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I've noticed for a while now women or trans women constantly begging for fabs, to get higher up the hotlist. Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid.
Are these people going against the spirit of the site, or is the Hotlist an important part of it?
I look at the hotlist sometimes and I do fab pics or vids if I like them. I never fab anything where someone's begged for it. Am I wrong in my thinking, or am I over thinking it?  |
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You're overthinking it.
Let them do their thing. They're not doing you any harm. It really doesn't matter to you if that's how they seek validation. You can simply choose not to engage and move along. |
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"You're overthinking it.
Let them do their thing. They're not doing you any harm. It really doesn't matter to you if that's how they seek validation. You can simply choose not to engage and move along."
Totally agree
You do you boo is the best way to look at life if it doesn't hurt anyone leave it be |
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"You're overthinking it.
Let them do their thing. They're not doing you any harm. It really doesn't matter to you if that's how they seek validation. You can simply choose not to engage and move along."
Maybe I am. I do just scroll by, I just noticed it a lot lately. Yeah, maybe they need the validation in some way. I suppose we all do really. |
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"You're overthinking it.
Let them do their thing. They're not doing you any harm. It really doesn't matter to you if that's how they seek validation. You can simply choose not to engage and move along.
Totally agree
You do you boo is the best way to look at life if it doesn't hurt anyone leave it be "
I do leave it be. Just wondered what others thought. |
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"I’m not sure why they do it. Maybe there’s some kind of payoff - perhaps they have profiles on other sites. They tend not to be the sort of pics that interest me anyway."
Not sure if there is a prize from Fabs for being top. Maybe there around be to make it worthwhile. |
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"I've noticed for a while now women or trans women constantly begging for fabs, to get higher up the hotlist. Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid.
Are these people going against the spirit of the site, or is the Hotlist an important part of it?
I look at the hotlist sometimes and I do fab pics or vids if I like them. I never fab anything where someone's begged for it. Am I wrong in my thinking, or am I over thinking it? "
Nah mate, I don't think you're overthinking it. I agree with you. For many, it's an ego boost along the same lines as Instagram followers. I've definitely noticed tonnes of profiles of people begging for fabs. This site is full of them. Also full of esc0rts, OnlyFans users and fakes. I've even noticed about 4 or 5 women in my area who are creating a new profile every couple of days. What are they doing to get their accounts deleted, or are they deleting it themselves. Strange behaviour |
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"I've noticed for a while..."
Don't concern yourself.
"women or trans women constantly begging for fabs"
Let them indulge and wallow in their hubris.
"...to get higher up the hotlist."
Fab'ing a photo has no affect on someone's Høtlïst.
"Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid."
I've never seen this.
"Are these people going against the spirit of the site"
Nø, not at all. Quite the opposite.
"or is the Hotlist an important part of it?"
Fab'ing a photo is extraneous to a Høtlïst.
"or am I over thinking it?"
Yes. 🩶 |
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This site has changed a lot over the years and I do agree constantly see the "fab me fab me" brigade but like others have said I completely ignore those and confirms to me they wouldn't be people i'd choose to meet or build friendships with as far too needy, but each to their own. If we was all the same the world would be a very boring place  |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
It happens.
The easiest solution if it irks anyone is to not look at the hot pics section.
I mean.....the Internet is full of photos of naked people and there's a fair bit of porn out there for anyone looking for visual stimulation.
Given the fact some photos get tens of thousands of fabs does anyone honestly believe that by giving one, it actually boosts your chances of meeting them? Because if so, I have a bridge to sell you. 😉 |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I use fabs as a tool to look at who finds me attractive without them ruining it for themselves with a ‘come here and bend over’ message so me personally I think it benefits both it’s not my fault how many fabs it gets… |
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By *otsossieMan 6 weeks ago
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Anyone puts up hot pics then I’ll happily fab them.
Might be the pic itself or the content.
No problems with this at all.
What I do have a problem with is folk begging for memberships etc in profile statuses. |
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I just enjoy putting silly catch phrases on pics now and then , it often generates lots of comical interaction. (Positive and negative )
One of the funniest ones was my “fab if you’d ride the tranny taxi “. I got so much messages from different types of people commenting it made them chuckle and was funny to see it at hotspot over a weekend for a change instead of the usual set of women .
I put a simple tag up last week on a pic (I’m the daddy now “ again similar thing lots of messaging with comical comments.
I Like to think most do it like me for amusement mixed in around posting untagged photos. If you was doing it every picture it’s probably abit weird
Yes to paid hoes / OF / models though the hot pages often are looking likely 70% creators but as long no one is promoting it directly it’s irrelevant, just enjoy the tits / ass / cunt / cock for free. Often as well you can use a slogan / tag to see if it will be popular to use elsewhere outside so fab is also used on that front to test out
I would have thought most swingers are too busy actually swinging to worry about the hot pics on a sex site though tbh 
There is far worse pics on here than some silly tagging |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I just enjoy putting silly catch phrases on pics now and then , it often generates lots of comical interaction. (Positive and negative )
One of the funniest ones was my “fab if you’d ride the tranny taxi “. I got so much messages from different types of people commenting it made them chuckle and was funny to see it at hotspot over a weekend for a change instead of the usual set of women .
