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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page"
No but you can build a rapport with people and get to know each other more and discover a little about their sense of humour  |
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By *eliWoman 2 hours ago
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"Fuck no. Don't be weird OP.
Trying my best daily not to be  "
I'm teasing you. Doing away with my standard bollocks, yes I've met people from the forum. It's a good way of getting a feel for someone, learning a little bit about them. It feels less... like cold calling? Easier to see similar sense of humour, those you're not compatible with.
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I use the forum as another filter so yes I have met people through the forums and had sex with one of those.
Strangely enough the only drama I've experienced through the forums has been with someone I didn't have sex with.
Forum contribution can be a good way of determining if someone is compatible or not but only if that someone isn't a complete twat irl. |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though. "
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP. |
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"Yes, I have had a couple of meets with forum women."
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...to add to my previous point ^ — to offset and balance the misconception — there's been no drama or playground politics in my experience.
What I find unappealing is the blatant lamppost pissing that sometimes seems to prevail. |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP. "
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣 |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP.
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣"
More that I’m hoping that you might if I win your trust  |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP.
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣
More that I’m hoping that you might if I win your trust "
🤣🤣❤️❤️ |
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By *ornycougaWoman 2 hours ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Nah. It's too much like a friendship group at school where all the lads and lasses have got off with each other at some point.
FAF?"
Bring the tabs and White Lightning and I'll meet you round the back of the bike sheds |
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"Nah. It's too much like a friendship group at school where all the lads and lasses have got off with each other at some point.
FAF?
Bring the tabs and White Lightning and I'll meet you round the back of the bike sheds"
😆😆 Deal! |
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"I'm working my way through them alphabetically.
Patience Zebedee, I'm going as fast as I can.
Changes name to A a ron 🤣"
I'm on the aitches. You'll have to wait until I come back around to the ays. |
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By *hilloutMan 1 hour ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Forum = social meets, off forum =sex meets 
I imagine forumites having sex with each other is potentially laden with drama if it becomes public news! "
I've met quite a few people off the forums for sex over the years.
No drama is involved if people are adults and discreet about it. No need to advertise who you've been meeting and when. |
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By *exyEggsCouple 1 hour ago
North East Scotland, mostly |
"Forum = social meets, off forum =sex meets
I imagine forumites having sex with each other is potentially laden with drama if it becomes public news!
I've met quite a few people off the forums for sex over the years.
No drama is involved if people are adults and discreet about it. No need to advertise who you've been meeting and when."
Pretty much this. Also, if folk do mention that they’ve met… it’s a swinging site, so 🤷♀️
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I have and I definitely would again if the opportunity arose. It just feels more likely to happen as you kind of get to know each other through seeing each other post and that sort "in" is more likely through the forums than sending out random messages cold. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 59 minutes ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page"
I've met many over the years.
Some socially, some at organised events and clubs, and some I've seen naked.
The forum population is made up of sire users so why discount them just because they use the forums. 🤷♂️
*Sometimes, occasionally them using the forums reduces any desire to meet them. |
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By *ibLeiMan 51 minutes ago
Manchester |
Forum interactions probably have the advantage of helping build an organic and more genuine connection (without necessary any immediate expectations), unlike private messages - which let's be honest often feel cold and purely transactional. |
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two 
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum"
Why make the assumption its a man  |
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum
Why make the assumption its a man "
Oh SHIT! Fair enough!!!
Also did you just call me a 🤔 |
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In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)  |
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met) "
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so   |
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so "
Ok....it ain't so 🤣🤣 |
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By *r TriomanMan 12 minutes ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Yes, we got chatting through a thread and even though I was 10 years older than her cut off age we met and had a great time; as a result she increased her upper age limit. This was the one and only time that I've met someone off the forums, it was many years ago, I find it vertically impossible to engage with people on here now although, it's not for the want of trying. |
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Being a forum user doesn't put me off. Being a shit shag and it being posted in the forums would probably.
"Fumbling Foxy Fires in Five (seconds)"
"He made my toes curl when fucking (I still had my tights on)"
Then the men would find out and bully and steal my dinner money and kick sand in my face.
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"Being a forum user doesn't put me off. Being a shit shag and it being posted in the forums would probably.
"Fumbling Foxy Fires in Five (seconds)"
"He made my toes curl when fucking (I still had my tights on)"
Then the men would find out and bully and steal my dinner money and kick sand in my face.
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Just don't be a shit shag then 💜 |
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