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Women can afford to be picky?

By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Absolutely

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By *ohn.Wick.Man 20 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

A better statement would be…

Everyone is allowed to be picky.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Yes anyone can afford to be picky and rightly so. Nobody should in any way have to settle for anything they don't want.

There is however a quantity of guys who got the idea that this place easy sex and are unable to handle rejection so then proceed to complain about how picky women and couples are.

Which is hilarious.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity.

No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

A lot of guys on here seem to think that just because you have a profile on here you will fuck anyone and do anything which is a shame really.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

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By *ffervescentMan 20 weeks ago

winfrith

absolutely but women have the pick of the bunch .

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By *ad NannaWoman 20 weeks ago

East London

Because there are a lot more men to choose from, people who are into men have more choice.

I still struggle to find someone compatible because of what I'm looking for from a man.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 20 weeks ago

Chichester

Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Women run with sexual desire and men run with their ego. It doesn't matter who's stroking their ego, most men will take sex when it's offered to them regardless of attraction so they struggle to understand women's brains don't work the same.

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By *imples24Man 20 weeks ago

tamworth

It doesn't make us less picky because we don’t get as many options on here. Also it’s no one’s fault that the men to women ratio on here is unbalanced. Is what it is

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By *sWyldWoman 20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Thing is, there is this crazy notion women are spoilt for choice, inundated and have it easy here.

In reality, we have to wade through so much nonsense to find anyone capable of holding our attention. Even more to be inspired enough to want to meet them.

My inbox is filled daily with grown men who seem to think I'm a commodity to be used. With no idea that the drivel they are sending is just putting me off more. Then, when I politely decline I get the ego dented abuse. "Why are you here?" "You're a fat cow anyway?" and worse they rarely use the correct spelling, grammar or punctuation!

Yet, that doesn't make it harder for good people. It actually makes it easier to stand out as a decent person.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Women run with sexual desire and men run with their ego. It doesn't matter who's stroking their ego, most men will take sex when it's offered to them regardless of attraction so they struggle to understand women's brains don't work the same. "

I was thinking along those lines the other day, if men had a better understanding of how women's brains work, they would be unstoppable.

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By *icecouple561Couple 20 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I think it's like food.

Some people will cook for themselves if they get really hungry because they know they're going to enjoy the meal others are only happy if they can cook with someone else and the quality of the food isn't that important. Some people want to use ingredients that simply aren't available to them and will complain loudly about that but make little effort to obtain them. 🤷‍♀️

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By *urry BlokeMan 20 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Even as a short, chunky, hairy, 50+ year old bloke, I still get offers to meet on a pretty much daily basis

I am, however, as picky as hell - not only about who I meet but also where, when and how I meet

I don't need to be here to find sex at any cost

I enjoy being here, it offers an alternative to trite TV and social media when my head is mashed after a day at work

A flick through the local updates, a flick through the most fabbed and a toe dip into the forums is part of my evening 'routine'

A side effect of being here is that, occasionally, I will receive a shot across the bows that piques my interest

They are very rare though

Most, introductions get a 'thanks, but not now' reaction

So, if you too are picky, keep up the good work

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this

Shame that some men assume that offering money works with all women on here though. Not sure there's a bigger turn off for me than being treated like that

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By *ffervescentMan 20 weeks ago

winfrith

"Thing is, there is this crazy notion women are spoilt for choice, inundated and have it easy here.

In reality, we have to wade through so much nonsense to find anyone capable of holding our attention. Even more to be inspired enough to want to meet them.

Yet, that doesn't make it harder for good people. It actually makes it easier to stand out as a decent person.

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Exactly this I understand your problems but at least you have those problems which can be cut down with filters ,guys don't have to deal with thoughtless messages or sex themed messages or cock pics they just don't get replies or it would seem they don't from all the threads they start ,I saw a thread earlier where a guy didn't understand why he is only getting messages from guys his profile avatar is his cock and all his pics are of his erect cock ,I think some guys just don't get this place at all and they struggle ,some however will always do well they have the age and look required .

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By *ackformore100Man 20 weeks ago

Tin town

I think some people confuse this Web site with normal human behaviour. People aren't on here for any other reason than their own selfish gratification. Whether that be of a sexual or social or connection or acknowledgement nature.

As far as the op. Of course people choose who they do what with when and how. Not sure thats picky so much as making a choice in the moment.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I think it's like food.

