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Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
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By *hilloutMan 5 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
L.R. Knost
This site is a small snapshot of life. It has its moments of amazing and awful. "
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Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
"
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising. |
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Recreation sex site. Nothing more.
Don't get invested in any of the drama. Fab is full of bored people, and people with mental health problems, anxiety and hips on shoulders. It's as random as a train station. No need to interfere with people, live and let live.
Walk away from the difficult people. |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
"
You make quite the valid point here.
Always said the amount of self entitlement and self indulgence on this site is ridiculous. Like you said all's this site is a hook up site. Nothing more. If you arent interested. Just move on.
Simple as. |
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"Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
L.R. Knost
This site is a small snapshot of life. It has its moments of amazing and awful. "
Truth xx |
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By *ornLordMan 5 weeks ago
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" Fab is full of bored people, and people with mental health problems, anxiety and hips on shoulders.
That'll be the contortionists with hips on shoulders."
You beat me to that one by seconds! |
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" Fab is full of bored people, and people with mental health problems, anxiety and hips on shoulders.
That'll be the contortionists with hips on shoulders.
You beat me to that one by seconds!"
You snooze you lose  |
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" Fab is full of bored people, and people with mental health problems, anxiety and hips on shoulders.
That'll be the contortionists with hips on shoulders.
You beat me to that one by seconds!"
hips on shoulders.... I wouldn't mind a bit of that 
Chips not so much. |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising. "
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
L.R. Knost
This site is a small snapshot of life. It has its moments of amazing and awful. "
I love this! Thanks for sharing |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here "
It isn't match.com nor is it a fuck site, it's a swingers site.
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here "
Is it though? I've had plenty of hot no strings fucks, threesome, foursomes, moresomes... but I've also unexpectedly found a partner. I find treating people like people rather than a fuck that I'm entitled to works well for me. 🤔 |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here
Is it though? I've had plenty of hot no strings fucks, threesome, foursomes, moresomes... but I've also unexpectedly found a partner. I find treating people like people rather than a fuck that I'm entitled to works well for me. 🤔"
Oh my sweet Julie, do you know treating people like people takes some compassion, kindness, humour and conversation and being a generally ok person - many of the people here are "I have cock - you have vag = I'm entitled to fuck, you rude if not.
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here "
I think as with any experience, it’s reflective!
Yes some pros post here, they are making money and earning a living.
If you expect to treat people like an object I would expect to pay as well! Maybe Viva Street is for you.
But that’s not what fab is about, it’s a lifestyle and community. Just go to some social events and you can see how much fun you can have. |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here
It isn't match.com nor is it a fuck site, it's a swingers site.
Mrs "
Absolutely
Funnily enough I have a couples profile, Iv found more couples contact us there
And any men that do seem respectful even though we aren’t looking for men at all
As this is a female profile looking for females
When some of the men contact me 90% are decent but that 10% is a real shocker
And they wonder why I look no further then ffm and ff fun
Unfortunately they spoil it for the decent men
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"Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
L.R. Knost
This site is a small snapshot of life. It has its moments of amazing and awful. "
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You are allowed your opinion and so is everyone else. Whether they are different or the same, it doesn’t really matte.
Just because things are not working out as you wanted or thought or would have liked does not mean that people are “clowns” or time wasters or anything else.
Maybe instead of blaming others look at how you approach the site and what you want from it |
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By *8on33Man 5 weeks ago
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"Some people seems to enjoy treating others members on fab like trash...but I do believe that sooner or later what goes around comes around. Karma docet!!!"
Its a difficult site to navigate for everyone but especially guys but if you don't treat it as a sex site you find lovely people who you can meet ,its all about your approach really ,guess you are approaching it wrong .
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It’s a circus to some
A freak show to others
A hook up - fuck site for some
A community for the most part.
You get out what you put in.
If you act like a clown- you’ll be laughed at.
If you act like a dick on a dick, that’s how you’ll be treated.
I love my little tribe here for the most part. Much like that circus you speak of - it constantly moves, but remains a family. It’s a bit weird, but oddly comforting and safe.
We look out for our own.
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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Have to just accept it for what it is unfortunately certain individuals do ruin it but women and couples are wise enough to find the genuine ones, it’s us men who struggle |
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Op you've started several threads about how single men are lepers and you can't win whatever you do.
You've also said you do better at clubs, so why not stick to those.
It seems fab gives you alot of angst, is it really worth it if it isn't working for you?.
