this I understand your problems but at least you have those problems which can be cut down with filters ,guys don't have to deal with thoughtless messages or sex themed messages or cock pics they just don't get replies or it would seem they don't from all the threads they start ,I saw a thread earlier where a guy didn't understand why he is only getting messages from guys his profile avatar is his cock and all his pics are of his erect cock ,I think some guys just don't get this place at all and they struggle ,some however will always do well they have the age and look required . | |||
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"I think it's like food. Some people will cook for themselves if they get really hungry because they know they're going to enjoy the meal others are only happy if they can cook with someone else and the quality of the food isn't that important. Some people want to use ingredients that simply aren't available to them and will complain loudly about that but make little effort to obtain them. 🤷♀️" Ha ha that's a great analogy | |||
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"Yes anyone can afford to be picky and rightly so. Nobody should in any way have to settle for anything they don't want. There is however a quantity of guys who got the idea that this place easy sex and are unable to handle rejection so then proceed to complain about how picky women and couples are. Which is hilarious." ![]() | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?" I don't meet anyone but no. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. " But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. | |||
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"Women run with sexual desire and men run with their ego. It doesn't matter who's stroking their ego, most men will take sex when it's offered to them regardless of attraction so they struggle to understand women's brains don't work the same. " Very much this. Women have got those annoying little buggers called hormones and have to deal with "Mother Nature". One moment, we may feel like a goddess on top of the world and horny all the time, the next we feel like a frumpy sack of potatoes who nobody would want to (at least in our own opinions) come close to, and God forbid have any sexual contact with. Men don't seem to have that issue. And this has nothing to do with confidence. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it ![]() | |||
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"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this ![]() Having money doesn't equal to better sex. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it ![]() I hate doing it too, so no sorry. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it ![]() Huh, picky! ![]() | |||
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"I think people seem to be confusing being picky with not picking the ones they judge that others should be picking. If both people choose to get together to fuck eachother by definition they have both "picked" eachother. Others seem to be judging that it is only the male who will "fuck anything" and should be criticised. " Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public? | |||
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"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity. No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜" Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand ![]() | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. " I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it " Leagues? I'll be Northern Conference, division 2 then. As a man, even if you're butt naked in front of me, if I haven't connected with you, I won't want to have a sexual encounter with you. I don't think that's being picky, just that I want something a little more than getting my penis wet ![]() | |||
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"I think people seem to be confusing being picky with not picking the ones they judge that others should be picking. If both people choose to get together to fuck eachother by definition they have both "picked" eachother. Others seem to be judging that it is only the male who will "fuck anything" and should be criticised. Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public?" Well yes absolutely. Although I can't speak for most men, only those that I know. And what of the woman in your scenario? Is the suggestion that she is attracted to the man or seen dead with in public and it is only the man that is choosing to have sex with someone they don't find attractive? I imagine people, men and women are different and have their own reasons for choosing who they have sex with. Not just the male. | |||
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"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?" I'll bring that ironing water for the steamer ![]() | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it " It's not about being picky, it's just being able to choose the best you can. Which why wouldn't you. And women can do that. Men, on the most part, tend to be interested in whoever is interested in them. And I think if you meet someone that you think is out your league, just enjoy it for what it is. Fuck insecurity. | |||
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"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity. No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜 Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand ![]() Well I would hope not, using ghds whilst lady wanking is a kink I haven't come across yet. | |||
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"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this ![]() No but it certainly allows many men options to get more sex than they could normally facilitate | |||
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"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?" Just for the record, I'm not available to do anyone's ironing, I'm sorry. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " Great point 😁 | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it " A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜 | |||
