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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like. |
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Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?
Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.
And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.
Why is it harsh? |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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That's why for me a mental connection is needed , body type is body type but the mind ...oooohhh the mind ..now that's a different thing altogether..if both rock it..🚀🚀 😈😈😈 |
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By *sWyldWoman 15 weeks ago
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For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.
However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! |
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"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.
However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "
I'm not a super attractive gym fit type, but I reckon I know the answer to that question...  |
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"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.
However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "
For the answer to your second paragraph see your first paragraph  |
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"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?
Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.
And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.
Why is it harsh?"
I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.
And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh. |
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"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?
Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.
And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.
Why is it harsh?
I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.
And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh. "
I think it bothers me more when some gym fit adonis is seen as being charitable by fucking a fat bird. Even though it's simply the body type he's attracted to.
Why is it fair to be shocked by? It's sort of a weird idea that just because people have similar body types they should be into one another. Same for skin tones. If someone gets a bad haircut are they required to stop liking people with good haircuts?
Just because I'm a big old narcissist who finds little hotter than fellow pale as fuck fat bottomed Amazons in fishnets doesn't mean I expect other people to be the same way. |
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"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.
However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "
Oooof absolutely relate to this! |
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"Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like. "
Don’t listen to her making derogatory comments about your belly, you’re bigger than that |
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"Last week I commented on a forum that was “Controversial Opinions” My opinion was some BBW’s preferring skinny men. It’s something I’ve never understood until a recent message in my inbox. She said “There’s no point both of us being big, both our bellies will get in the way”. Fair point I guess, still a bit harsh though. I guess we like what we like.
Don’t listen to her making derogatory comments about your belly, you’re bigger than that "
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I admit to liking all body types and previously finding it strange that people didn’t find body types similar to their own attractive. All that’s changed is, I simply don’t care anymore what they find attractive or not. Do I think there’s reasons we don’t like fat bodies or see them as desirable, even if we ourselves are fat? Yes. Do I care to have that debate? No.
If you think I’m too fat for you, we’re a bad match for many reasons. |
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"Are we only allowed to like the same body type that we have ourselves?
Fuck knows where I'm supposed to find a man with a 24inch waist to a 44inch arse.
And I'm not sure that would work on a masculine body anyway.
Why is it harsh?
I think it’s more the shock that people might not find a similar body type attractive or desirable which on the surface is fair to be shocked by.
And I think it was seen as harsh because she’s saying he’s fat? And that’s the reason that she’s rejecting him? I can see why someone might find that harsh.
I think it bothers me more when some gym fit adonis is seen as being charitable by fucking a fat bird. Even though it's simply the body type he's attracted to.
Why is it fair to be shocked by? It's sort of a weird idea that just because people have similar body types they should be into one another. Same for skin tones. If someone gets a bad haircut are they required to stop liking people with good haircuts?
Just because I'm a big old narcissist who finds little hotter than fellow pale as fuck fat bottomed Amazons in fishnets doesn't mean I expect other people to be the same way."
I think the shock is that, for some, I think not liking body types similar to your own (on the surface) feels like not liking your own or not seeing beauty or desirability in it. I’m not saying that’s the case but I think I’m not going to get mad at that surface level assumption. Especially not if someone says ‘fair enough though’.
On the skin tone thing I dunno. There’s plenty of debates amongst Black people though about not finding other Black people attractive. These conversations are a thing. They happen. So like I said, I’m not shocked |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Myself and my wife are both big belly havers and many people who have had sex with us also had big bellies and not a single time has two big bellies ever gotten in the way. |
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I'm a man who carries the baggage of a lust for good food and drink. However I've never found my dimensions a significant disadvantage when it comes to dating or when here as a single guy. I've tended to have been fairly successful I think with women of various dimensions over the years.
I've always taken people as I've found them and dress size is not a huge factor in my attraction. I hate this notion of beauty leagues and the upset when people seek or play outside of these supposed leagues. Or when they get butt hurt because they think someone of their perceived league or lower rejects them. It reminds of a social media couple who get so much hate and cynicism because she's a big woman and he's a ripped gym bod. I find it so sad when people have such a limited and childish ideas of attraction and the factors that make a great match between two people (on a causal or serious basis). I feel sorry for them.
Yes people have preferences and the larger man is not always the most popular. I'm sure for some I am to big. However to me success (or not) has always boiled down more to character, values and the ability to be comfortable in your own skin.
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"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun "
Sounds hot. I’m in. |
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By *a LunaWoman 15 weeks ago
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"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun
Sounds hot. I’m in. "
Wish you were! I could use a could pickling  |
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"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun
Sounds hot. I’m in.
Wish you were! I could use a could pickling "
I’ve been waiting for you to say that |
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"For me I like all sorts of body types because I am attracted to the person they belong to.
However my insecurity does often make me wonder why super attractive "gym fit" types sometimes apparently like me! "
I'm not 'gymfit' and certainly like you |
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"I’m a fatty and I’m quite partial to a bigger guy. So long as one of you isn’t a pillow princess then no belly is insurmountable, you just have to experiment a bit. Which is fun "
Budge up, I'm coming  |
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I range from chubby to hippo-like and while I've had the odd relationship with bigger guys, I prefer not to have casual sex with another fatty. No reason for it other than i find toned bodies attractive.
So shoot me!
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