If it's such a circus full of clowns why not just take a break from here and meet people ftf. |
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yet to meet a women on here, i know not having pics does not help, but never had an issue and spoken to several women with polite conversations, yet on fabguys had to bloke several men for being rude or in some cases aggresive when you cant meet straight away, so much prefer fabswingers, hopefuly get that 1st meet soon |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here "
Nobody wanting to meet you then? 🤔 I've had some frankly awesome experiences over the last decade here (but having tits & a vag probs helps ). Like anything else in life it's how you approach and utilise it though |
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"Some people seems to enjoy treating others members on fab like trash...but I do believe that sooner or later what goes around comes around. Karma docet!!!"
...says you....yet your thread calla the site...including its members " a circus full of clowns" no irony whatsoever...
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"Oh and Karma……..load of old bollocks. Just a random set of circumstances that happen upon us through life.  "
Yes Karma is a load of bollocks but I think when most people say karma they mean simply ‘what goes around comes around’ Which interesting is now backed by science. |
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"Oh and Karma……..load of old bollocks. Just a random set of circumstances that happen upon us through life.
Yes Karma is a load of bollocks but I think when most people say karma they mean simply ‘what goes around comes around’ Which interesting is now backed by science. "
I got mildly interested, I thought you said Korma. |
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"It doesn't have to be your circus OP."
This is very good advice! My two-pennorth would say use it to your best advantage, rather than be dictated to by people who thrive on putting others down. (The forums are full of them - especially guys who will jump on anything another man says and try to use it against him in order to try to make themselves look good in the eyes of the women).
1) Don't set yourself up for that kind of scummy attitude.
2) If the 'Fab' messaging approach doesn't work for you it can still be useful as a site. (I use it for my verifications, which tell a lot about people - and the kind of people they meet).
3) Listen to the positive advice and ignore those narcissistic and arrogant types who live for the fuel of even a hint of complaint from a male. Those self-same people will jump to the defence of any woman who makes the same complaint. The positive folks do give good advice - especially the kinder women.
4) Get onto Kik groups and Discord chats. It's more of a community feel, which, if used in conjunction with Fab (Fab is great for finding out about events and clubs). Many chat groups will lead to connections being made in other than 1 - 1 conversation and IF people behave in a natural and civilised manner it can.lead to private messages from those impressed with your natural and (dare I say) gentlemanly manner. This can.lead to club invites where you've already broken the ice before meeting in person AND is a safe place for a woman to meet you. If it doesn't 'click' for you you've both got the rest of the night to enjoy and make other acquaintances. Be nice, but be real - it's hard for people to really get a feel for who someone is on here.
Bear in mind that Fab doesn't work at all for a lot of men (in particular) for lots of reasons and it can drag you down if you let it, that being so.
Find what you can use to further your swinging social circle and everything else should take care of itself. It's worked for me massively - and I'm the most bang average bloke you're going to find on here.
Good luck, but Listen to - and act on - the advice people give. Just complaining doesn't help further anything. |
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"Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful.
L.R. Knost
This site is a small snapshot of life. It has its moments of amazing and awful. "
That's beautifully put! (.....and SO true!) |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising. "
I agree |
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"...especially guys who will jump on anything another man says and try to use it against him in order to try to make themselves look good in the eyes of the women)."
Some of us look very good in the eyes of women. I avoid the Gorgons on here though; one single gaze upon them and you are granite.
"If...messaging...doesn't work for you it can still be useful as a site."
It's the best place to unwind for some male solidarity.
"Those self-same people will jump to the defence of any woman who makes the same complaint. The positive folks do give good advice - especially the kinder women."
Now you're being somewhat unctuous towards women.
"Get onto Kik groups...."
Stop right there! Do not - I repeat - do not use Kik, unless you belong to the vacuous brigade. Use Telegram.
"Find what you can use to further your swinging social circle and everything else should take care of itself."
This is good advice. |
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"Oh and Karma……..load of old bollocks. Just a random set of circumstances that happen upon us through life.
Yes Karma is a load of bollocks but I think when most people say karma they mean simply ‘what goes around comes around’ Which interesting is now backed by science.
I got mildly interested, I thought you said Korma. "
I'd rather have karma than korma. I'm not keen on coconut. |
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"...especially guys who will jump on anything another man says and try to use it against him in order to try to make themselves look good in the eyes of the women). Some of us look very good in the eyes of women. I avoid the Gorgons on here though; one single gaze upon them and you are granite.
If...messaging...doesn't work for you it can still be useful as a site. It's the best place to unwind for some male solidarity.
Those self-same people will jump to the defence of any woman who makes the same complaint. The positive folks do give good advice - especially the kinder women. Now you're being somewhat unctuous towards women.