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"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please? Just for the record, I'm not available to do anyone's ironing, I'm sorry." I feel this thread has been mis sold. I have a pile to do and I thought this was a real offer ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think people seem to be confusing being picky with not picking the ones they judge that others should be picking. If both people choose to get together to fuck eachother by definition they have both "picked" eachother. Others seem to be judging that it is only the male who will "fuck anything" and should be criticised. Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public? Well yes absolutely. Although I can't speak for most men, only those that I know. And what of the woman in your scenario? Is the suggestion that she is attracted to the man or seen dead with in public and it is only the man that is choosing to have sex with someone they don't find attractive? I imagine people, men and women are different and have their own reasons for choosing who they have sex with. Not just the male. " I can only make judgements from my experience. I don't know what other women do or feel. I haven't had sex with a man I wasn't attracted to, or wouldn't walk in public with. I'm pretty sure a lot of the men who ask to have sex with me aren't bothered by what I look like. They just need sex. I'm also quite sure some would be embarrassed to be associated with me in public. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜" Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it. | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. " That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜" I concluded years ago that for sex purposes only hot men (namely my fuck buddy of 14 years) will keep an old fat woman around because she's giving him the sex he needs. I'm cynical though. Maybe I was an easy option, available and became a habit. | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me." Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they. | |||
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"If she was a vogue model, maybe, but it would be fair to say she was no stranger to KFC and McDonald's." ... so fat girls shouldn't have preferences (or possibly just be in the middle of a conversation that was inappropriate to interrupt), and it's okay when pretty girls are rude? | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜 Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it. " No. All men really don't find all women attractive. Stop feeding this lazy trope. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜" I’m the same in that someone is either attractive to me or they’re not. It’s frustrating though as it makes me difficult to read for others annd impossible to answer what “my type” is. I just like what I like. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then? I don't meet anyone but no. But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part. I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too. Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them. I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜 Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it. No. All men really don't find all women attractive. Stop feeding this lazy trope. " I stand corrected, but I'm fairly sure there is something in all women that would appeal in a instant to most men if not all. | |||
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"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally." Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any. | |||
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"We can all be picky, I certainly am. I guess it's how driven we are by our genitals. " You think if people are more driven by their genitalia then they are less picky? You could be right. A high driven genitals could at times cause bad decisions | |||
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"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally. Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any. " Your looking in the wrong place. I've seen some really 'orrible things on here 🤢 | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " I actually agree with a lot of the comments from women on this thread, a lot of men take interest in anyone who shows interest, there are some (like myself) that really prefer a connection, an attraction that is not only physical but something beyond physical too, a personality attraction. What I think I struggle with is because women get bombarded and by the nature of that can be ‘picky’ is trying to stand out from the crowd, guys who are ‘gym fit’ ‘hung’ ‘tattoed’ or whatever it is that visually attracts a lady is far easier to grab someone’s attention with just one image (if you have it) than an average sized cock, dad bod guy (who is a lovely person who people like….in person) but it’s impossible to stand out from the crowd when personalised messages don’t even get opened and deleted without profiles even being looked at because there isn’t an immediate visual “WOW”. Just my opinion, but there it is x | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " Being picky insinuates a comparison - that one is better than another, meets a standard or lives up to expectation. Finding something else to do v's finding someone attractive doesn't mean a thing unless they find you attractive, so why question it? Whether it's looks, personality, lifestyle or all, if someone is going to sleep with you, it's on them choosing to as they found you attractive. This is either a look at me thread or a dig at women for their choices, I can't work out which. With so few women, you have to get past hubby for the most anyway, so who says it's the woman knocking anyone back. | |||
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"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally. Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any. Your looking in the wrong place. I've seen some really 'orrible things on here 🤢" Local updates up here often requires eye bleach. Including some images from non penis people. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive Being picky insinuates a comparison - that one is better than another, meets a standard or lives up to expectation. Finding something else to do v's finding someone attractive doesn't mean a thing unless they find you attractive, so why question it? Whether it's looks, personality, lifestyle or all, if someone is going to sleep with you, it's on them choosing to as they found you attractive. This is either a look at me thread or a dig at women for their choices, I can't work out which. With so few women, you have to get past hubby for the most anyway, so who says it's the woman knocking anyone back. " Not for all of us, my Mrs does what she likes on here if she wants to meet it's her choice. Was even inviting guys here when I'm away, but that's a bit much so it stopped, all the guys were sound no problems at all. | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. " As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂" You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing." I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object | |||
