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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page"
No but you can build a rapport with people and get to know each other more and discover a little about their sense of humour  |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"Fuck no. Don't be weird OP.
Trying my best daily not to be  "
I'm teasing you. Doing away with my standard bollocks, yes I've met people from the forum. It's a good way of getting a feel for someone, learning a little bit about them. It feels less... like cold calling? Easier to see similar sense of humour, those you're not compatible with.
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I use the forum as another filter so yes I have met people through the forums and had sex with one of those.
Strangely enough the only drama I've experienced through the forums has been with someone I didn't have sex with.
Forum contribution can be a good way of determining if someone is compatible or not but only if that someone isn't a complete twat irl. |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though. "
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP. |
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"Yes, I have had a couple of meets with forum women."
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...to add to my previous point ^ — to offset and balance the misconception — there's been no drama or playground politics in my experience.
What I find unappealing is the blatant lamppost pissing that sometimes seems to prevail. |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP. "
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣 |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP.
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣"
More that I’m hoping that you might if I win your trust  |
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"I’ve met half the forum socially. A few sexually but only the ones I really really trust. Nobody would ever know. I do tend to avoid anything other than socials through the forum now though.
Ok I am now open to meeting someone from the forum, OP.
🤣. Only coz you now don’t have to worry that I might wanna bang you???? 🤣
More that I’m hoping that you might if I win your trust "
🤣🤣❤️❤️ |
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By *ornycougaWoman 15 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Nah. It's too much like a friendship group at school where all the lads and lasses have got off with each other at some point.
FAF?"
Bring the tabs and White Lightning and I'll meet you round the back of the bike sheds |
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"Nah. It's too much like a friendship group at school where all the lads and lasses have got off with each other at some point.
FAF?
Bring the tabs and White Lightning and I'll meet you round the back of the bike sheds"
😆😆 Deal! |
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"I'm working my way through them alphabetically.
Patience Zebedee, I'm going as fast as I can.
Changes name to A a ron 🤣"
I'm on the aitches. You'll have to wait until I come back around to the ays. |
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By *hilloutMan 15 weeks ago
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"Forum = social meets, off forum =sex meets 
I imagine forumites having sex with each other is potentially laden with drama if it becomes public news! "
I've met quite a few people off the forums for sex over the years.
No drama is involved if people are adults and discreet about it. No need to advertise who you've been meeting and when. |
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"Forum = social meets, off forum =sex meets
I imagine forumites having sex with each other is potentially laden with drama if it becomes public news!
I've met quite a few people off the forums for sex over the years.
No drama is involved if people are adults and discreet about it. No need to advertise who you've been meeting and when."
Pretty much this. Also, if folk do mention that they’ve met… it’s a swinging site, so 🤷♀️
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I have and I definitely would again if the opportunity arose. It just feels more likely to happen as you kind of get to know each other through seeing each other post and that sort "in" is more likely through the forums than sending out random messages cold. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 15 weeks ago
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page"
I've met many over the years.
Some socially, some at organised events and clubs, and some I've seen naked.
The forum population is made up of sire users so why discount them just because they use the forums. 🤷♂️
*Sometimes, occasionally them using the forums reduces any desire to meet them. |
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By *ibLeiMan 15 weeks ago
Manchester |
Forum interactions probably have the advantage of helping build an organic and more genuine connection (without necessary any immediate expectations), unlike private messages - which let's be honest often feel cold and purely transactional. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two 
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum"
Why make the assumption its a man  |
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum
Why make the assumption its a man "
Oh SHIT! Fair enough!!!
Also did you just call me a 🤔 |
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In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)  |
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met) "
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so   |
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so "
Ok....it ain't so 🤣🤣 |
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By *r TriomanMan 15 weeks ago
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Yes, we got chatting through a thread and even though I was 10 years older than her cut off age we met and had a great time; as a result she increased her upper age limit. This was the one and only time that I've met someone off the forums, it was many years ago, I find it vertically impossible to engage with people on here now although, it's not for the want of trying. |
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Being a forum user doesn't put me off. Being a shit shag and it being posted in the forums would probably.
"Fumbling Foxy Fires in Five (seconds)"
"He made my toes curl when fucking (I still had my tights on)"
Then the men would find out and bully and steal my dinner money and kick sand in my face.
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"Being a forum user doesn't put me off. Being a shit shag and it being posted in the forums would probably.