Get onto Kik groups.... Stop right there! Do not - I repeat - do not use Kik, unless you belong to the vacuous brigade. Use Telegram.
Find what you can use to further your swinging social circle and everything else should take care of itself. This is good advice."
I'm clearly out of date with which messaging platforms to use. I'll consider myself informed! |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
If that's how you treat the site then your experience is unsurprising.
But it is
It isn’t match.com its a fuck site
You know that by the amount of pros—— that post on here "
It’s actually a swingers site, the clues in the site name. Massive difference.
Maybe your approach is why you aren’t succeeding!
People can use the site however they want to. To be an exhibitionist, dating, clubs, meets. |
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"Op you've started several threads about how single men are lepers and you can't win whatever you do.
You've also said you do better at clubs, so why not stick to those.
It seems fab gives you alot of angst, is it really worth it if it isn't working for you?.
If it's such a circus full of clowns why not just take a break from here and meet people ftf. "
Because it’s easier to just blame everyone else for your fab experience. |
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This is exactly the issue with many members on this site—you skim the surface and fail to grasp the actual point someone is making. Nowhere did I mention being unsuccessful on FabSwingers, nor did I say I was unhappy with my overall experience. Yes, it’s true that some people don’t even bother to reply, but I’ve come to accept that.
What I actually highlighted in my original post is that too many members are rude, self-centered, and incapable of holding a proper conversation hence I used the word TRASH! Unfortunately, many of your responses only prove my point—it's clear that most of you didn't even read the entire thread, just the title.
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"This is exactly the issue with many members on this site—you skim the surface and fail to grasp the actual point someone is making. Nowhere did I mention being unsuccessful on FabSwingers, nor did I say I was unhappy with my overall experience. Yes, it’s true that some people don’t even bother to reply, but I’ve come to accept that.
What I actually highlighted in my original post is that too many members are rude, self-centered, and incapable of holding a proper conversation hence I used the word TRASH! Unfortunately, many of your responses only prove my point—it's clear that most of you didn't even read the entire thread, just the title.
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A fair and correct point. Many are - it's about finding the right ones. It's been proven many times over that Fab isn't it for the vast majority of single guys. Much better avenues to go down.
If single guys all stopped using Fab overnight not a soul would bat an eyelid. Accepting that without anger makes for a lot less angst.
A few single women and a few couples might have an issue with it - especially as they'd then need to put an effort in in ways they have no need to now, but otherwise no loss. Accepting that is really good for the soul and removes any chance of ill-feeling. I'm certainly more at peace with myself as a result. I put in no effort, other than socially with friends, apart from commenting on the forums. This should never be more than a distraction and absolutely no one should have it become a remotely dominant part of their lives. Life is for living, not merely for Fab. |
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If single guys all stopped using Fab overnight not a soul would bat an eyelid. Accepting that without anger makes for a lot less angst. "
Oh Hooky I’d be sad if the men stopped using Fab. Not even from a sexual point of view but I’ve had some lovely conversations and I enjoy the contributions men such as yourself and many others bring to the forum as well as club nights. I’m sure I’m not alone! |
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By *aven.Woman 5 weeks ago
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"Can someone highlight where in my thread I did mention about me not succeeding or similar? "
People who have sex are generally less angry op.
This explains why I'm a tad bitchy at times ❤️ |
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"Can someone highlight where in my thread I did mention about me not succeeding or similar?
People who have sex are generally less angry op.
This explains why I'm a tad bitchy at times ❤️"
I'm with her. ⬆️ |
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"Can someone highlight where in my thread I did mention about me not succeeding or similar? "
Well, you wrote this in another thread that you started;
'A single man on fab is still penalized for being just a single man. You can write the best profile and put the best intentions out there but a pair of tits get 200 times more attention. Going to club is the only way to be successful for us.' (https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1634278)
If you say that going to clubs is the only way for single men to be successful, it does rather imply that you're not being very successful otherwise, no? |
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"Oh and Karma……..load of old bollocks. Just a random set of circumstances that happen upon us through life.
Yes Karma is a load of bollocks but I think when most people say karma they mean simply ‘what goes around comes around’ Which interesting is now backed by science.
I got mildly interested, I thought you said Korma.
I'd rather have karma than korma. I'm not keen on coconut."
I'd rather have jalfrezi, but it didn't suit the alliteration... |
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"This is exactly the issue with many members on this site—you skim the surface and fail to grasp the actual point someone is making. Nowhere did I mention being unsuccessful on FabSwingers, nor did I say I was unhappy with my overall experience. Yes, it’s true that some people don’t even bother to reply, but I’ve come to accept that.
