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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
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They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
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"Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one.
Eastbourne is lovely aswell
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Regrettably, my comment was a poorly received attempt at humour. I thought I had some. I realise now, that I do not. Lesson learned. What about Shoreham? Shoreham can fuck off. |
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
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Make things up ?
Lies you mean ?
Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ? |
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"Sorry to hear that. I always stand up for folk from Brighton. Eastbourne can go do one.
Eastbourne is lovely aswell
Regrettably, my comment was a poorly received attempt at humour. I thought I had some. I realise now, that I do not. Lesson learned. What about Shoreham? Shoreham can fuck off. "
Im sure Shoreham people are also nice lol |
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Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x |
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' .... "
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄 |
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
Make things up ?
Lies you mean ?
Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?"
Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.
If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.
Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid. |
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"Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x "
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"Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x "
That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it? |
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"Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x
That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it? "
Yes !!! Damn right |
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
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If you “just ask” people will “just say”
Some people will try to make you feel small, but ultimately your feelings are your own.
90% of the folk on forums are supportive. Some are brutally honest - but supportive with it.
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"Marigolds, yes.
I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that
I mainly use them for amateur proctology.
I did my daughters wedding photos ... cheaper"
For an anal insertion? |
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"Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x
That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it?
Yes !!! Damn right "
Oooops! Sorry, wrong person!  I’ll keep you in mind though.  |
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"Marigolds, yes.
I wasn't sure. Aren't they a little short at the wrist ? Hot water seepage n all that
I mainly use them for amateur proctology.
I did my daughters wedding photos ... cheaper
For an anal insertion? "
Sometimes you have to accept the arsehole into the family ... |
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"Tom.
That can't be easy to deal with, the stroke , the recovery and loss of functions.... xx
Good on you for being up front and on here.
Best of luck with everything ....
Now have a good time n join in x
That reminds me, if I send you a rubber glove into which one of fingers has been filled and ‘used’ will you turn it inside out and video yourself thrwacking off with it?
Yes !!! Damn right
Oooops! Sorry, wrong person! I’ll keep you in mind though. "
Pfffft .... I only said yes to salve your ego ....... Tart ..... |
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄"
No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions
Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄
No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions
Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄
No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions
Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong
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So what posts are there that don’t ask a question or seek an opinion? |
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄
No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions
Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong
So what posts are there that don’t ask a question or seek an opinion?"
The ones that say ‘Brighton Steve has a huge cock. FACT.’
No opinion. No argument. No questions. |
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
Make things up ?
Lies you mean ?
Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?
Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.
If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.
Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid. "
Lol your funny
Married for 27 years
Swingers for 20 years
Dyslexic and very very much genuine
Feel free pm for proff |
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So this profile you’re using to reply to which is set up as a couples account refers to a couples account you have with your wife and she has a single account
So why is this one a couples account or do you have multiple accounts? |
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
Make things up ?
Lies you mean ?
Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?
Yep exactly, like the fact you are a couple… clearly a made up lie.
If the profile is based on a lie then it’s difficult to believe anything else.
Obviously I would have sympathy for anyone genuine who had a stroke, I just don’t believe anything you say I’m afraid.
Lol your funny
Married for 27 years
Swingers for 20 years
Dyslexic and very very much genuine
Feel free pm for proff"
Doesn’t even warrant a reply! But here you go….
Sad little man you are! |
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"So this profile you’re using to reply to which is set up as a couples account refers to a couples account you have with your wife and she has a single account
So why is this one a couples account or do you have multiple accounts?"
Have a look at the other threads he has posted.
You will the answer to your question is.. because he’s full of shit! |
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"The green arrow suggests that you simply disagree with some opinions, and you’re calling it ‘being judgemental’.
Sort of like opinions being called 'kink shaming' ....
This always happens. Folk ask for opinions on something they do and if yours doesn’t match theirs you’re kink shaming 🤣🙄
No i think opinions are great on post that asks for people opinions
Its another thing when no one asks or if someone spells something wrong
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That’s what I said  |
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It's Catch 22 for you OP. Bit of a SNAFU really.
If you had posted this from a single male account you can be rest assured the roasting would have been because, you being married, should have posted from a couples account.
For what it's worth I think your approach hasn't helped your case.
Your disability isn't what defines you and sympathy for strangers with unclear origins on fab is in short supply. As you can see for yourself there is no mercy for a story with holes in it.
Maybe come back another day and try to make some friends based on who, not what, you are.
Start fresh with a new account and a few photos. Join in the forum threads and you might find people who like you for you. |
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The forum is a small part of Fab, which is a fully opposite that anyone and everyone can and does join. People are drawn here for all kinds of reasons and none of us will be very compatible with most others. Like much on the internet, the anonymity of keyboard warriors can be seen. People must adhere to acceptable behaviour here. Abuse and bullying, for example, would not be in any way acceptable.
We do need to have thick skins to be here, as it can be very tough, for many reasons, away from unacceptable behaviour. Sometimes there are going to be opinions that are uncomfortable to hear.
Ultimately, we each have to determine whether Fab is the right place for ourselves - it will not be for everyone.
In the meantime, it's important that we all call out inappropriate behaviour in Fab, reporting it to Admin. |
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By *tan300Man 15 weeks ago
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"Why do so many people in this forums feel there should "just say" and try to make you small
They don’t, most people in the forums are very kind and supportive, it’s just a shame people like you try to take advantage of the nice people on here.
We can see your previous threads and can also see there is a theme of making things up and going for the sympathy.
Just one example
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1578514
Make things up ?
Lies you mean ?
Sympathy ? I had a stroke and my cock doesn't work "please please give me Sympathy" do you mean ?"
That’s made me all paranoid now cos I put something up earlier about some stuff that’s happens to me over past few years I hope people don’t think it was a sympathy thing because it really wasn’t |
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"If you ask a question you are opening it up to different opinions
Opinions are like arseholes, most people have them
If they differ to yours or mine does that make them judgmental?"
It's the internet. There is differing opinions and then there are the arseholes spouting differing ooinions.
Some people are judgemental dickheads because they can be online. There's no repercussion unless they break the site rules.
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"The trick is to be judged and not give a fuck about it
Caring about the judgement of others online is just so draining
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This! The day I get upset about what a bunch of strangers think about what I do and don’t do is the day I need to take a long hard look at myself. |
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By *a LunaWoman 15 weeks ago
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I wouldn’t take it personally OP. A lot of folk on here like to show off their sharp wit and sometimes it’s at the expense of others, unintentionally maybe but sometimes it smarts.
If you want support or advice pertaining to swinging, there is a support and advice section of the forums where ears may be more sympathetic.
However, if you just want to offload your thoughts and feelings then of course the The Lounge is an option, but just remember you’ll need a thick skin!
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Lots and lots of decent people on here and fun to be with in the forums. Caring people too. You get to know those after a while. There are of course a few full of their own importance or behaving with very little integrity but then they are such people everywhere. There are tools to mostly avoid those and as many have said best be ignored anyway or reported if abusive to anyone  |
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