"Fumbling Foxy Fires in Five (seconds)"
"He made my toes curl when fucking (I still had my tights on)"
Then the men would find out and bully and steal my dinner money and kick sand in my face.
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Just don't be a shit shag then 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I don’t get where the drama comes from, unless some actively look to find/cause it.
Women mainly
And then we have you!
I'm all sweetness and rainbows me "
No, you come from the special aisle in Aldi |
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"I don’t get where the drama comes from, unless some actively look to find/cause it.
Women mainly
And then we have you!
I'm all sweetness and rainbows me
No, you come from the special aisle in Aldi "
Special Needs maybe 😝 |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so
Ok....it ain't so 🤣🤣"
That’s not what i heard on the grapevine 🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum
Why make the assumption its a man
Oh SHIT! Fair enough!!!
Also did you just call me a 🤔"
No Steve, just No |
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"In all my time on the site I've met 2 I think on a 1-1 basis..
I tend avoid forum users as others have said it can lead to drama because people talk (I think it's funny that people think others don't know who they've met)
Are you saying people gossip among themselves off the forum?
Say it ain’t so
Ok....it ain't so 🤣🤣
That’s not what i heard on the grapevine 🤣🤣"
Shhh what happens between forum folks stays between the majority of fab 🤣🤣 |
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"I've shagged a few formites.. they know who they are bet we can work it out by deduction
You'd have to deduct a lot, as there's only two
There aren’t a lot of brothers on the forum
Why make the assumption its a man
Oh SHIT! Fair enough!!!
Also did you just call me a 🤔
No Steve, just No "
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There was a time we only met forum folk, mainly single women although we have met a few guys and one couple that we still see regularly after a number of years.
We always found it a great way to gauge compatibility.
Lately we find very little of interest around the forum but new profiles pop up daily and the forum is ever changing  |
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"There was a time we only met forum folk, mainly single women although we have met a few guys and one couple that we still see regularly after a number of years.
We always found it a great way to gauge compatibility.
Lately we find very little of interest around the forum but new profiles pop up daily and the forum is ever changing "
Rip my heart out and piss all over it why don't you.
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"There was a time we only met forum folk, mainly single women although we have met a few guys and one couple that we still see regularly after a number of years.
We always found it a great way to gauge compatibility.
Lately we find very little of interest around the forum but new profiles pop up daily and the forum is ever changing
Rip my heart out and piss all over it why don't you.
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As if.
Only a brick swings in that heaving chest of yours! |
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"Being a forum user doesn't put me off. Being a shit shag and it being posted in the forums would probably.
"Fumbling Foxy Fires in Five (seconds)"
"He made my toes curl when fucking (I still had my tights on)"
Then the men would find out and bully and steal my dinner money and kick sand in my face.
Just don't be a shit shag then 💜"
Jesus, it's so hard not to be if you are in the company of beauty, wearing lovely lingerie after exciting build up.
Luckily for me I have a trick up my sleeve that I will not be repeater-ing on this forum for everyone to see. Otherwise I fall in the humblebrag pigeon hole that seems to be the flavour of the month |
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page
I would, and I have... Both for the socials and for the sex.
I'd do it again with the right forumites."
I’d like to go on a social with you somewhere you can teach me some history. Kinky I know but it’s what I want. |
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page
I would, and I have... Both for the socials and for the sex.
I'd do it again with the right forumites.
I’d like to go on a social with you somewhere you can teach me some history. Kinky I know but it’s what I want. "
I think we have a date in the British Museum pending! 👩🏻🎓 |
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"There was a time we only met forum folk, mainly single women although we have met a few guys and one couple that we still see regularly after a number of years.
We always found it a great way to gauge compatibility.
Lately we find very little of interest around the forum but new profiles pop up daily and the forum is ever changing
Rip my heart out and piss all over it why don't you.
As if.
Only a brick swings in that heaving chest of yours!"
I can't argue with that |
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page
I would, and I have... Both for the socials and for the sex.
I'd do it again with the right forumites.
I’d like to go on a social with you somewhere you can teach me some history. Kinky I know but it’s what I want. "
The Docklands Museum. You can see a photo of a house in my street a family was evacuated to when their house was bombed I'm WWII |
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page
I would, and I have... Both for the socials and for the sex.
I'd do it again with the right forumites.
I’d like to go on a social with you somewhere you can teach me some history. Kinky I know but it’s what I want.
I think we have a date in the British Museum pending! 👩🏻🎓"
Tell me the date and I’ll meet you there.