Ha ha that's a great analogy

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Im sure not most peoples' cup of tea I'm old enough to be aware of that, if you want the come and get it response you will need to be a 7up anything under that, you will have to put a lot of effort in on a site like this.

Look at the women's profiles and how much they put into presenting themselves that's what they want to see in return when looking at a blokes profile.

So much as point a camera at me and it's rabbits in a headlight response.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple 20 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Yes anyone can afford to be picky and rightly so. Nobody should in any way have to settle for anything they don't want.

There is however a quantity of guys who got the idea that this place easy sex and are unable to handle rejection so then proceed to complain about how picky women and couples are.

Which is hilarious."

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By *rincipessaWoman 20 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Women can afford to be picky and so can men. It just appears that so many aren’t, the ones who inundate your messages with requests to meet and their phone number just because they’ve seen your tits. And of course those who aren’t getting the amount of success they think they should have on a “free sex site”, coz that’s what it is right, they’re always going to find someone else to blame for that.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?"

I don't meet anyone but no.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

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By *ackformore100Man 20 weeks ago

Tin town

I think people seem to be confusing being picky with not picking the ones they judge that others should be picking. If both people choose to get together to fuck eachother by definition they have both "picked" eachother. Others seem to be judging that it is only the male who will "fuck anything" and should be criticised.

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By *iss DevilWoman 20 weeks ago

Bedford

Very much this. Women have got those annoying little buggers called hormones and have to deal with "Mother Nature". One moment, we may feel like a goddess on top of the world and horny all the time, the next we feel like a frumpy sack of potatoes who nobody would want to (at least in our own opinions) come close to, and God forbid have any sexual contact with. Men don't seem to have that issue. And this has nothing to do with confidence.

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive "

Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it

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By *ad NannaWoman 20 weeks ago

East London

"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this

Shame that some men assume that offering money works with all women on here though. Not sure there's a bigger turn off for me than being treated like that"

Having money doesn't equal to better sex.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it

I hate doing it too, so no sorry.

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

Could you give my ironing a go, I hate doing it

I hate doing it too, so no sorry."

Huh, picky!

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By *ad NannaWoman 20 weeks ago

East London

"I think people seem to be confusing being picky with not picking the ones they judge that others should be picking. If both people choose to get together to fuck eachother by definition they have both "picked" eachother. Others seem to be judging that it is only the male who will "fuck anything" and should be criticised. "

Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public?

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By *melie LALWoman 20 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity.

No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜"

Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand

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By *sWyldWoman 20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here. "

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 20 weeks ago

Reading

That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it "

Leagues? I'll be Northern Conference, division 2 then.

As a man, even if you're butt naked in front of me, if I haven't connected with you, I won't want to have a sexual encounter with you. I don't think that's being picky, just that I want something a little more than getting my penis wet

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By *ackformore100Man 20 weeks ago

Tin town

Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public?"

Well yes absolutely. Although I can't speak for most men, only those that I know. And what of the woman in your scenario? Is the suggestion that she is attracted to the man or seen dead with in public and it is only the man that is choosing to have sex with someone they don't find attractive?

I imagine people, men and women are different and have their own reasons for choosing who they have sex with. Not just the male.

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?"

I'll bring that ironing water for the steamer

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it "

It's not about being picky, it's just being able to choose the best you can. Which why wouldn't you. And women can do that.

Men, on the most part, tend to be interested in whoever is interested in them.

And I think if you meet someone that you think is out your league, just enjoy it for what it is.

Fuck insecurity.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity.

No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜

Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand

Well I would hope not, using ghds whilst lady wanking is a kink I haven't come across yet.

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By *eyond PurityCouple 20 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I think a lot of us are only interested in that 5% that look good (to us), fit dynamics and can make conversation.

But then you’ll get the fuck anything that moves people, which sways the percentages.

Everyone can be picky however seemingly a lot of people shop whilst they are hungry

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 20 weeks ago

Chichester

"Money can be the great equaliser for men with some women in this

Shame that some men assume that offering money works with all women on here though. Not sure there's a bigger turn off for me than being treated like that

Having money doesn't equal to better sex."

No but it certainly allows many men options to get more sex than they could normally facilitate

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?"

Just for the record, I'm not available to do anyone's ironing, I'm sorry.