What I actually highlighted in my original post is that too many members are rude, self-centered, and incapable of holding a proper conversation hence I used the word TRASH! Unfortunately, many of your responses only prove my point—it's clear that most of you didn't even read the entire thread, just the title.
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I think most replies aren't actually to you. As is the nature of the forums.
Also the title wasn't exactly nuanced and yet you're surprised by the way the thread has gone. 🤣🤣🤣 |
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OP, most, if not all of your OP posts have a certain degree of negativity about them. I can't be arsed to check your other contributions, but I imagine it's similar.
Perhaps it's time to just accept fab for what it is and play 'if the user above was an animal' instead. Or just leave the circus all together? |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
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That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong. |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong. "
Absolutely people join with the assumption that it's a hook up site and get frustrated when they realise they are required to actually put in some effort! |
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By *8on33Man 5 weeks ago
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"This is exactly the issue with many members on this site—you skim the surface and fail to grasp the actual point someone is making. Nowhere did I mention being unsuccessful on FabSwingers, nor did I say I was unhappy with my overall experience. Yes, it’s true that some people don’t even bother to reply, but I’ve come to accept that.
What I actually highlighted in my original post is that too many members are rude, self-centered, and incapable of holding a proper conversation hence I used the word TRASH! Unfortunately, many of your responses only prove my point—it's clear that most of you didn't even read the entire thread, just the title.
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I read it but it still inferred negativity toward the site in my opinion but my response was a positive one . |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong.
Absolutely people join with the assumption that it's a hook up site and get frustrated when they realise they are required to actually put in some effort!"
True, but it's also fair to say it's only guys who actually do - or need to - by and large. Everyone else only needs to check their inbox, as and when they feel like it. (Accepted the content of those inboxes aren't always what they'd wish by any means). |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong.
Absolutely people join with the assumption that it's a hook up site and get frustrated when they realise they are required to actually put in some effort!"
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong. "
Totally correct - many guys appear to miss this! |
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If single guys all stopped using Fab overnight not a soul would bat an eyelid. Accepting that without anger makes for a lot less angst.
Oh Hooky I’d be sad if the men stopped using Fab. Not even from a sexual point of view but I’ve had some lovely conversations and I enjoy the contributions men such as yourself and many others bring to the forum as well as club nights. I’m sure I’m not alone! "
To be fair I'm now somewhat of the opinion that I'm now at the point of being 'past my sell-by date', so am probably of a slightly more negative mindset than previously. I've had a good run though and I'm already not remotely missed at the club......there'll be another guy along in a minute. |
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"Oh and Karma……..load of old bollocks. Just a random set of circumstances that happen upon us through life.
Yes Karma is a load of bollocks but I think when most people say karma they mean simply ‘what goes around comes around’ Which interesting is now backed by science.
I got mildly interested, I thought you said Korma.
I'd rather have karma than korma. I'm not keen on coconut.
I'd rather have jalfrezi, but it didn't suit the alliteration... "
I'd rather have Jalfrezi than Justice. (Does that work?)
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"*sings*…”Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right of me and I’d like to be stuck in the middle with you!”"
Love that song! Classic. But can anyone now think of it without “that scene” from of “Reservoir dogs”? |
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"*sings*…”Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right of me and I’d like to be stuck in the middle with you!”
Love that song! Classic. But can anyone now think of it without “that scene” from of “Reservoir dogs”? "
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By *cflirtyMan 5 weeks ago
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"Some people seems to enjoy treating others members on fab like trash...but I do believe that sooner or later what goes around comes around. Karma docet!!!"
If it goes around and comes a round.. doee that make it a circus ring?  |
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"For a place that should be to do with passion it’s a bit shit that way "
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Passion went out of fashion in this place, in such disgrace. The men have lost their lustre and the women are all 'a fluster' with their machiavellian schemes. |
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
You make quite the valid point here.
Always said the amount of self entitlement and self indulgence on this site is ridiculous. Like you said all's this site is a hook up site. Nothing more. If you arent interested. Just move on.
Simple as."
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong.
Totally correct - many guys appear to miss this!"
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"Your absolutely correct
The amount of pure ignorance, arrogance and self adoration on here is ridiculous
People think they are all that
When this is a hook up for a fuck site
NOTHING MORE
A simple ‘ no thank you ‘ is enough
Not a torment of abuse at how your not appealing to them
That's the thing, it isn't a 'hook up to fuck site' as many of you guys think it is, it's a swinging site. The majority of couples and single females don't just hook up to fook, and that's where you're going wrong. "
Hook up for a fuck site
Absolutely nothing more |
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