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"Yes, anyone can afford to be picky, however. I think that women have more interests lined up if they say no to one, than us guys who might have to wait a much longer time for the next match." Isn't match a key word there? Surely it's not a match if only one side is interested? | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object" Nice is a pretty basic prerequisite | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object" Nice guys don't push you against the wall and hold your throat. | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object" You misunderstand my use of the word game - if your approach is simply “I am a nice guy” then how are you going to differentiate yourself from the million other nice guys out there? I am a nice guy. All the men on the thread think they are nice guys. Good luck with that. What do you actually want from the site and then how do you make sure that those who have what you want also want you? That’s what I mean by the game. People have already assumed above that “hot” people are only after other “hot” people. That’s not how it works. Everyone wants something specific and size, looks, fitness are not the only things in town. | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object Nice guys don't push you against the wall and hold your throat. " They most certainly do!! | |||
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"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me. As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂 You have to play the game in the way that suits you. Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing. I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object You misunderstand my use of the word game - if your approach is simply “I am a nice guy” then how are you going to differentiate yourself from the million other nice guys out there? I am a nice guy. All the men on the thread think they are nice guys. Good luck with that. What do you actually want from the site and then how do you make sure that those who have what you want also want you? That’s what I mean by the game. People have already assumed above that “hot” people are only after other “hot” people. That’s not how it works. Everyone wants something specific and size, looks, fitness are not the only things in town." It’s hard to reply anything to this type of thread that doesn’t come across as “woah is me” which then starts arguments and makes the whole thing pointless, I think it’s fair to say that everyone has something that someone else somewhere would want, the simple point I’m making is that it is EASIER for some, much like saying “money doesn’t make you happy” no, it really really doesn’t, but there’s a number of things having money makes easier in life and with that comes a certain amount of happiness. Being ‘hung’ ‘vwe’ ‘gym fit’ ‘tattoed’ does not in itself bring all the women to your bed, but it certainly grabs a lot of their attention in order to give more of a chance. If you were a moron then without doubt they’d be ‘picky’ and reject you too, or at least some would, I’m simply saying as an ‘average’ guy it’s hard to get the initial attention in order to show what other traits I have that might be of interest. Again, just my opinion, and I’m sure others will have different views (like yourself) as you’re coming from a different perspective, that does not make my view or your view more or less valid than one another’s, just different. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. " See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that. Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky. I'll just stay home and have a wank. ![]() | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that. Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky. I'll just stay home and have a wank. ![]() | |||
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"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after" So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options. And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter. If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for. | |||
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"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there. Men not so much. But everyone can be picky if they so wish. See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that. Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky. I'll just stay home and have a wank. ![]() That isn't my point. Men complain of women been picky. We can be even more so than normal as we have more choice. Not saying you would choose someone that isn't your type, more you'd "up" your type because you can. Picky isn't the right word, but I know I can bang hotter guys on here than in normal life. | |||
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"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options. And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter. If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for." But then Mr 9inches comes along and she ups her preferences, because she can. More choice/less choice, to me it doesn't mean a woman will lower her preferences. But more choice you might up them. | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " ...you seem to be having an argument with yourself...? | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " Spot on…this. ^ Why would we want just any guy to all get intimate with ![]() | |||
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"I just see someone jumping up and down...waving their arms ,shouting look at me Who? Where?" I'm.assuming he means me lol | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " yep but some men don’t understand that… had one the other day told him it’s a no from me but kept going on and on but i’ve got a 9in cock…. so what but you got a face like a smashed up car! do love the block feature (k) x | |||
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"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity. No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜 Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand ![]() Not for the pubes ![]() | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. " ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite " This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous " ....explain what it is exactly then...? | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?" I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️ | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️" ....but you already hav3....? | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....?" Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better? | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " Picky is a relative term and depends on the pool you are picking from. Your profile states that you would only entertain meeting someone who actually resides in the area within 10 miles of you… no passers through, no holiday makers.. . I guarantee no man in the history of Fab has ever set such a restriction on who they would be willing to meet. | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....? Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?" ....are you seeking my approval .? | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....? Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .?" Nope. | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....? Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .? Nope. " ....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well. | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....? Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .? Nope. ....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well. " What are you going on about. I’ve said what I wanted to say. I’ve no time for petty back and forth crap. | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...? I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷♀️....but you already hav3....? Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .? Nope. ....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well. What are you going on about. I’ve said what I wanted to say. I’ve no time for petty back and forth crap. " ....yet here you are...? | |||