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By *avexxMan 20 weeks ago

cheshire

yes women are picky. and so they should be

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Great point 😁

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it "

A couple of years ago I was surprised (in actual real life) by an absolute Adonis of a man that was genuinely interested in me. I'd assumed he was just being friendly the previous 2 years and just one of those naturally flirty with everyone people. Couldn't understand why someone who looked like he should be modelling underwear on huge billboards be remotely interested in the weird ugly goth. But he was. And he was a lovely person past the aesthetics too.

Sorted my head out a lot since then though. Someone is either attractive to me or not. And if they're not, that's not saying I'm out of their league or better than them in any way. Simply that I'm not personally attracted to them.

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"That's the right approach. Everyone should be picky. Can you do my ironing too please?

Just for the record, I'm not available to do anyone's ironing, I'm sorry."

I feel this thread has been mis sold. I have a pile to do and I thought this was a real offer

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

I think that idea sort of operates under the impression of "leagues" when it comes to looks and attractiveness. If you look at conventional beauty standards, it can skew a bit where men are more likely to drop their standards compared to women and thinking women can hold out for someone more aesthetically attractive... Fuck, I tried to word that as diplomatically as possible 😅

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 20 weeks ago

Leeds

People should be picky, any holes a goal isn't my thing.

Mrs

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By *ad NannaWoman 20 weeks ago

East London

Do you think most men turn down sex with someone they are not attracted to? Or wouldn't be seen dead with in public?

I imagine people, men and women are different and have their own reasons for choosing who they have sex with. Not just the male. "

I can only make judgements from my experience. I don't know what other women do or feel.

I haven't had sex with a man I wasn't attracted to, or wouldn't walk in public with.

I'm pretty sure a lot of the men who ask to have sex with me aren't bothered by what I look like. They just need sex.

I'm also quite sure some would be embarrassed to be associated with me in public.

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By *icecouple561Couple 20 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜"

Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it.

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By *izandpaulCouple 20 weeks ago

merseyside

As a woman, I think it works both ways.

TBF, I have found most men at real meets are nice fellas.

Some more confident than others, some better looking, some who are chatty, some not so. But all in all a good bunch and as I'm not looking for a relationship, just recreational sex, not that bothered on the film star looks.

For women who attend swinging events, most are very nice, some honestly believe they are the belle of the ball and in some ways at a club or party, they are just that, in a vanilla pub, probably ignored and/or invisible, so FAB can become addictive as we all love attention but Mr Reality always has the trump card.

We were in a swingers bar in Gran Canaria and a nice pleasant guy was walking around saying hello to different couples and one couple just turned their backs on him, how rude is that.

If she was a vogue model, maybe, but it would be fair to say she was no stranger to KFC and McDonald's.

We chatted to this guy and had a laugh, this couple then had the cheek to try and join us.

We said that's fine but after about 15 minutes, as she was not getting the undivided attention she craved, off they popped.

So everyone can be picky, just because ladies are fewer in number doesn’t mean a thing.

Good luck everyone, how you find what you ate looking for.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency. "

That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me.

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By *ad NannaWoman 20 weeks ago

East London

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with

people I'm attracted to 💜"

I concluded years ago that for sex purposes only hot men (namely my fuck buddy of 14 years) will keep an old fat woman around because she's giving him the sex he needs.

I'm cynical though.

Maybe I was an easy option, available and became a habit.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I think it's the word 'afford'. It implies that sex is a currency.

That never really occured to me, it's just the way I always see it always put in the forums, and just irks me."

Though without a doubt some people do see sex as a currency, don't they.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"If she was a vogue model, maybe, but it would be fair to say she was no stranger to KFC and McDonald's."

... so fat girls shouldn't have preferences (or possibly just be in the middle of a conversation that was inappropriate to interrupt), and it's okay when pretty girls are rude?

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By *ackformore100Man 20 weeks ago

Tin town

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜

Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it.

No. All men really don't find all women attractive. Stop feeding this lazy trope.

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By *HUSH-Man 20 weeks ago

London

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜"

I’m the same in that someone is either attractive to me or they’re not. It’s frustrating though as it makes me difficult to read for others annd impossible to answer what “my type” is. I just like what I like.

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By *iss.BellaWoman 20 weeks ago

Wales

If by picky you mean choosing profiles that have some personality and pictures that aren't taken over the toilet, then yes.

