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By *onno591 OP Man 16 weeks ago
Brighton |
So I was chatting with a couple that live locally to me. They seemed lovely and we talked about a social. Through further chats on fab it became apparent that local meant literally 200ft away. Benefit being not far to walk but it just felt to close…..
I emailed them and said that I loved our chats but this close just felt too close but let’s keep in touch. They responded by calling me a weirdo and blocking me… does that sound justified? |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Nah, doesn't sound justified at all. Loads of people don't like to meet on their own doorstep, as it were, for much the same reasons as you.
Then again, everyone has a different notion of what is weird and what constitutes oddness. Usually people with very narrow mindsets |
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I wouldn't have met with people that close away either. Also uncalled for to call you a weirdo, you had it right to be cautious.
Sadly a lot of people on here can be vile when they can't handle rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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People only usually show their true colours when you tell them something they don't want to hear, sounds like you've had a lucky escape. Keep hold of your boundaries and make no apologies for it. |
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Agree with what's been said already.
I'm the same - I don't want to pop my head out of the front door to be met with someone on here. I like some degree of privacy and discretion!
People react in different ways to rejection (god knows we single women have dealt with a whole spectrum of responses), so it's best to just shrug your shoulders, remember it's them - not you - and forget all about it. Don't forget to block them back though! 😂 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago
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I won't meet anyone on my village and I think long and hard about the nearest town as well. 70m away? Forget it! I don't crap on my doorstep, either.
So they think you're a weirdo - like arsehiles, everyone's got opinions.
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By *uzzleMan 16 weeks ago
Hastings |
Either the pussy was power playing and as you showed not compliance, they got all offended and called it off.
Alternatively, as others have said, maybe it was just a guy pretending to be part of a couple? |
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