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By *bi HaiveMan 15 weeks ago
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The whole package.
No one part is more important than another.
Could have great photos but shockingly bad text.
Could seem the ideal, perfectly compatible company until you read the veris.
Could sound good and exactly what you're searching for, til you look past the one good photo they use as a profile pic and get put off by the rest.
Big picture. Not small snapshot. 😉 |
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Generally, I think everyone has a look at photos and videos.
We're more inclined and interested in profiles where someone's bio is clear, but leaves a little intrigue, they seem to be semi active on here, and their photos aren't either cropped beyond belief or blurred/emoji's slapped all over. |
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Photos. I’m looking for effort and some thought put into them, rather than a physical type. Status can be a turn off or on. Bio again looking for some effort doesn’t have to be ideal but do want a sense of personality. I don’t put much stock in veris really. I don’t much do veris myself so don’t need them from other’s profiles. |
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"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more "
It depends what the veris are like. Mostly social is fine. Mostly praising their sexual prowess puts me right off, I know I wouldn't live up to their track record |
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"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more
It depends what the veris are like. Mostly social is fine. Mostly praising their sexual prowess puts me right off, I know I wouldn't live up to their track record "
I’m the in the same mindset. You can tell a lot about people from them even the language they use etc |
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"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more "
Puts me off. Different if they’re social veris but I wouldn’t be bothered reading them all so I’d move on usually. |
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"When they have a high amount of veris does it put you off or entices you in more
Define high?
Someone with 100+ that's been here a decade hasn't actually been that active. 🤷♂️"
Yeah what 1 person thinks is high another doesn’t. High for me is isn’t a number more a sense of we are not suited |
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Bit of everything for me, obviously we are all searching for our own thing.
But I like to have a read at what is in the actual free text, for me if there is some comedy in there I get the urge to think of a way to reach out to them (if I am within the parameters of what they are looking for of course!). I also send a polite message to people who have been creative with their pics, or their profile text just to acknowledge the time that they have taken to create a good profile.
What I have started to notice a lot of over the last month or so, is how many Internet stock pictures and videos there are on here. I struggle to understand how people get verified so they are able to post videos when the profile is clearly fake? |
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"What is the first thing of a profile that interests you..."
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Her opening message, quite often. And, more often than not, women do send some respectable messages.
The exception being when they send photos of their vaginas. Then it's an instant delete. |
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Location first as if they're miles away I'd delete.
There has to be some effort in their bio, so I can get a idea of them and some tasteful pics too.
If I don't like the above, I just delete.
Then I look at their verifications, to see what type of people they seem to meet. |
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