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"Would or have you had a meet with someone off the forum rather than the main fab page
I would, and I have... Both for the socials and for the sex.
I'd do it again with the right forumites.
I’d like to go on a social with you somewhere you can teach me some history. Kinky I know but it’s what I want.
The Docklands Museum. You can see a photo of a house in my street a family was evacuated to when their house was bombed I'm WWII"
Wow. Is that for real?  |
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"I have. I would again.
I’ve met forumites who were wankers off here, met some gorgeous people and made some good friends.
I’ve had the same from off forum too.
People gonna people 🤷♀️"
You are a lady of discerning taste.
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"I have. I would again.
I’ve met forumites who were wankers off here, met some gorgeous people and made some good friends.
I’ve had the same from off forum too.
People gonna people 🤷♀️"
I can’t believe I’ve never actually met you |
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I’ve had a few that were socials, great socials, great friends in fact and 3 or 4 that were more than socials. A couple I’d definitely do again if I had the chance and plan to increase that figure as well |
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"I have. I would again.
I’ve met forumites who were wankers off here, met some gorgeous people and made some good friends.
I’ve had the same from off forum too.
People gonna people 🤷♀️
I can’t believe I’ve never actually met you"
It will happen!!! |
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I prefer pulling from the depths of fab. A few fourumites have caught my eye, but I keep that private, due to the potential Drama Llamas poking their nose into what we got up to......
Nowt as strange as possessive jealousy on a sex site... |
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Interesting that people refer to drama from other forum members if you meet a forum member
Surely as adults you can respect someone’s decision even if it isn’t what you want to hear
Any one who created any drama on anyone I met or interacted with would honestly create the biggest red flag not to meet them
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"I prefer pulling from the depths of fab. A few fourumites have caught my eye, but I keep that private, due to the potential Drama Llamas poking their nose into what we got up to......
Nowt as strange as possessive jealousy on a sex site..."
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I miss the inedible principles of compersion. |
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"Interesting that people refer to drama from other forum members if you meet a forum member
Surely as adults you can respect someone’s decision even if it isn’t what you want to hear
Any one who created any drama on anyone I met or interacted with would honestly create the biggest red flag not to meet them
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I wouldn’t pay much attention pal.
We’ve been here many years and never encountered meet related drama or noticed it around.
We don’t look for it.
Which I guess is a very telling fact. |
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Correction.
I met a lady, we clicked immediately, we were soon much more than mere playmates. Even marriage was briefly mooted. A year or three later, she died.
Anyways, although we first met through the site, I discovered later that she was a forum regular, no stranger to temporary bans! |
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By *rAitchMan 15 weeks ago
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"I'm working my way through them alphabetically.
Patience Zebedee, I'm going as fast as I can.
Changes name to A a ron 🤣
I'm on the aitches. You'll have to wait until I come back around to the ays."
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"Forum - If you want to get meets get involved in the forum
Forum - I'd never meet anyone from the forum.
Fab is a complicated place."
People say that... they lie/aren't wanting to share that kind of information. It's quite a simple place really. Especially the forums. |
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"Forum - If you want to get meets get involved in the forum
Forum - I'd never meet anyone from the forum.
Fab is a complicated place.
People say that... they lie/aren't wanting to share that kind of information. It's quite a simple place really. Especially the forums."
This I know. But I can imagine it wouldn't be so transparent for a relative newcomer. |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"Forum - If you want to get meets get involved in the forum
Forum - I'd never meet anyone from the forum.
Fab is a complicated place.
People say that... they lie/aren't wanting to share that kind of information. It's quite a simple place really. Especially the forums.
This I know. But I can imagine it wouldn't be so transparent for a relative newcomer."
True. Maybe the forum rules should include posters can be full of excrement, don't take them too seriously? |
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"I prefer pulling from the depths of fab. A few forumites have caught my eye, but I keep that private, due to the potential Drama Llamas poking their nose into what we got up to......
Nowt as strange as possessive jealousy on a sex site..."
Not everybody leaves veris, it really isn't necessary, or compulsory for the site. Who knows, if everyone I've ever met had left me a verification, I might have 299 too..... |
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"Forum - If you want to get meets get involved in the forum
Forum - I'd never meet anyone from the forum.
Fab is a complicated place.
People say that... they lie/aren't wanting to share that kind of information. It's quite a simple place really. Especially the forums."
Meeting at socials is one thing but actually having sex with someone from the forums? 🙂↔️ |
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