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By *hill1965 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Camberley

Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Does she have a toothbrush at your place?

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By *WANDTGCouple 9 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

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By *ornycougaWoman 9 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Aaaand then he woke up

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Does she have a toothbrush at your place?"
it's his Nan's place.

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By *LiamMan 9 weeks ago

Midlands


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

"

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

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By *odgerMooreMan 9 weeks ago

Carlisle

Does she have pregnancy predictor kits and a blue sharpie at yours?

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By *vaRose43Woman 9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Good luck OP. It doesn’t sound like fun chat to have either way. She’s within her rights of course to change her mind on what she wants, just as you are to remain firm with your needs too.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?

Is that unreasonable?

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By *LiamMan 9 weeks ago

Midlands


"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?

Is that unreasonable?"

no it isn't

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By *ora the explorerWoman 9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

"

How’s it weird? I don’t show veris. He didn’t say he met them here either

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By *ellhungvweMan 9 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?

Is that unreasonable?"

No it is not unreasonable. It’s also not unreasonable if OP says thanks but no thanks.

OP: do what _you_ want and don’t be bounced into something different.

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By *WANDTGCouple 9 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen"

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

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By *hill1965 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Camberley


"Does she have a toothbrush at your place?"
🤣 don’t think we’ve ever had a meal together, let alone sleep over!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman 9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

"

A fwb doesn’t make you not single though

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By *hilloutMan 9 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Good luck OP. It doesn’t sound like fun chat to have either way. She’s within her rights of course to change her mind on what she wants, just as you are to remain firm with your needs too."

Saves me having to type 😁

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?

Is that unreasonable?

no it isn't"

So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together.

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By *hill1965 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Camberley


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

"

I’m single in life and not looking to settle currently. We don’t swing as a couple and met outside here.

I should update pics, veries I can’t control!!

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By *LiamMan 9 weeks ago

Midlands


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

A fwb doesn’t make you not single though "

saved me the typing

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

She’s probably trying to spare you the agony of continuing to try and get a meet from your single profile.

She’s a keeper IMHO

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By *hill1965 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Camberley


"So after two years of fucking each other she wants to reevaluate where the relationship is going?

Is that unreasonable?

no it isn't

So just have an open and honest conversation with her about what you both want and how it's possible to move forward for both of you, either individually or together."

Exactly, I was just letting off steam before the conversation.

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By *oldyoudown41Man 9 weeks ago

caledonian

It always happens it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years

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By *parkle1974Woman 9 weeks ago

Leeds


"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"

Was there really a need to start a thread about it??

It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything.

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By *ornyguyMan 9 weeks ago

Hillsborough, NI

Would you miss her if she stopped being your FWB and had to call it a day? Sometimes you don't know what you have until you lose it.

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By *parkle1974Woman 9 weeks ago

Leeds


"It always happens it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years "

I've had one that stayed platonic for over 20 years

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By *ora the explorerWoman 9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"It always happens it can never stay platonic especially after 2 years "

Platonic is non sexual though isn’t it? I’ve had fwbs for longer. I just think it’s really important to be clear from the start what you want and what you will never want.

It is possible but probably rare. Depends on the people

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By *959femxCouple 9 weeks ago

Weston super mare

A friend with benefits wants more so if you don’t say thank sorry you but I can’t commit to anything more and so we should end it . Problem ?

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By *eyond PurityCouple 9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Like any relationship people change.

It’s good to keep reevaluating your relationship to ensure you are both on the same page.

If her believes don’t align with yours or vice versa then you walk away.

Not sure what you’re venting about.

K

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By *laytonAMan 9 weeks ago

Newport

Just tell her how you feel, if she wants a relationship/ monogamy and you don't shouldn't be difficult unless there's been something suggesting otherwise...if you've been intimate for two years there should be enough of an understanding of each other to respect each other's wishes...

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By *icolerobbieCouple 9 weeks ago

walsall

Is there any question that a man can ask on these forums without people implying that he’s a lying cheat?