A lot of men set the bar so low it's hard not to be picky 💁

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By *iss.BellaWoman 20 weeks ago

Wales

Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally.

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By *WB85Man 20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We can all be picky, I certainly am.

I guess it's how driven we are by our genitals.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

If there wasn't so much choice for women on here, would you meet someone that you wouldn't usually find attractive then?

I don't meet anyone but no.

But I know, I could meet someone way out of my league if I wanted to. Because as a female, I can on here.

I agree with this because I have, several times. However I don't know if that's more just insecurity on my part.

I'd hope there was mutual attraction even if I was surprised by it

I don't aim to punch above my weight. I just want to sleep with people I'm attracted to 💜

Fair play to the ladies I wouldn't call it punching up, men find all women attractive can't help it.

No. All men really don't find all women attractive. Stop feeding this lazy trope. "

I stand corrected, but I'm fairly sure there is something in all women that would appeal in a instant to most men if not all.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally."

Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS 20 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Anyone can be picky and anyone can be pricky if they don't match their criteria

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"We can all be picky, I certainly am.

I guess it's how driven we are by our genitals. "

You think if people are more driven by their genitalia then they are less picky? You could be right. A high driven genitals could at times cause bad decisions

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By *ife NinjaMan 20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally.

Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any. "

Your looking in the wrong place. I've seen some really 'orrible things on here 🤢

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

I actually agree with a lot of the comments from women on this thread, a lot of men take interest in anyone who shows interest, there are some (like myself) that really prefer a connection, an attraction that is not only physical but something beyond physical too, a personality attraction.

What I think I struggle with is because women get bombarded and by the nature of that can be ‘picky’ is trying to stand out from the crowd, guys who are ‘gym fit’ ‘hung’ ‘tattoed’ or whatever it is that visually attracts a lady is far easier to grab someone’s attention with just one image (if you have it) than an average sized cock, dad bod guy (who is a lovely person who people like….in person) but it’s impossible to stand out from the crowd when personalised messages don’t even get opened and deleted without profiles even being looked at because there isn’t an immediate visual “WOW”.

Just my opinion, but there it is x

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By *oodmessMan 20 weeks ago

yumsville

Being picky insinuates a comparison - that one is better than another, meets a standard or lives up to expectation. Finding something else to do v's finding someone attractive doesn't mean a thing unless they find you attractive, so why question it?

Whether it's looks, personality, lifestyle or all, if someone is going to sleep with you, it's on them choosing to as they found you attractive. This is either a look at me thread or a dig at women for their choices, I can't work out which. With so few women, you have to get past hubby for the most anyway, so who says it's the woman knocking anyone back.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

I pick wonko

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Ps I'm not saying their aren't women who set the bar pretty low too by the way. Everyone has a preference but you know bog pics don't do it for me personally.

Makes you wonder if there is such a thing as a lady bog pic selfie on fab, i know i havent seen any.

Your looking in the wrong place. I've seen some really 'orrible things on here 🤢"

Local updates up here often requires eye bleach. Including some images from non penis people.

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By *eedyBBWWoman 20 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Being in the club scene can really open your eyes to the concept of being "picky" and I think it is very hard to generalise that concept.

This is how I witness it and experience it (just to note that I exclusively go to interracial events with high numbers of single men in attendance.)

You get SOME women and men who will take their time browsing who is there and making connections and will only play/pick the ones who genuinely interest them.

You also get SOME women there who care less about attraction and want specific experiences so are not picky and take what is available.

You get SOME men who will throw themselves at anyone hoping that some will take notice and take them up on their lack luster offers.

Sometimes you'll see gorgeous looking men and women and then who they have played with and it does make you wonder why they haven't been "picky" but it comes down to the reasons WHY there are there and what experience they wish to experience.

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I agree with the op. Wouldn’t matter if there was 50,000 men or 5 men. I’d still be picky as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

Not for all of us, my Mrs does what she likes on here if she wants to meet it's her choice.

Was even inviting guys here when I'm away, but that's a bit much so it stopped, all the guys were sound no problems at all.

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By *ellhungvweMan 20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me.

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"Men can most definitely afford to be picky. I have a range of filters on my profile that screen out what I don’t want - thats me being picky. When I am chatting to people I am picky there as well - I block and move on if the convo isn’t doing it for me.