I put a simple tag up last week on a pic (I’m the daddy now “ again similar thing lots of messaging with comical comments.
I Like to think most do it like me for amusement mixed in around posting untagged photos. If you was doing it every picture it’s probably abit weird
Yes to paid hoes / OF / models though the hot pages often are looking likely 70% creators but as long no one is promoting it directly it’s irrelevant, just enjoy the tits / ass / cunt / cock for free. Often as well you can use a slogan / tag to see if it will be popular to use elsewhere outside so fab is also used on that front to test out
I would have thought most swingers are too busy actually swinging to worry about the hot pics on a sex site though tbh
There is far worse pics on here than some silly tagging "
I may start adding random 'fab if you...' comments to my photos now.
"Fab if you like cheese"
"Fab if you stick lego up your bum"
'Fab if you think Joker 2 is a great movie"
*maybe not that last one. Would be counter productive.......🤦♂️🤦♂️ |
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"I just enjoy putting silly catch phrases on pics now and then , it often generates lots of comical interaction. (Positive and negative )
One of the funniest ones was my “fab if you’d ride the tranny taxi “. I got so much messages from different types of people commenting it made them chuckle and was funny to see it at hotspot over a weekend for a change instead of the usual set of women .
I put a simple tag up last week on a pic (I’m the daddy now “ again similar thing lots of messaging with comical comments.
I Like to think most do it like me for amusement mixed in around posting untagged photos. If you was doing it every picture it’s probably abit weird
Yes to paid hoes / OF / models though the hot pages often are looking likely 70% creators but as long no one is promoting it directly it’s irrelevant, just enjoy the tits / ass / cunt / cock for free. Often as well you can use a slogan / tag to see if it will be popular to use elsewhere outside so fab is also used on that front to test out
I would have thought most swingers are too busy actually swinging to worry about the hot pics on a sex site though tbh
There is far worse pics on here than some silly tagging
I may start adding random 'fab if you...' comments to my photos now.
"Fab if you like cheese"
"Fab if you stick lego up your bum"
'Fab if you think Joker 2 is a great movie"
*maybe not that last one. Would be counter productive.......🤦♂️🤦♂️"
Hey man. Give it a whirl why not. You only live once nothing to lose |
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By *ornycougaWoman 6 weeks ago
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Let it go OP. As others have said, there are more important things in life to get riled about. I guess the increase may be because it appears to work. But if a woman caption "Fab to fuck me" isn't it on the numb nuts who Fab it rather than the woman? Some of these women post on a daily basis and get 10k+ Fabs a pic so do the maths and go figure boys - you aren't getting laid! |
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"I used to pay attention to those who liked my photos or texted something related to my bio because it meant they took the time to check my profile. I get hundreds of messages saying “Hi gorgeous I like your pics” but if they don't Fab any, for sure are random fishing msg mostly. Men here used to bombard us with copy-pasting messages to every woman online. Besides that, If you post a photo is nice to get a like tbh. "
But I'm not going to beg for Fabs. Oh no  |
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Fab for a slice of lemon drizzle cake.
Only joking (I hardly ever share my lemon drizzle).
Seriously though, if it makes people happy to get onto page 1 then go for it. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest. |
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"I've noticed for a while now women or trans women constantly begging for fabs, to get higher up the hotlist. Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid.
Are these people going against the spirit of the site, or is the Hotlist an important part of it?
I look at the hotlist sometimes and I do fab pics or vids if I like them. I never fab anything where someone's begged for it. Am I wrong in my thinking, or am I over thinking it? "
I use the same approach as I do with ebay and Amazon, if you ask for a 5 star review you get no review. If you ask for a review you get an honest one. If you say we'll refund you if you give us 5* review I report you. |
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"You're overthinking it.
Let them do their thing. They're not doing you any harm. It really doesn't matter to you if that's how they seek validation. You can simply choose not to engage and move along."
Why? It's called an opinion, everyone has them |
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"Fab me for a chance to win some of my minstrels.
Now if fab the fuck out of this, then when I lose I’ll be sad, and John do you really want to make me sad, well do ya John do ya ?
The mr "
I could rig the draw for ya babe.  |
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By *8on33Man 6 weeks ago
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"I used to pay attention to those who liked my photos or texted something related to my bio because it meant they took the time to check my profile. I get hundreds of messages saying “Hi gorgeous I like your pics” but if they don't Fab any, for sure are random fishing msg mostly. Men here used to bombard us with copy-pasting messages to every woman online. Besides that, If you post a photo is nice to get a like tbh.
But I'm not going to beg for Fabs. Oh no "
Cmon just one . |
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"Fab me for a chance to win some of my minstrels.
Now if fab the fuck out of this, then when I lose I’ll be sad, and John do you really want to make me sad, well do ya John do ya ?
