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Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!! |
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By *LiamMan 6 weeks ago
Midlands |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
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people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen |
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?
Is that unreasonable?"
No it is not unreasonable. It’s also not unreasonable if OP says thanks but no thanks.
OP: do what _you_ want and don’t be bounced into something different. |
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By *WANDTGCouple 6 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen"
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
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A fwb doesn’t make you not single though |
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By *hilloutMan 6 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Good luck OP. It doesn’t sound like fun chat to have either way. She’s within her rights of course to change her mind on what she wants, just as you are to remain firm with your needs too."
Saves me having to type 😁 |
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?
Is that unreasonable?
no it isn't"
So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together. |
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
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I’m single in life and not looking to settle currently. We don’t swing as a couple and met outside here.
I should update pics, veries I can’t control!! |
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By *LiamMan 6 weeks ago
Midlands |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
A fwb doesn’t make you not single though "
saved me the typing  |
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"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?
Is that unreasonable?
no it isn't
So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together."
Exactly, I was just letting off steam before the conversation. |
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"
Was there really a need to start a thread about it??
It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything. |
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"It always happens  it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years "
Platonic is non sexual though isn’t it? I’ve had fwbs for longer. I just think it’s really important to be clear from the start what you want and what you will never want.
It is possible but probably rare. Depends on the people |
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Like any relationship people change.
It’s good to keep reevaluating your relationship to ensure you are both on the same page.
If her believes don’t align with yours or vice versa then you walk away.
Not sure what you’re venting about.
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Just tell her how you feel, if she wants a relationship/ monogamy and you don't shouldn't be difficult unless there's been something suggesting otherwise...if you've been intimate for two years there should be enough of an understanding of each other to respect each other's wishes... |
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Is there any question that a man can ask on these forums without people implying that he’s a lying cheat?
It’s draining to read the same old nonsense from men haters.
Op, I think that you already know the answer. Just be gentle with how you let her down. |
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By *aven.Woman 6 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
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It's a Fwb, he's still single.
And maybe he just can't be arsed. |
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!
Was there really a need to start a thread about it??
It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything."
And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait… |
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!
Was there really a need to start a thread about it??
It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything.
And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait…"
No-one said anything about being "forced"... |
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"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
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Why would he need to?
I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing |
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"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"
Well you have 2 choices, either accept things got a bit more serious! Or walk 
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By *ark73XXXMan 6 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"
Hope you’re ok - sounds like a tough position to be in. |
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By *ark73XXXMan 6 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen
Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?
Why would he need to?
I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing "
Spot on - people say some odd things on this forum |
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Not sure what your catching all the flak for OP.
If you're friend is having feelings of jealousy maybe it's something you can talk through and maybe it's just the end of this version of your friendship. Either way it's time to have the chat and see what the craic is.
I have experienced this with a long term FWB. We worked out easy through it and it made our friendship stronger. |
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By *ark73XXXMan 6 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
"What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too.
Is that so? In my experience it’s the men who do that. "
In my experience, it’s always women who do it |
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By *batMan 6 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .
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How is that weird? He’s got a single profile on here and there’s a friend elsewhere he’s fucking.
I don’t think that’s massively unusual is it? In fact lots of couples also have individual single accounts.
Move along, move along, nothing to see here!
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2 years is a long time for a fwb arrangement, maybe you need to have a conversation about where you are. These things only work if you are both on the same page and any feelings anyone has are clarified. |
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