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How are your confidence levels?
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"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum."
Here’s a reply.
Keep your head up. There’s plenty of places other than fab to meet people for sex or relationships. Utilise them. Don’t take this place to heart. |
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"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum."
To quote the old "gambling" catchphrase, "when the fun stops, stop" For guys Fab can be a gruelling, relentless job interview process, but you should find some enjoyment in it. If you aren't, perhaps take a break and go "do that thing you have been putting off"
Good luck, we men need to look out for each other! |
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"Lack of confidence or too much of it would get you killed in the wild. The situation should determine your mind set"
Reality is a very useful thing. That so many awesome, beautiful people have low confidence shows how difficult it is to see. |
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"Reasonable but I have my wobbles. What About you OP?"
probably the same. About a 6 at the minute. But it’s higher sometimes.
I feel good at the moment generally. Some job application rejections have knocked me slightly but keeping on keeping on. |
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By *.T.Man 15 weeks ago
Belfast for the week |
Sitting at 4. Got chatting with a potential playmate who really likes the look of me. The rejection elsewhere dents the confidence massively.
However, I know not to let the views of others affect me, but it is easier said than done. Fab is'nt the place for sensitive souls  |
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Very little confidence about my sex life which is basically nonexistent. I do have successes in starting conversations with ladies and couples on here and elsewhere, but following through into a sexual connection seems to be more than I can achieve. My libido takes a hit, and increasingly I wonder if I'm just past it.
On the other hand over the last twelve months I have renewed my skills and learned fresh techniques in the fields of home refurbishment, diy, decorating... I have some lovely new bamboo flooring and a gorgeous garage conversion into a home office (unfortunately currently crammed full of furniture and stuff moved from the rest of the house to facilitate the other ongoing work). So self confidence in my manual skills is at a high...
Now if only there was someone interested in admiring my bamboo while admiring my body... |
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I'm always quite confident but like most people I do look in the mirror sometimes and think what a mess.
At the moment it seems hard to find genuine single people on Fab, I always feel better when I'm with nice people.
But generally im 7/10 x |
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By *ornycougaWoman 15 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
It's up around a 9 atm. I've challenged myself recently and come out on top, got some stuff of my chest, had my hair done and been reunited with my lingerie and shoe collection so I'm in a good place  |
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"It's up around a 9 atm. I've challenged myself recently and come out on top, got some stuff of my chest, had my hair done and been reunited with my lingerie and shoe collection so I'm in a good place "
Let’s see ya |
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Tbh I thought I was the only one. And I am considering walking away from it because I either get told off or not replied at all. I don't know if it's my being too polite or that I don't just know the right things to say.
Atm my confidence on here is about 2/10. It's different in real life but here? Really low |
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"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum.
Here’s a reply.
Keep your head up. There’s plenty of places other than fab to meet people for sex or relationships. Utilise them. Don’t take this place to heart. "
Thanks! That's a start. |
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"1/10. Can't get into a conversation on Chat, no responses from women on Messages, not many comments on the Forum.
To quote the old "gambling" catchphrase, "when the fun stops, stop" For guys Fab can be a gruelling, relentless job interview process, but you should find some enjoyment in it. If you aren't, perhaps take a break and go "do that thing you have been putting off"
Thanks! Being on here is the thing I've been putting off!
Good luck, we men need to look out for each other!"
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By *jk1978Couple 15 weeks ago
Cheshire |
Never been confident male half should have loads of confidence got an amazing woman who’s been with me 25 years a daughter , a Job I love but hate everything about me and always felt a failure, why I will never know is it a man thing or just me no idea |
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"Lowest they’ve been for a while. Shouldn’t let the trolls get to me but I did. I’ll be fine in a day or two "
I just read your profile , you’re big and beautiful. My wife fluctuates between size 18-20 , we been married 27 years and she was a size 18 when I met her.
There are people on here and in real life who like me like the fuller figure. Don’t allow those trolls to get inside your head. |
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"About 9.5 now.
Nice to see that it has risen in the last few hours. What prompted the increase?
A compliment from a stranger."
Nice. It's amazing how a simple thing can have such a positive impact.
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"Right now
Pretty low. Been a tough few months.
You're being very upbeat and there's light at the end of the tunnel.
Giving it my best shot. Now it's the waiting........"
Keep on keeping on, my friend  |
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