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

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By *hagTonightMan 20 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *ellhungvweMan 20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂"

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

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By *hagTonightMan 20 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

Yes, anyone can afford to be picky, however. I think that women have more interests lined up if they say no to one, than us guys who might have to wait a much longer time for the next match.

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing."

I’m not playing games, I’m just me, genuine decent bloke, if women aren’t interested in a nice guy then they’re not my type anyway, it’s just frustrating there are so few that are looking for a nice person rather than a nice object

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Yes, anyone can afford to be picky, however. I think that women have more interests lined up if they say no to one, than us guys who might have to wait a much longer time for the next match."

Isn't match a key word there?

Surely it's not a match if only one side is interested?

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

Fab is just one of those places you get to accept is filled with much tumble. Everyone is allowed (and should) to be picky.

Now and again for most of us though, the most amazing connection occurs and someone sets your bush alight.

Shouldn't be somewhere you hang your hat and hopes

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By *electableicecreamMan 20 weeks ago

The West

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

Nice is a pretty basic prerequisite

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

Nice guys don't push you against the wall and hold your throat.

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By *ellhungvweMan 20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

You misunderstand my use of the word game - if your approach is simply “I am a nice guy” then how are you going to differentiate yourself from the million other nice guys out there? I am a nice guy. All the men on the thread think they are nice guys. Good luck with that.

What do you actually want from the site and then how do you make sure that those who have what you want also want you? That’s what I mean by the game.

People have already assumed above that “hot” people are only after other “hot” people. That’s not how it works. Everyone wants something specific and size, looks, fitness are not the only things in town.

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

Nice guys don't push you against the wall and hold your throat. "

They most certainly do!!

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

As I said in my post above….your user name and title…WELL HUNG 9” is what gets you the attention, is average schmoes are the ones who struggle!! 😂

You have to play the game in the way that suits you.

Women are doing that. I am doing that. Everyone can do it but most men don’t even know what game they are playing.

What do you actually want from the site and then how do you make sure that those who have what you want also want you? That’s what I mean by the game.

It’s hard to reply anything to this type of thread that doesn’t come across as “woah is me” which then starts arguments and makes the whole thing pointless, I think it’s fair to say that everyone has something that someone else somewhere would want, the simple point I’m making is that it is EASIER for some, much like saying “money doesn’t make you happy” no, it really really doesn’t, but there’s a number of things having money makes easier in life and with that comes a certain amount of happiness.

Being ‘hung’ ‘vwe’ ‘gym fit’ ‘tattoed’ does not in itself bring all the women to your bed, but it certainly grabs a lot of their attention in order to give more of a chance. If you were a moron then without doubt they’d be ‘picky’ and reject you too, or at least some would, I’m simply saying as an ‘average’ guy it’s hard to get the initial attention in order to show what other traits I have that might be of interest.

Again, just my opinion, and I’m sure others will have different views (like yourself) as you’re coming from a different perspective, that does not make my view or your view more or less valid than one another’s, just different.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman 20 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that.

Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky.

I'll just stay home and have a wank.

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By *electableicecreamMan 20 weeks ago

The West

"Men

Being ‘hung’ ‘vwe’ ‘gym fit’ ‘tattoed’ does not in itself bring all the women to your bed, but it certainly grabs a lot of their attention in order to give more of a chance.

I'm none of those things and I do just fine.

I'll wager most of the men doing well on fab aren't either.

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after

See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that.

Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky.

I'll just stay home and have a wank.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after"

So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options.

And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter.

If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"I think the difference is women have a lot of choice on here, majority aren't what you want, but it's there.

Men not so much.

But everyone can be picky if they so wish.

See, this is the part I find irrelevant and a lot of guys can't seem to understand that.

Even if the pool was much smaller, it doesn't mean I would be less picky.

I'll just stay home and have a wank.

That isn't my point.

Men complain of women been picky. We can be even more so than normal as we have more choice. Not saying you would choose someone that isn't your type, more you'd "up" your type because you can.

Picky isn't the right word, but I know I can bang hotter guys on here than in normal life.

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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago

"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after

So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options.

And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter.

If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for."

But then Mr 9inches comes along and she ups her preferences, because she can.

More choice/less choice, to me it doesn't mean a woman will lower her preferences. But more choice you might up them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"But then Mr 9inches comes along and she ups her preferences, because she can.

