"There were a series of threads that went on for a couple of months a couple of years ago. They got moved to swinging support and advice, for some reason, and gradually petered out. Shame, really."
I think the last one showed around a month ago, Nell.
They become like a register of those of us on various ND spectra, more than what a separate forum sub-category could achieve. If we had this, it would highlight a permanent welcome to anyone who might find things tougher, at times. |
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By *airybox OP Man 8 weeks ago
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This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other |
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"This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other "
As Mrs TMN hinted at, there are loads of us here in the Lounge. You'd just not necessarily know it. I often get chatting in DM's to people I click with, only to find out that they're ND too. |
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"This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other "
Aren't there more specialised forums to help you come to terms with stuff? |
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"This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other
Aren't there more specialised forums to help you come to terms with stuff?"
Anecdotally there’s a huge crossover between nd folk and those who are ENM or poly, so it’s actually an excellent place to start  |
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"This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other
Aren't there more specialised forums to help you come to terms with stuff?"
I think the idea is that many of us know ourselves and don't mostly need ND support forums etc but, as this is a swinging environment, we'd be able to support and share about our experiences and challenges, that are pertinent here, unlike anywhere else. |
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By *airybox OP Man 8 weeks ago
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"This is what I’m thinking
I realise I am too much for some people well most people but
If we had a place of our own, it would serve as a welcome to those struggling to come to terms with stuff and we could all try and help each other
Aren't there more specialised forums to help you come to terms with stuff?
I think the idea is that many of us know ourselves and don't mostly need ND support forums etc but, as this is a swinging environment, we'd be able to support and share about our experiences and challenges, that are pertinent here, unlike anywhere else. "
Do you know that’s a really good reasoned argument against it? I had never thought of things that way. |
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