It’s draining to read the same old nonsense from men haters.

Op, I think that you already know the answer. Just be gentle with how you let her down.

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By *aven.Woman 9 weeks ago

Not the North West...


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

"

It's a Fwb, he's still single.

And maybe he just can't be arsed.

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By *aven.Woman 9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

This is also why I just fuck em and leave em.

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By *ea monkeyMan 9 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!

Was there really a need to start a thread about it??

It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything."

And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait…

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By *parkle1974Woman 9 weeks ago

Leeds


"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!

Was there really a need to start a thread about it??

It's not like you are asking fir advice or anything.

And then you were forced to read it and comment. Oh wait…"

No-one said anything about being "forced"...

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By *eordieJeansCouple 9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Next time you see her take a football with you, “accidentally” kick it over a fence, climb over the fence to “retrieve” the ball and never return.

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By *hill1965 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

Camberley


"Would you miss her if she stopped being your FWB and had to call it a day? Sometimes you don't know what you have until you lose it."

It can only ever be FWB, and yes I enjoy it currently.

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

The conversation should be at best a text saying "lmao no"

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By *eroLondonMan 9 weeks ago

Covent Garden

You certainly have some interesting conversations coming up with her, OP. Whatever you both decide I hope it all works out mutually for you both. 🩶 Good luck.

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By *entleman JayMan 9 weeks ago

Wakefield

What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too.

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By *vaRose43Woman 9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

"

Why would he need to?

I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing

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By *ovebjsMan 9 weeks ago

Bristol


"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"

Well you have 2 choices, either accept things got a bit more serious! Or walk

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By *ark73XXXMan 9 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire


"Just venting, have a FWB who wants “us” to stop swinging. We’ve never been and aren’t in a vanilla relationship or even been committed, but she seems to have new ideas after 2 years. This is going to be some interesting conversations coming up!!"

Hope you’re ok - sounds like a tough position to be in.

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By *ark73XXXMan 9 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

people meet outside of fab too. A woman who I see regluar isn't here. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Fine, so why not update pics and change single status then ?

Why would he need to?

I have a single profile but I’m married and I’m here with my husbands consent. Your statement implies I should have a couples profile despite the fact he doesn’t currently swing "

Spot on - people say some odd things on this forum

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By *electableicecreamMan 9 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan 9 weeks ago

The West

Not sure what your catching all the flak for OP.

If you're friend is having feelings of jealousy maybe it's something you can talk through and maybe it's just the end of this version of your friendship. Either way it's time to have the chat and see what the craic is.

I have experienced this with a long term FWB. We worked out easy through it and it made our friendship stronger.

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By *ora the explorerWoman 9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too. "

Is that so? In my experience it’s the men who do that.

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By *ark73XXXMan 9 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire


"What I’ve learnt about women is they change and what they want from a relationship changes too.

Is that so? In my experience it’s the men who do that. "

In my experience, it’s always women who do it

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By *electableicecreamMan 9 weeks ago

The West

We worked our *way through it.

I can't spoll today

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By *batMan 9 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Weird as you're down as a single male, also no activity on veris since 2019 and years old pics .

"

How is that weird? He’s got a single profile on here and there’s a friend elsewhere he’s fucking.

I don’t think that’s massively unusual is it? In fact lots of couples also have individual single accounts.

Move along, move along, nothing to see here!

Gbat

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By *odgerMooreMan 9 weeks ago

Carlisle


"This is also why I just fuck em and leave em.

"

We should really get started on this…. So you’re eventually able to leave me!!

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman 9 weeks ago

Birmingham

2 years is a long time for a fwb arrangement, maybe you need to have a conversation about where you are. These things only work if you are both on the same page and any feelings anyone has are clarified.

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By *herry delightWoman 9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

After only 2 years, it normally takes 2 years for me to remember there name.

This is why I don't let things get beyon FB no awkward conversations.

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