"Never understand why people make an 'Interest List' on their profile and yet have no interest in wanting to do that particular activity ...surely thats why there is a search on here...pointless"
They might just not be interested in you. Much as they could have all boxes tick and look a dream of a meet, you still have to be someone they'd like to meet in the first place... much as you likely wouldn't shag someone you wasn't attracted to just as they had something ticked. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 8 weeks ago
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"Never understand why people make an 'Interest List' on their profile and yet have no interest in wanting to do that particular activity ...surely thats why there is a search on here...pointless"
I wiped most of the interests from my profile.
I have many. I just would never want to do them all with anyone and everyone. Sometimes people assume that because something is there it's definitely on the cards for every meet.
It's definitely not. |
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Probably few of us ever amend our lists, even if something has happened that's made us adjust our interest. Perhaps some of them I'll die without ever trying and knowing if I like it. OP needs to understand that we all generally have different types of engagement with people, including LTR, fbs, one off and a profile is a very basic overview.
We're not like sex partners in the Argos catalogue, with a list of features, that you can order and return, if not functional |
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