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"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options. And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter. If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for." Lol….by very definition, having specific preferences is a form of being picky! I wasn’t having a go, your preference is your right 100%, merely an observation, and like I said in my previous post, it’s very hard to discuss this topic without people getting all uptight and arguing, it was just an observation, not a criticism | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive " By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite " Well I've seen it in 2 ongoing threads at the moment so we obviously read different ones ![]() | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite " Oh and please explain where exactly am I man bashing? Maybe I missed that bit? | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() No, no, no, no, no, no, no….feel better for getting that out my system, hopefully I get someone to say yes to soon too 🤪😂 | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() Plenty of men say no to the unwanted penii in their inbox regularly too 💜 | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() Good point , I never really thought about that | |||
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"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market ![]() This is very true, always confused by guys sending straight guys pics and messages!! | |||
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"I’m not so desperate to lower my standards just for a fuck, I’d hope the people I meet feel the same Yeah but just what if you would be given a life time supply of haribo starmix " Surely that majorly depends on the individual and how much haribo they consume, got to love the cola bottles but I would donate the gummy bears to charity | |||
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"I’m not so desperate to lower my standards just for a fuck, I’d hope the people I meet feel the same Yeah but just what if you would be given a life time supply of haribo starmix " Make it a lifetime supply of minstrels and I might consider it 🤣 | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is." That implies that the men we single ladies or couples choose to meet are so desperate that they really don’t care about attraction so long as they get the sex. I fucking hope not | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is." But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is." Speak for yourself. What your talking about is desperation. Not all men are desperate. | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no." I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. That implies that the men we single ladies or couples choose to meet are so desperate that they really don’t care about attraction so long as they get the sex. I fucking hope not " This is accurate in some levels though I know women don’t like to hear it or imagine it but some men and certain demographics certainly have no issues at just getting laid as it’s better than a j Arthur on their own. If it’s just fuck then it’s irrelevant as it’s not dating . Not saying all men by any means but it totally happens on here. In real life etc Night clubs / holidays etc | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you" Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. That implies that the men we single ladies or couples choose to meet are so desperate that they really don’t care about attraction so long as they get the sex. I fucking hope not This is accurate in some levels though I know women don’t like to hear it or imagine it but some men and certain demographics certainly have no issues at just getting laid as it’s better than a j Arthur on their own. If it’s just fuck then it’s irrelevant as it’s not dating . Not saying all men by any means but it totally happens on here. In real life etc Night clubs / holidays etc " I don’t disagree. If I get a whiff of desperation, I’m out | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. That implies that the men we single ladies or couples choose to meet are so desperate that they really don’t care about attraction so long as they get the sex. I fucking hope not This is accurate in some levels though I know women don’t like to hear it or imagine it but some men and certain demographics certainly have no issues at just getting laid as it’s better than a j Arthur on their own. If it’s just fuck then it’s irrelevant as it’s not dating . Not saying all men by any means but it totally happens on here. In real life etc Night clubs / holidays etc " Oh I have no doubt it happens, but personally I would 100 per cent rather have a wank | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite Well I've seen it in 2 ongoing threads at the moment so we obviously read different ones ![]() ...so you decided to start a third one...thats nice.. | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. That implies that the men we single ladies or couples choose to meet are so desperate that they really don’t care about attraction so long as they get the sex. I fucking hope not This is accurate in some levels though I know women don’t like to hear it or imagine it but some men and certain demographics certainly have no issues at just getting laid as it’s better than a j Arthur on their own. If it’s just fuck then it’s irrelevant as it’s not dating . Not saying all men by any means but it totally happens on here. In real life etc Night clubs / holidays etc I don’t disagree. If I get a whiff of desperation, I’m out " See it’s not even desperation in many cases it’s simply the aspect of. “They can “ fuck and forget | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive" Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you" So you word it more subtly | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite Well I've seen it in 2 ongoing threads at the moment so we obviously read different ones ![]() And you say I'm the one begging for attention ![]() | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you So you word it more subtly " I have declined women / meets I believe in blunt reality and i just say not attracted to you and all the best. Usually though you get the abuse after though as some flip their biscuit as so mentally weak and defective with rejection. | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you So you word it more subtly I have declined women / meets I believe in blunt reality and i just say not attracted to you and all the best. Usually though you get the abuse after though as some flip their biscuit as so mentally weak and defective with rejection. " Who are the biggest biscuit flippers, men or women? | |||
