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By *Dan85 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips |
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You are doing better than a loy of others of you are talking to people on here. Myself included haha.
Maybe life just gets in the way for some people
I should get tips of you if you are at least talking and arranging meets  |
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Go to their area from their profile.. and walk around until you bump into them. Then as them in person why??? Why oh why?
No I jest…there’s approximately 14.73 million guys to each woman and couple on fab…so really it’s just a waiting game.. one will meet…and then like busses you’ll have them queuing
No, again I joke…. Just fit to keep trying…forum interaction ,…planned area socials? At least you’re having messages right? That’s something  |
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Not saying this is your situation be someone sends us a hello message; next they want to have sex with Mrs. For us it doesn't work.
May be in your instance things were moving a bit too fast or mixed messages.
I'd recommend meeting people, go to socials and/or clubs. Get to know them and then take it from there. Be social first and usually the rest will follow. |
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By *Dan85 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Go to their area from their profile.. and walk around until you bump into them. Then as them in person why??? Why oh why?
No I jest…there’s approximately 14.73 million guys to each woman and couple on fab…so really it’s just a waiting game.. one will meet…and then like busses you’ll have them queuing
No, again I joke…. Just fit to keep trying…forum interaction ,…planned area socials? At least you’re having messages right? That’s something "
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"Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips "
My guess is picking the wrong people
As soon as the sexy chat starts, I'm out
Most (or at the very least, a lot of) people are here with a common will and wish to meet
There are different approaches to reaching that goal
Find which approach works best for you
Find others that approach it similarly
My only tip is as soon as the chat goes beyond the 'hello's', if it starts going down the 'sexy chat' avenue, stop it and steer it away from there
That will, to a degree, separate the chatters from the meeters |
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By *8on33Man 6 weeks ago
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"Honest the past month has been so frustrating I've talked to loads of people we get to a point of arranging and then it's either silent or no can't meet. What am I doing wrong?? Any tips "
Maybe it's the way you message, maybe it's your pics ,maybe it's your lack of profile or maybe your just another guy and it's not easy for guys .
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Just go to a club, act like a normal person and speak to people. Get some verifications, this will help. You’re going to really struggle to get a meet without verifications. We wouldn’t meet anyone without and I think most women/couples are the same
Oh and missing on here is supposedly one of the biggest turn offs from what we’ve read |
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"Not saying this is your situation be someone sends us a hello message; next they want to have sex with Mrs. For us it doesn't work.
May be in your instance things were moving a bit too fast or mixed messages.
I'd recommend meeting people, go to socials and/or clubs. Get to know them and then take it from there. Be social first and usually the rest will follow."
I agree. Don’t bother with the ‘hello’ bit, get straight in there. A whole list of things you’re gonna do and say and a 10 minute breakdown of what the evening will look like might work. |
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