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Ok this is an odd one
My name is Thomas i had a major stroke a cpl of year ago that has left my in a wheelchair i spend most of my time in front of the TV (yes i know self pity)
Im look for someone to TEXT not looking for sex but sexy conversation and normal chat, a female friend
So come and make friends
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"Ok this is an odd one
My name is Thomas i had a major stroke a cpl of year ago that has left my in a wheelchair i spend most of my time in front of the TV (yes i know self pity)
Im look for someone to TEXT not looking for sex but sexy conversation and normal chat, a female friend
So come and make friends
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Hi Tom
For every person experience is different. But my first introduction to swinging I met a couple at a club. The guy was a fireman originally by trade and had had a fall from a ladder and a stroke off the back of that. His penis didn’t work at all but they had a very active sex life through other decent men. Best of luck to you both going forward. |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate"
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ? |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ?"
My interpretation of this is that your green arrow points to you being in a couple. Meaning surely you already have a lady friend to communicate with 🤷♂️ but maybe I’m wrong it’s happened before. Or maybe you could enlighten the ladies of fab on your situation 👍🏻 |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ?"
Ok OP
Your profile is your shop window. I added the -(s) as you have 2 profiles. The one you name as a couples profile, which is a couples profile, and this one which you have started the thread with, which is also a couples profile but looks like it's just you using it.
I wrote 'make things clearer' as the profile is confusing and people don't like confusion so it won't help you find what your looking for.
Green arrow is a tool we use to look at previous threads a profile has started or commented in. It's by the side of your name at the start of the thread.
You started a thread over 5 months ago about profile but then talked about your wife as bait. Hence me writing the green arrow hasn't helped you.
Make things clearer on this profile, change it to just yours? Verifications hidden but are they yours or you and your wifes?
Your not utilising the tools or advice given from the previous thread |
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Your profile is for a MF couple, not a single man, which will confuse people.
Perhaps consider adding this stated interest of text chat only, into the profile for single man.
Many people here are very disabilities friendly. This doesn't mean that they will have a shared interest in sex texts though. It's always very hard for any single men to get attention here, especially when they have a niche interest. You have to stand out from amongst the rest. Online here may or may not be your best option but you can only try it out.  |
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Thomas
I may win no favour or friends in saying this.
As previously stated the green flag is not your friend in this
There have been a few posts recently where people have tried to fetishise people with disabilities and on the whole the thought is that most want to be seen as a person and not the disability
By bringing yours up and making it seem the basis of why people should sext with you seems for me off.
Sexting or anything comes from a connection of attraction both physical and mental
You are on a couples profile. I have attended many club nights where disabled people have attended and had a great time and great laugh and built proper friendships and bonds
As I say I am sure people will have a go at me for this but it’s how I see it |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ?
My interpretation of this is that your green arrow points to you being in a couple. Meaning surely you already have a lady friend to communicate with 🤷♂️ but maybe I’m wrong it’s happened before. Or maybe you could enlighten the ladies of fab on your situation 👍🏻"
So im only allowed to talk to my wife? |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ?
Ok OP
Your profile is your shop window. I added the -(s) as you have 2 profiles. The one you name as a couples profile, which is a couples profile, and this one which you have started the thread with, which is also a couples profile but looks like it's just you using it.
I wrote 'make things clearer' as the profile is confusing and people don't like confusion so it won't help you find what your looking for.
Green arrow is a tool we use to look at previous threads a profile has started or commented in. It's by the side of your name at the start of the thread.
You started a thread over 5 months ago about profile but then talked about your wife as bait. Hence me writing the green arrow hasn't helped you.
Make things clearer on this profile, change it to just yours? Verifications hidden but are they yours or you and your wifes?
Your not utilising the tools or advice given from the previous thread"
Bait ?
I was looking from TEXT friend what do past verification to do it ?
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"Thomas
I may win no favour or friends in saying this.
Asreviously stated the green flag is not your friend in this
There have been a few posts recently where people have tried to fetishise people with disabilities and on the whole the thought is that most want to be seen as a person and not the disability
By bringing yours up and making it seem the basis of why people should sext with you seems for me off.
Sexting or anything comes from a connection of attraction both physical and mental
You are on a couples profile. I have attended many club nights where disabled people have attended and had a great time and great laugh and built proper friendships and bonds
As I say I am sure people will have a go at me for this but it’s how I see it "
Off ?
Honest not trying to fetishie anything |
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"OP I think maybe a few things on your shop window(s) could be clearer and help you to achieve this, but your green arrow hasn't helped you
Sorry mate
Sorry could you explain
I was juat looking for a TEXT friend
And "green arrow " ?
Ok OP
Your profile is your shop window. I added the -(s) as you have 2 profiles. The one you name as a couples profile, which is a couples profile, and this one which you have started the thread with, which is also a couples profile but looks like it's just you using it.
I wrote 'make things clearer' as the profile is confusing and people don't like confusion so it won't help you find what your looking for.
Green arrow is a tool we use to look at previous threads a profile has started or commented in. It's by the side of your name at the start of the thread.
You started a thread over 5 months ago about profile but then talked about your wife as bait. Hence me writing the green arrow hasn't helped you.
Make things clearer on this profile, change it to just yours? Verifications hidden but are they yours or you and your wifes?
Your not utilising the tools or advice given from the previous thread
Bait ?
I was looking from TEXT friend what do past verification to do it ?
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I can see this has annoyed you, someone saying that you might have more luck if you sorted your profile out.
You didn't ask for profile advice so I apologise for that
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