As a woman who settled down young I have found myself stuck in the mundane part of my life, and although I don’t regret my choices, I am missing something.
Wow factor.
I want to meet someone who makes me go wow, that I am stunned by my attraction to them, and for them to also be attracted to me physically.
I want all that lust and excitement and sizzle but I’m just not finding it. I’m bored of having men be excited by my personality first and then wanting my body as a second.
Am I over the hill? Any advice?
Does it just not exist once you’re over a certain age? |
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I met a friend a few years ago and it was instant attraction
Electric i would say from both of us.
She was 47 i was 51 at the time so age is not a factor.
Good luck i hope you find it as our horizons have expanded immensely |
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You're 37?! Hardly over the hill.
If people aren't making you get that excited feeling then maybe look into why, could it be you? Maybe your expecting too much? Not enough? Are you still in a dull home life and playing away is guilt part of that?
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By *hilloutMan 8 weeks ago
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Perhaps you just haven't come across the right person Op?
It can be a matter of circumstance crossing paths with someone where the wow effect can be mutual.
I've recently experienced this, and yes, it is glorious.
Here's hoping you come across something similar  |
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I'll just tell you the truth.
You hit a certain age and things change.
It really depends what you are looking for.
If you want a man to just lust after you then yeah, you'll find that but how much chasing do you want them to put in? Most men, not all, wise up as they get older and will only put so much effort in. Why chase what appears to not want to be caught sort of thing.
Personally I enjoy putting the effort into seducing a woman and happen to have a wife who encourages me to do it to other women as well (because thats our dynamic)..but because I'm married and been doing this for years I know who is worth investing my.energy into and who isn't just from experiance. By that I mean I've learnt to not be strung along and not be playing games.
And it's fair to say some.women just like male attention for the sake of it. I'm.not accusing you of anything there by the way. Its just a reality. So I learnt a long time ago to just give my attention to the ones lusting after me and not the other way around.
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By *jk1978Couple 8 weeks ago
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We have been together 25 years and every day I have that wow factor for k, feel lucky she’s in my life she’s beautiful sexy funny loving kind caring super intelligent woman (they say opposites attract) lol but you can find someone who thinks like that about you too  |
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"You're 37?! Hardly over the hill.
If people aren't making you get that excited feeling then maybe look into why, could it be you? Maybe your expecting too much? Not enough? Are you still in a dull home life and playing away is guilt part of that?
Mrs "
I am happily married and play only with permission.
I haven’t met in afew years for a variety of reasons, including young children.
I have no guilt about playing when I play because I’m totally honest with everyone about what I want and what I’m looking for.
Maybe it’s because i have been out of the game for a while. |
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