More choice/less choice, to me it doesn't mean a woman will lower her preferences. But more choice you might up them. "

If there are too many good options and you need to choose between them, then taking the one that appeals most seems perfectly reasonable.

Gotta admit that is not a situation I picture happening often on here.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 20 weeks ago

Hell

I don’t think wanting to meet someone who matches your preferences should be thought of as being picky for either men or women

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By *endalshaggersCouple 20 weeks ago

Lake District

If I was on here a a single lady, yes I would be picky. I'm picky enough as it is.

Part of the problem is not only the huge disparity in numbers between men and women, it's also the amount of male profiles who think this site is very similar to that casual hookup app beginning with T and they don't need to put much effort in at all to get laid, and everyone who's on here is easy. Some of the stuff we recieve from the male half of a couple who clearly just wants me and me alone is quite eye opening so I'd hate to know what it's truly like for a single female profile on here.

C xoxo

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By *illy IdolMan 20 weeks ago

Midlands

Everyone has the right to be picky and I don't blame them. Do I see verifications where I think she's done well for herself there? All the time on here and fair bloody play to those ladies, I'd do the same.

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By *ealitybitesMan 20 weeks ago

Belfast

I've lost count of the number of times I've received opening messages from well verified couples telling me that men don't have choices on fab and can't really be too fussy about who they meet.

They then go on to give me a list of instructions I must carry out in order to meet them. The irony must be completely lost on them.

Not too fussy but you'll meet us???

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By *ib.Man 20 weeks ago

Hampshire

Yes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 20 weeks ago

Central

Everyone can afford to be picky and to follow their preferences. There's more sex in the world than achieved by fab. Step outside and meet others. There's some horrible posts here quite frequently, such as the one earlier this week, referring to 'fat women', who are too picky - inevitably because some undesirable man doesn't get his demands met.

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

Though I think it went over most people's heads

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

I just see someone jumping up and down...waving their arms ,shouting look at me

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By *enegadeMMan 20 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

everyone should be fussy…and not just settle for the sake of it.

Maybe the difference (and just a thought / opinion and by no means the outcome of endless hours of research development )

… is that for women and couples the sheer quantity of potential playmates who ‘fit the bill’ to a degree means that they have to spend their time finding out the ideal from that bunch..as well as dealing with the others who aren’t a match…. And some people perhaps don’t understand / appreciate that dynamic of ‘workload’ so feel that when it’s a no or a long time to respond … that they have somehow been rejected

Maybe for some guys / couples / women when there is a hint of interest then because it is rare to have them they allow it to develop more quickly than if they had more choice?

Or …maybe I just waffled a little because I was distracted by a bright thing in the sky

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I just see someone jumping up and down...waving their arms ,shouting look at me "

Who? Where?

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By *rsVixenMrStagCouple 20 weeks ago

North East

Exactly!

I won’t fuck anyone! Well…….

Luckily I have a lot of choices

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By *s-two-75Couple 20 weeks ago

Spot on…this. ^

Why would we want just any guy to all get intimate with

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I just see someone jumping up and down...waving their arms ,shouting look at me

Who? Where?"

I'm.assuming he means me lol

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By *dswingersCouple 20 weeks ago

chelmsford

yep but some men don’t understand that… had one the other day told him it’s a no from me but kept going on and on but i’ve got a 9in cock…. so what but you got a face like a smashed up car! do love the block feature (k) x

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By *allGuy1000Man 20 weeks ago

Reading

I couldn’t agree more you should never settle for second best not just here but with anything in life.

Fortunately, for you, ladies and probably gay men too. The vast number of single men profiles on here means unfortunately for a decent good looking guy you could still sometimes be overlooked and get lost in a sea of messages. Most of the women I’ve spoken to recently tell me that their inboxes are fit to burst every morning. Sadly not a problem I suffer with but a man can dream.

Have a great weekend all x

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By *melie LALWoman 20 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Yeah well she's only saying no because I'm one of hundreds of uninspiring penii in her inbox. If I was the only one she'd be desperate enough to tolerate my mediocrity.

No buddy. We'd just have ourselves a lady wank and enjoy the peace 💜

Absolutely, and no need to get the GHDs out beforehand

Well I would hope not, using ghds whilst lady wanking is a kink I haven't come across yet."