The mr
I could rig the draw for ya babe. "
In that case I’ve fabbed away darling 🧐
The mr |
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"I used to pay attention to those who liked my photos or texted something related to my bio because it meant they took the time to check my profile. I get hundreds of messages saying “Hi gorgeous I like your pics” but if they don't Fab any, for sure are random fishing msg mostly. Men here used to bombard us with copy-pasting messages to every woman online. Besides that, If you post a photo is nice to get a like tbh.
But I'm not going to beg for Fabs. Oh no Cmon just one ."
Ok. Fab for a fuck. Happy now |
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I don't think it's about the site, it's about theirselves. Some people get a great sense of confidence, ego boost and validation from fabs so it probably gets addictive after a while. Whatever the reason, let people do them and you do you. |
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Maybe they’re all in competition with each other to see who gets the most. Don’t know really. I find it all a bit sad but to each their own as they say. It’s years since I looked at hot pics. They all seemed filtered back then, I imagine they’re worse now. |
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"We have always wondered if there is a secret in getting into the 000s as we have seen some incredible pictures sitting in the 00s"
no its just about simply about organic growth if you get a pic on the main page pretty much it just feeds itself in a cycle over 24hours ...
I am trans and have been on the number 1 spot prob over 20 times in 2 years , which considering we are quite disliked on this site in forums / in society is pretty impressive a trans gets to number 1 .. I have looked at different metrics of posting times/days / types of pics etc and why some blow up and some dont ... it is often initially random but the common aspect was once you are on the main page it pretty much just feeds itself ..
then people just put users on hot lists I guess if they like pics ,m which lets be honest here 80% of the site are lurkers and just wanking off over pics .. so its not hard to see how the same people stay there tbh ..
The whole like/fab if xyz pretty much comes from OF/Reddit/Twitter where creators use slogans to drive interaction .. as so many of the pic posters here are also on Twitter/Reddit/OF it just follows suit ..and if someone does it then others follow ..
Its just fab no one really cares to be honest , we are just on a sex based site basically and people want to get attention for either meets /camming/ self confidence / comedy value etc being on hot pics makes your inbox melt that is a given .
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I've noticed for a while now women or trans women constantly begging for fabs, to get higher up the hotlist. Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid.
Are these people going against the spirit of the site, or is the Hotlist an important part of it?
I look at the hotlist sometimes and I do fab pics or vids if I like them. I never fab anything where someone's begged for it. Am I wrong in my thinking, or am I over thinking it? "
I'm: 'unfabbable'. 
Maybe you should be too if you don't believe in it so strongly? |
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By *MCMan 6 weeks ago
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I find it quite comical, people are so desperate for validation from strangers they probably wouldn’t even consider speaking to if they crossed paths in the streets.
Each to their own though.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 6 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"Quite a few different point of views, which is good.
In summary, each to their own. Like anything really. "
Exactly.
Oh, and on an unrelated note, if you would care to fab my latest pics, I will blow you...
...a personalised kiss from behind my keyboard. Thank you for your attention.
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"I've noticed for a while now women or trans women constantly begging for fabs, to get higher up the hotlist. Often they make out that you have a chance of a meet if you fab their latest pic or vid.
Are these people going against the spirit of the site, or is the Hotlist an important part of it?
I look at the hotlist sometimes and I do fab pics or vids if I like them. I never fab anything where someone's begged for it. Am I wrong in my thinking, or am I over thinking it? "
I only Fab to those that beg for it. When they are kneeling between my legs, my fist entwined in their hair.
"Fab me Foxy and I'll be your filthy whore for life"
Usually I don't want that level of commitment but would be happy to Fab for that. |
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People are fairly generous in their abilities to signal themselves as matching you or not here. And, with so much choice, it's ideal to just skip past those who don't. Their behaviour is the clearest sign that they have, to scream out that you don't have need of them in your life. Don't fab or communicate, if you're not out going to engage further. Let people use the site in their own ways, within site rules - you'll never get most people to conform to your own standards. |
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"Quite a few different point of views, which is good.
In summary, each to their own. Like anything really.
Exactly.
Oh, and on an unrelated note, if you would care to fab my latest pics, I will blow you...
...a personalised kiss from behind my keyboard. Thank you for your attention.
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Done |
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"People are fairly generous in their abilities to signal themselves as matching you or not here. And, with so much choice, it's ideal to just skip past those who don't. Their behaviour is the clearest sign that they have, to scream out that you don't have need of them in your life. Don't fab or communicate, if you're not out going to engage further. Let people use the site in their own ways, within site rules - you'll never get most people to conform to your own standards. "
That is very well put and thank you. I've always thought of myself as non judgemental, but here I am judging people for the way they use this site.
I have learnt something x |
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"Fab if you want a bowl of cornflakes
Whole milk on offer a a light dusting of sugar  "
Amazing I've missed breakfast crash on the motorway. So if I fab one of your pics, you'll deliver me a bowl to my desk? |
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"Fab if you want a bowl of cornflakes
Whole milk on offer a a light dusting of sugar
Amazing I've missed breakfast crash on the motorway. So if I fab one of your pics, you'll deliver me a bowl to my desk? "
On my way |
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