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I met a lady on here ..we had sex ..now we have the most amazing beautiful baby ..
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Dont get me wrong me and his mum couldn't love him any more but we both got to a nowhere were asking are we just together for him...is that a good enoughreasonto be together..
No body wants a broken home but I personallygrew up in a fam where parents resented eachotherand argued I'd never let him see the same but at what pointdo u realise.. |
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Kids need to know they're loved and to have a good example of what adults respecting each other looks like. They also need to see what good relationships look like.
Decide between the two of you what you want to do but if neither of you know why you're together you have a lot of talking to do |
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"Basically we met 1 time sheets fell pregnant..we have a amazing child..but we struggling to find how we fit together besides the baby...what's the best thing to do"
You put the child first and do everything best for that child.
It doesn't really matter more than that.
Maybe you will be a good couple or maybe not.
Just see how that side goes if you want.
But stay friendly and the child comes first no matter what is best way. |
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"Your a year over age to join the French foreign legion.
Why would he want to join the foreign legion?"
You can join under a false name. They will deny you are there unless you are wanted for certain things.
If you do 5 years satisfactory service they give you a French passport.
I the name you enlisted under. |
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If you’re saying you don’t thing you should be together but staying for the sake of the baby, my advice is don’t. It’s best to have two loving parents that can be civil and get on after separating rather than a couple that resent each other because they are in a relationship that neither wants. Kids pick up on that and would be more damaging than living between parents sharing custody. |
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"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA. "
I sincerely hope you never have a child!
There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!
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"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.
I sincerely hope you never have a child!
There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!
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Bit judgemental that.
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"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.
I sincerely hope you never have a child!
There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!
Bit judgemental that.
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More than happy to stand in judgement of anyone who doesn’t commit unequivocally to raising a child they’ve created!
Anyways, quietly back to your shadow #wave
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"And don't do overtime while they assess you for CSA.
I sincerely hope you never have a child!
There’s so many fucked up children born to those who care more about themselves than their responsibility to raise the child!
Bit judgemental that.
More than happy to stand in judgement of anyone who doesn’t commit unequivocally to raising a child they’ve created!
Anyways, quietly back to your shadow #wave
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Who wants kids anyway? |
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Before everyone starts arguing...neither of us me or mum are ever going to love or care for baby any less than we do now witch is with all are hart and being ...what ever comes of our relationship |
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"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved "
What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.
Ignore him or anyone akin to him!
Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears! |
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"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved
What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.
Ignore him or anyone akin to him!
Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears!"
That's untrue.
Base income should be assessed at a normal amount of hours.
Not at an unstainable amount.
This is why there's suicides and father's getting financialy destroyed, especially in low paid jobs.
Like most people |
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Tbh mate I kinda new what he was sayin just wanted to see if he would admit it...
Money is irrelevant when it comes to kids ...
I do no that people have frustrations over csa ...that tends to be due to relationship they have with mother or father ..either way not kids fault |
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"Why would csa be a problem..if they got involved
What he’s trying to promote is a falsifying of your financial position so you may reduce the amount of financial support you offer to the mother of your child.
Ignore him or anyone akin to him!
Raising a child a life long commitment, provide absolutely everything you can for them, every single day; anybody who says otherwise simply isn’t worth the bandwidth of your ears!
That's untrue.
Base income should be assessed at a normal amount of hours.
Not at an unstainable amount.
This is why there's suicides and father's getting financialy destroyed, especially in low paid jobs.
Like most people "
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Co Parent.
Live your lives separately without exposing your child to any toxicity that arises from people forcing themselves to be together.
Your child deserves a happy Mum and Dad, so do what it takes to make that the new reality
I do nearly 50-50 with my ex and it works. It will take effort and clear communication about the needs of your child but it can be done (:
Good luck brother  |
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When kids get put front and centre then there is little damage from being in a 2 household family. Two happy households is so much healthier than 1 with lots of fighting. Don't stay together for the kids unless you get on well. Be amicable and flexible at all times. |
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"When kids get put front and centre then there is little damage from being in a 2 household family. Two happy households is so much healthier than 1 with lots of fighting. Don't stay together for the kids unless you get on well. Be amicable and flexible at all times. "
This. |
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