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"One who said he was getting a drink from the bar but ran out to his car and drove off, another one turned up so pissed he couldn't get it up. Other than that mostly positive meets" some people are a waste of space unfortunately | |||
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"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long." Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations. All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk . | |||
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"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long. Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations. All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk . " If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience. | |||
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"A couple of people have tried to 'stealth' me, but eagle-eye'd hubby spotted what they were up to, and 'helped' them on their way out with a piece of 2x4. Another guy was a clearly impotent, but hoping for a miracle when it came time to get down to business. He became increasingly frustrated, with his temper matching. He ended up becoming really rough with me, and he too was "helped" out the door. Worst of all was early last month, when we had a guy due in for spanking & sex. Long story short, he was a sadistic bastard, with zero regard for both my comfort nor my welfare. It wasn't long before I was literally bleeding, and my husband wanted to take his head off, but I gave him a discrete signal to stay back. My genuine protests ignored, I gritted my teeth and let him get it over with. I'm a big girl, and can handle myself, but I didn't want him to think he'd beaten me mentally as well as physically. He didn't even want sex after, which was probably just as well, as I wasn't in the mood for it! As it turned out, he was only there for the sadistic trashing, in spite of his initial claims. I heal very quickly, but the bruises took weeks clear up, and I have a couple of scars from the cane welts. Usually, my husband is very good at sussing out potential troublemakers, as he is good at "reading" people through messages, and figuring out if they're hiding an ulterior motive. On this occasion, the guy had no personality to read. He spoke in a monotone, and had no sense of humour or irony, which is how he slipped through the net. His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read. As hubby said: "It was like playing poker with a robot - there are no 'tells' because there aren't any emotions". A good candidate for "worst meeting". "OMG … that is awful …. | |||
"OMG … that is awful …. " Yep, pretty bad.
Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.
Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.
He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed. | |||
" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read." All that lack is THE thing to read  | |||
" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read. All that lack is THE thing to read "But even THAT didn't come across in the messages. My husband has managed to stump professional psychologists who take pride in being able to read people - they just can't read him. Even with his abilities in that area (he's a journalist) it was a no-win scenario. When you are consorting with dominant men, there is often a degree of arrogance which comes with the territory, making things worse. I have to stress that this guy was NOT on Fab. Well, you live and learn. I had a spanking/roleplay/sex session last week, and can happily report that the experience hasn't left any lasting psychological damage. | |||
"OMG … that is awful …. Yep, pretty bad.
Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.
Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.
He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed."Did he get a magnificent orgasm though? Perhaps more of us could perfect the sneeze and cum routine | |||
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" His lack of humanity and emotions meant he was impossible to read. All that lack is THE thing to read
But even THAT didn't come across in the messages. My husband has managed to stump professional psychologists who take pride in being able to read people - they just can't read him. Even with his abilities in that area (he's a journalist) it was a no-win scenario. When you are consorting with dominant men, there is often a degree of arrogance which comes with the territory, making things worse. I have to stress that this guy was NOT on Fab.
Well, you live and learn. I had a spanking/roleplay/sex session last week, and can happily report that the experience hasn't left any lasting psychological damage."I'm sorry but allowing him to carry on, don't you think that gave him the impression that it's OK and now he will go on to do it again? Maybe to someone and not take notice /ignore if they want to stop? | |||
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"OMG … that is awful …. Yep, pretty bad.
Had another guy who was really screwing away, but he started twitching his nose like a rabbit. He pulled out and excused himself for a second as he desperately fought to stifle a sneeze which was clearly on the way.
Sure enough, he let out an almighty sneeze, which resounded around the room, quickly followed by a very disappointed look on his face. The turned sheer magnitude of his sneeze had caused him to blow his wad as well as his nose.