Not for the pubes

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman 20 weeks ago

Norwich

It’s all about choice… everyone can choose to be picky, but not everyone chooses to be

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"It’s all about choice… everyone can choose to be picky, but not everyone chooses to be

This is true

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By *ou only live onceMan 20 weeks ago

London

Everyone can choose to be picky.

But I guess it's also true that some people get to exercise that choice more often than others (if talking about receiving unsolicited approaches).

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

"
...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite "

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous "
....explain what it is exactly then...?

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?"

I would say it’s probably in response to all the threads about how easy it is for women on here and how they can have anyone they like and being called snobby/entitled/diva just for knowing and wanting what they want and saying it. Although I can’t speak for the op 🤷‍♀️

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?

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By *he Silver FuxMan 20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Picky is a relative term and depends on the pool you are picking from. Your profile states that you would only entertain meeting someone who actually resides in the area within 10 miles of you… no passers through, no holiday makers.. . I guarantee no man in the history of Fab has ever set such a restriction on who they would be willing to meet.

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?"
....are you seeking my approval .?

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .?"

Nope.

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .?

Nope. "
....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well.

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By *ora the explorerWoman 20 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .?

Nope. ....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well.

What are you going on about. I’ve said what I wanted to say. I’ve no time for petty back and forth crap.

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By *ot really famousMan 20 weeks ago

monaghan

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite

This isn’t man bashing. I hate man bashing threads and always say so on them. Don’t be ridiculous ....explain what it is exactly then...?

Ok. I shall rephrase. I don’t think this thread is man bashing. Better?....are you seeking my approval .?

Nope. ....in that case you might need to rephrase your last post as well.

What are you going on about. I’ve said what I wanted to say. I’ve no time for petty back and forth crap. "
....yet here you are...?

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"But….to highlight the point I’m making your profile specifically says 8” plus guys only…..that’s 100% your preference, but that’s very typical of what a LOT of the women here are after

So, the point of the thread is the claim that women here can afford to be picky because there are so many options.

And you're pointing out that someone has a specific preference or requirement, which most of the people on here won't meet. And I'm really not sure how that ties to the subject matter.

If someone says they don't want less than 8 inches, and there's a hundred messages from 7 and below in her inbox, she's still got zero that meet what she's looking for."

Lol….by very definition, having specific preferences is a form of being picky! I wasn’t having a go, your preference is your right 100%, merely an observation, and like I said in my previous post, it’s very hard to discuss this topic without people getting all uptight and arguing, it was just an observation, not a criticism

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By *ovebjsMan 20 weeks ago

Bristol

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite "

Well I've seen it in 2 ongoing threads at the moment so we obviously read different ones

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Sorry reply and quote isn't working for me at the moment. I'm not arguing with myself, more disagreeing with the statement I see time and time again in the forums.

...to be fair..it hasn't appeared in the forums in a while.

Can I suggest a different man bashing topic...lynx is always a favourite "

Oh and please explain where exactly am I man bashing? Maybe I missed that bit?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please"

No, no, no, no, no, no, no….feel better for getting that out my system, hopefully I get someone to say yes to soon too 🤪😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please"

Plenty of men say no to the unwanted penii in their inbox regularly too 💜

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please

Plenty of men say no to the unwanted penii in their inbox regularly too 💜"

Good point , I never really thought about that

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By *vaRose43Woman 20 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m not so desperate to lower my standards just for a fuck, I’d hope the people I meet feel the same

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 20 weeks ago

Chichester

"I’m not so desperate to lower my standards just for a fuck, I’d hope the people I meet feel the same "

Yeah but just what if you would be given a life time supply of haribo starmix

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman 20 weeks ago

"I’m not so desperate to lower my standards just for a fuck, I’d hope the people I meet feel the same "

Would that change if there was less men on here to choose from? Personally it wouldn't for me. Which is kind of the point I'm trying to make.

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By *easeme13Man 20 weeks ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"Surely anyone can afford to be picky. Whether there's 10000 or 5 men on here I will be just as picky. I would rather stay at home and do the ironing than have sex with someone i dont find attractive

By default men outnumber woman so yes they can, it’s a buyers market

Men can afford to be just as picky though, no one's forcing them to have sex with anyone, they can say no whenever they please

Plenty of men say no to the unwanted penii in their inbox regularly too 💜"

This is very true, always confused by guys sending straight guys pics and messages!!