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"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums. ...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while. Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite Well I've seen it in 2 ongoing threads at the moment so we obviously read different ones ![]() ![]() ....no use trying to turn it round now...own it.. ![]() | |||
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"Well I must say that thanks to this thread I have got to enjoy the pleasure of forum and the interaction it brings … and also to see some of the sexy profiles that I’ve admired for quite some time…. Thanks all you great fabbers ![]() Well in that case it is all with while | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you So you word it more subtly I have declined women / meets I believe in blunt reality and i just say not attracted to you and all the best. Usually though you get the abuse after though as some flip their biscuit as so mentally weak and defective with rejection. Who are the biggest biscuit flippers, men or women?" Tbh it’s pretty equal I find. Men just use the predictable your an ugly gay fsggot yadda yadda. Women tend to try dig out I am not a woman and never will be etc and make fun which I find quite entertaining tbh as usually a one simple reply 9/10 crushes them even more but I just let them crack on No time for these peasants ultimately ![]() | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you So you word it more subtly " I ask them to turn up in the evening obvs ![]() | |||
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"Women can afford to be picky. Men cannot. In thos lifestyle their are few women who are into thos. The majority are in a relationship and play as part of a couple. Singer Women are extremely rare and they get a lot of attention do can afford to be selective. It's just is what it is. But men can afford to be picky. If they don't fancy someone then they aren't contractually obliged to fuck them, they can say no. I have never replied to someone saying I don't want to fuck you Have you never replied to anyone saying you would rather not meet them? Really? You would just take whoever is on offer? Even if you didn't find them attractive Of course I have. Just never been that forward to say I wouldn't fuck you So you word it more subtly I have declined women / meets I believe in blunt reality and i just say not attracted to you and all the best. Usually though you get the abuse after though as some flip their biscuit as so mentally weak and defective with rejection. Who are the biggest biscuit flippers, men or women? Tbh it’s pretty equal I find. Men just use the predictable your an ugly gay fsggot yadda yadda. Women tend to try dig out I am not a woman and never will be etc and make fun which I find quite entertaining tbh as usually a one simple reply 9/10 crushes them even more but I just let them crack on No time for these peasants ultimately ![]() I must admit I am intrigued what this reply would be ![]() | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they." Yes they do it's why as you say they use the word afford and some people cling to the belief that men 'pay' for sex in some way even in relationships and that women can use sex or the withholding of it to get what they want. | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they. Yes they do it's why as you say they use the word afford and some people cling to the belief that men 'pay' for sex in some way even in relationships and that women can use sex or the withholding of it to get what they want." ...you're speaking from personal experience only i presume? | |||
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"Thing is, there is this crazy notion women are spoilt for choice, inundated and have it easy here. In reality, we have to wade through so much nonsense to find anyone capable of holding our attention. Even more to be inspired enough to want to meet them. My inbox is filled daily with grown men who seem to think I'm a commodity to be used. With no idea that the drivel they are sending is just putting me off more. Then, when I politely decline I get the ego dented abuse. "Why are you here?" "You're a fat cow anyway?" and worse they rarely use the correct spelling, grammar or punctuation! Yet, that doesn't make it harder for good people. It actually makes it easier to stand out as a decent person. " You are not a fat cow, you are gorgeous | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they. Yes they do it's why as you say they use the word afford and some people cling to the belief that men 'pay' for sex in some way even in relationships and that women can use sex or the withholding of it to get what they want....you're speaking from personal experience only i presume? " Observation rather than experience. I don't mean pay in monetary terms. | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they. Yes they do it's why as you say they use the word afford and some people cling to the belief that men 'pay' for sex in some way even in relationships and that women can use sex or the withholding of it to get what they want....you're speaking from personal experience only i presume? Observation rather than experience. I don't mean pay in monetary terms." ..im confused...you say people "cling to the belief "...surely that has to be based on something more than observation? | |||
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"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me. Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they. Yes they do it's why as you say they use the word afford and some people cling to the belief that men 'pay' for sex in some way even in relationships and that women can use sex or the withholding of it to get what they want....you're speaking from personal experience only i presume? Observation rather than experience. I don't mean pay in monetary terms...im confused...you say people "cling to the belief "...surely that has to be based on something more than observation?" I've observed in the media, this forum and in conversation that *some* people cling to the belief that men somehow 'pay' for sex. | |||
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