He almost trudged out the door, and he didn't come back, which I don't blame him, as he was clearly VERY embarrassed."I can relate to having a really good sneeze, | |||
"Met a woman years ago went down on her and it stank so bad its completely put me off oral and now i find it as a stumbling block when i say i dont go down. Its an insecurity of mine now" Yup - all you women pushing our heads down there, pretending that it’s nectar of the gods when you know damn well it’s a bit musty having had a quick rub and a smell of your fingers… 😂 | |||
"Worst meet up experiences " Probably the one with the machete. | |||
"Worst meet up experiences Probably the one with the machete." Sounds kinky, what went wrong exactly? | |||
"Worst meet up experiences Probably the one with the machete." Huh. That's normal for Glasgow. | |||
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Or the meet where the couple’s dog had a wee on my leg
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"One who said he was getting a drink from the bar but ran out to his car and drove off, another one turned up so pissed he couldn't get it up. Other than that mostly positive meets" Someone actually did that! Can only think he was nervous! You’re a stunner | |||
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"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care. Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there. So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted. Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. " A familiar experience from my drag years unfortunately. Tgirls give straight guys enough visual excuse to convince themselves it’s not guy on guy. One reason why I keep things strictly ‘femboi’ these days. | |||
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"This wasn't Fab, but Plenty Of Freaks about six years ago. Within moments of meeting in a pub, it became clear that she wasn't seeking romance. She was looking for a hitman to take care of her ex-husband. I made my excuses and left.omg bloody hell It turned out that she was known to local authorities, who regard her as harmless, and didn't actually have an ex-husband." | |||
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Spoiled the mood a little. | |||
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"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care. Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there. So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted. Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. " When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable | |||
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"I’ve mentioned it in other threads, so I won’t recount the whole story apart from it needing police intervention and a restraining order." yes i always wonder when some people put meet now at mine on there status | |||
"A few years back in a club, was with a cpl and another guy, they were up the top end and I got invited to the neither regions of the lady.. anyway, we all had a good time, so I thought until we were getting dressed and the hubby took the hump with me for pleasuring his good lady with my tongue… put it down the shot yr load jealousy aftermath moment …. But made me weary in the future …. " Post nut clarity will getcha | |||
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"Not my experience. Honest. No I mean it! I am friends with a couple and they arranged to see a lovely lady for a lovely but if 3way loving and whilst he was making tender, sweet love to her from behind, in her ass, his wife is licking both her and him. He withdraws and by all accounts a large clegnut is attached to his love rod. His wife looks at him, he looks at her and he shrugs. What to do? She flicks the clegnut off his lieberwurst and it flies across the room and sticks on the TV screen and play continued. It was the single woman's house. The wife told me this." Sometimes I just open the wrong threads. | |||
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"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care. Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there. So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted. Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable " Just read your experience and it made me shudder, hope you’re doing better now.  | |||
"When I was a lot younger and experimenting with my sexuality a guy chatted me up in a club. I stupidly went back to his place and even though he’d told me he was straight (by the way he knew I was a guy) I didn’t really care. Unfortunately after he came it suddenly dawned on him that his heterosexuality was in danger. He started to have a go at me, I thought any second now he’ll attack me, so I gathered up my clothes, luckily I still had most of them on and got out of there. So it’s always annoying when straight guys message and try to convince me they’re bi. Some of us have had bad experiences with guys who are experimenting but afterwards are ashamed of what ‘they’ wanted. Luckily for me a one off, but I’ve known other Tgirls had the same frightening experiences as well. When I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, I spoke to a couple of Tgirls with a view to maybe meeting and at least one of them had a similar tale and declined my offer. Which is more than understandable Just read your experience and it made me shudder, hope you’re doing better now. "Thanks. I'm fine, it was just a total shock and I definitely got off lightly compared to what could have happened. I deleted my account straight after it and it was a year before I rejoined. I'm not even sure if the guy is still on here | |||
"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long. Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations. All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk . If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience." * puts down her glass of wine  | |||
"I have only really had one “bad” social - a couple turned up, she was clearly d*unk. Not sure if it was dutch courage or whatever but I didn’t stay around long. Good choice there can’t be fucking around with d*unk women as you need to protect yourself incase they flip their biscuit later and start slinging accusations. All oh men friends have a zero drink hookup policy with dates because of this risk . If I have a social or meet then I always make sure I drive so I have an excuse not to drink too much. Alcohol and swinging don’t mix well in my experience. * puts down her glass of wine "Don't, you'll need your wine goggles to meet me. | |||
